What Does Confidence Really Mean?

[herrypeter1]

Even if you’re not feeling fly like Bruno Mars, try and act like you are, but don’t try too hard, because that’s obvious and a turnoff

We hear a lot about confidence as a key factor of attraction, but many men don't quite understand what, exactly, is meant by "confidence." So I would ask the lovely ladies: To you, what is an example of confidence in a man, and what is an example/sign of a lack of confidence

Nine times out of 10, when you ask a woman what attracts her to a man, she'll reply with one simple word (as if it were just so straightforward and obvious): "confidence." If I were a man, specifically one who is soliciting advice, as I presume many of you are, I think I would find that reply to be incredibly frustrating, quite limiting and all around just pretty unhelpful. So, with that in mind, I’m going to try and explain this mythological “confidence” -- how to get it, what it looks like and also how women can spot a man who is faking it or overcompensating for his lack thereof.

Confidence is an attitude, a demeanor of coolness, a “swagger,” if you will. Confidence is not something that you can wear like a T-shirt or a gold watch, but it is something that can be enhanced by putting on a fresh, crisp new item of clothing or by putting a little extra effort into your physical appearance. It’s a certain pep in your step. A way of walking. A contagious charisma. It’s seductive. It makes all people, not just women, gravitate toward a man and want to be around him, in the hopes of catching just a little bit of his energy. And also to see what else he’s got going on underneath that, and most important, whether or not he can back it up. Contrary to what many men have been wrongly brainwashed by the media to believe, you do not have to be rich to have confidence.

 

[IGWE]

Kiinglish happa naseppa bila kurudi nyuma...lo!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Did you write this on your own or you lifted it from somewhere? Be honest, please.

 

[herrypeter1]

Did you write this on your own or you lifted it from somewhere? Be honest, please.

Be honest please???????? ni kama wataka nipa kazi ati kwa vile naandika>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<<<<<

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Be honest please???????? ni kama wataka nipa kazi ati kwa vile naandika>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Wewe hii umeinakili kutoka hapa. Safari ijayo utoe attribution.

 

[Mchambuzi]

Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.

Mkuu Mchambuzi kumbe na huku unakujaga? Mi nilidhani we ni muzee wa siasa tu.

 

[The Boss]

Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.

umerahisisha mno
wapo watu mfano kina Bill Gates
wako very accomplished kwenye maeneo yao
but ukimuweka kwenye lift na mdada yeyote mzuri
'hana confidence hata ya kutoa hi anabaki kutetemeka tu'

 

[Safari_ni_Safari]

Did you write this on your own or you lifted it from somewhere? Be honest, please.

You are damn right.......I caught him brother... What Does Confidence Mean? - AskMen

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

umerahisisha mno
wapo watu mfano kina Bill Gates
wako very accomplished kwenye maeneo yao
but ukimuweka kwenye lift na mdada yeyote mzuri
'hana confidence hata ya kutoa hi anabaki kutetemeka tu'

Boss wewe ndo nadhani hujamuelewa Mchambuzi. Kama Bill Gates ukimuweka kwenye elevator na mdada mzuri na akashindwa kutoa hata hi na akabaki anatetemeka basi atakuwa hana 'belief in himself and his abilities.

Mchambuzi's line is concise and to the point.

 

[Leak]

Yaaaaaaah

Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.

 

[Blaine]

umerahisisha mno
wapo watu mfano kina Bill Gates
wako very accomplished kwenye maeneo yao
but ukimuweka kwenye lift na mdada yeyote mzuri
'hana confidence hata ya kutoa hi anabaki kutetemeka tu'

when u have as much as gates, ladies will just throw themselves at u.

on topic: confidence is believing that u have what it takes to make it in w/e u choose

 

[The Boss]

Boss wewe ndo nadhani hujamuelewa Mchambuzi. Kama Bill Gates ukimuweka kwenye elevator na mdada mzuri na akashindwa kutoa hata hi na akabaki anatetemeka basi atakuwa hana 'belief in himself and his abilities.

Mchambuzi's line is concise and to the point.

sasa kama Bill Gates atakuwa hana confidence na haamini hi ability

kwa sababu ya a girl.....

na upande wa success zake je?
amewezaje kuwa successful?

 

[herrypeter1]

Wewe hii umeinakili kutoka hapa. Safari ijayo utoe attribution.

eheee nilipata kufurai ona watu wa jf mnajua nanyi kuwa mpo apaaaa askmen.com
mwapata kutumia na kuelewa jinsi yetu in finding information

 

[Masanilo]

Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities, kwisha.

Confidence

is a noun

meaning ... trust, belief, faith, credence, conviction,.....

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

sasa kama Bill Gates atakuwa hana confidence na haamini hi ability

kwa sababu ya a girl.....

na upande wa success zake je?
amewezaje kuwa successful?

You can't be good in everything. Kama Bill Gates ni successful katika mambo ya innovation na entrepreneurship hiyo haimaanishi hata kwa totoz atakuwa mack daddy.

Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player ever but that doesn't mean he can rap like Lil' Wayne or run like Usain Bolt.

Kwa hiyo Bill Gates ameweza kuwa na mafanikio katika fani yake kwa sababu anaamini kuwa ana uwezo katika hiyo fani. Uwezo katika fani moja ama mbili haimaanishi uwezo katika fani zote.

 

[The Boss]

You can't be good in everything. Kama Bill Gates ni successful katika mambo ya innovation na entrepreneurship hiyo haimaanishi hata kwa totoz atakuwa mack daddy.

Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player ever but that doesn't mean he can rap like Lil' Wayne or run like Usain Bolt.

sasa hapa sio sawa na kusema confidence is believing in urself and your abilities....
kwa sababu unaweza kuwa na confidence kwenye jambo moja
na usiwe na confidence kwa mengine

so Mchambuzi hajajibu swali la muanzisha mada

 

[Elizabeth Dominic]

sasa kama Bill Gates atakuwa hana confidence na haamini hi ability

kwa sababu ya a girl.....

na upande wa success zake je?
amewezaje kuwa successful?

Bosi The Boss nadhani no matter how successful you are, inawezekana kuna areas ukawa weak. Say you are very good in bed and you are confident about it but when it comes to work you perfom miserably so you cant be successful in everything

 

[The Boss]

when u have as much as gates, ladies will just throw themselves at u.

on topic: confidence is believing that u have what it takes to make it in w/e u choose

not all the time

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

sasa hapa sio sawa na kusema confidence is believing in urself and your abilities....
kwa sababu unaweza kuwa na confidence kwenye jambo moja
na usiwe na confidence kwa mengine

so Mchambuzi hajajibu swali la muanzisha mada

Mchambuzi kasema "Confidence simply means belief in yourself and belief in your abilities". Sioni ambacho Mchambuzi hajajibu maana alichoandika kiko self explanatory.