When you ask a girl out and she says "maybe"; what does that mean?

[HAMY-D]

Hi guys?

Last week I asked a girl that I have liked for a couple months now out on a date since she has showed me some signs that she liked me or was just for a friend. We have had many conversations together and she would say hi everytime I saw her. Now I asked her out and this is how the conversation went:

I asked her first if she was busy on weekend and
she responded with that, "she was drinking on saturday" (so in the back of my mind, I was
thinking, ok she might be available on sunday ).When I asked if she wanted to go to the movies on sunday she responded with a "maybe" response. I asked her again if she wasn't sure, she responded "not really dear".

When a girl says maybe or not really, what does it usually mean ? Should I ask her out again after a couple more days later or just take it that she rejected me for good?

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

Either she is PLAYING HARD TO GET(BUYING TIME) or she doesn't want to go out with you BUT SHE JUST CANT SAY NO because she feels sorry for you!

 

[General8]

It's a self analytical matter of a thing, what comes in your mind when she tells you all the numbers of excuses?

 

[The Boss]

how old are you?

you don't ask her that way....

you just ask the wrong way...

when a woman is given a chance to say no, 90 percent they say no...
just learn to ask without actually asking

 

[Mshinga]

when she says "may be" she means "probably"

 

[HAMY-D]

It's a self analytical matter of a thing, what comes in your mind when she tells you all the numbers of excuses?

Actually, she didn't tell me any excuse. I didn't even bother to ask why she refuses.

 

[Gwankaja Gwakilingo]

mvimilivu hula mbivu

 

[HAMY-D]

Either she is PLAYING HARD TO GET(BUYING TIME) or she doesn't want to go out with you BUT SHE JUST CANT SAY NO because she feels sorry for you!

So you're telling me to keep waiting. What if she is not into me, don't you think im going to waste my time and energy?

 

[Mshinga]

when she says "not real",she means "not true"

 

[General8]

Then usikonde mwanangu, we mwanaume, kaza buti,atalegea tu. Lakin kumbuka, Kama wewe n wakiume, itakula kwako, ohoooo

Actually, she didn't tell me any excuse. I didn't even bother to ask why she refuses.

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

So you're telling me to keep waiting. What if she is not into me, don't you think im going to waste my time and energy?

Thats your decision to make,are you willing to sacrifice your time and energy to play hide and seek or just forgetting her and moving on???

 

[HAMY-D]

when she says "not real",she means "not true"

I asked, if she wasn't sure. She replied that "not really". In this case, if she means not true, then it implies what?

 

[faby]

Ahhh mambo ya facebook

 

[HAMY-D]

Thats your decision to make,are you willing to sacrifice your time and energy to play hide and seek or just forgetting her and moving on???

My point is, if a woman is interested in you, she will drop her other plans to be available to go out with you or if she can't on that day, at least she can put some alternatives like may be next time or something.

 

[Gorgeousmimi]

My point is, if a woman is interested in you, she will drop her other plans to be available to go out with you or if she can't on that day, at least she can put some alternatives like may be next time or something.

Ofcourse she would do that without a doubt!!

 

[Niwemugizi]

Hi guys?

Last week I asked a girl that I have liked for a couple months now out on a date since she has showed me some signs that she liked me or was just for a friend. We have had many conversations together and she would say hi everytime I saw her. Now I asked her out and this is how the conversation went:

I asked her first if she was busy on weekend and
she responded with that, "she was drinking on saturday" (so in the back of my mind, I was
thinking, ok she might be available on sunday ).When I asked if she wanted to go to the movies on sunday she responded with a "maybe" response. I asked her again if she wasn't sure, she responded "not really dear".

When a girl says maybe or not really, what does it usually mean ? Should I ask her out again after a couple more days later or just take it that she rejected me for good?

Mtaka cha uvunguni shurti ainame, wewe just take it ease if she will not appear on Sunday just calm down maybe after 2 sunday again just remind her kwamba let go to the movies na pia labda wewe unakosea ndugu yangu yawezekana yeye hata si mtu wa movies wala nini wewe angalia anapenda nini hata kama ni pombe ama dansi sema hicho hicho then msikilizie.Ukikomaa nae miezi miwili unapata jibu la maybe tu jua huyo si wako anakolewea hiyo jumamosi ndiko kwake

 

[kwamtoro]

Taratibu kijana, hata sisi tulikuwa hivyo hivyo ndio maana hili bandiko lako tunaona ni kitu kidogo sana kwenye uwanja wa mahabati. Kadri mda utakavyo enda utapata uzoefu. Kwa sasa hivi mimi najiuliza why mostly of ladies hard to ask man out.

 

[Bin Kawambwa]

We si alikupa nafasi ya J'mosi kuwa atakuwa anadrink, sasa uliogopa nini? Huna hela ya vinywaji au we hunywi? Btw zote si sababu, hiyo J'mosi ni nafasi tosha sana. Ukisubiri akwambie ni lini yuko free basi utasubiri sana, hawaishagi visingizio hawa.

 

[HAMY-D]

Taratibu kijana, hata sisi tulikuwa hivyo hivyo ndio maana hili bandiko lako tunaona ni kitu kidogo sana kwenye uwanja wa mahabati. Kadri mda utakavyo enda utapata uzoefu. Kwa sasa hivi mimi najiuliza why mostly of ladies hard to ask man out.

So you're telling me you've passed with cases like mine?

But what you've pointed out to be your current problem. I passed it many years back. So, who is going to be a teacher here?

 

[lara 1]

Mhhhhhhhhhh!