Wanting to give attention to someone who appreciates it

Wanting to give attention to someone who appreciates it

Ukimpata akikupenda ataanza kuwa na wivu na mkeo..that's where troubles will begin...…..

Communication is the key,stop being such a crying baby...you know where exactly the problem is ,fix it..... what if the next woman in your life,doesnt give you 'attention' that you think you should have,will you keep searching ....??
 
chaliifrancisco said:
Your wife is your first friend bro. What you're looking for is more trouble. Solve your mishaps with your wife and focus on your marriage.

Talk to each other, it's the only natural remedy.
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Bro thanks,but what you really need to understand is i married a girl from a wealthy family and she is beautifull.but from these 3 years we've lived together am fed up with her and i cant just divorce her right away bcoz of my parents.
 
Inaitwa dawa ya moto ni moto. Kwenye mapenzi haifanyi kazi. Unaenda kumiliki pasua vichwa wawili. Tegemea kuchanganyikiwa manake watakuwa wanapokezana, ukienda kule unapigwa ukija huku unapigwa. Mmoja tu anakuumiza kichwa, wawili utaweza?
 
Hahaha pole sana, usije ukawa ni wale walioforce kumuoa mwanamke wakati alikuwa hakutaki.

I had i girl back then na kwao wanakauwezo flani ivi, kuna jamaa akawa anaforce king kumuoa huyo bi dada mwisho wa siku girl akawa hana namna kutokana na pressure ya wazazi maana jamaa alikuwa anajipendekeza balaa.

Haijapita muda bidada ananitafta analia kila siku. She is not happy with her busband na migogoro kibao. Huwa namshauri tu wakae wayamalize lakini hali ni mbaya. She is ready to do anything at anytime. Na mimi hekima na imani inaniambia ndoa na iheshimiwe na watu wote. Wanaume huwa tunakosea sana kulazimisha mambo.
 
Rebeca 83 said:
Ukimpata akikupenda ataanza kuwa na wivu na mkeo..that's where troubles will begin...…..

Communication is the key,stop being such a crying baby...you know where exactly the problem is ,fix it..... what if the next woman in your life,doesnt give you 'attention' that you think you should have,will you keep searching ....??
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One thing you need to understand is our marriage was arranged marriage.we didnt know eachother or anything..

Mwanamke yupo busy na kwao mda wote kama hajaolewa,mwanamke haniskilizi kabisa akiamua lake kaamua.
 
Hunyu said:
Hahaha pole sana, usije ukawa ni wale walioforce kumuoa mwanamke wakati alikuwa hakutaki.

I had i girl back then na kwao wanakauwezo flani ivi, kuna jamaa akawa anaforce king kumuoa huyo bi dada mwisho wa siku girl akawa hana namna kutokana na pressure ya wazazi maana jamaa alikuwa anajipendekeza balaa.

Haijapita muda bidada ananitafta analia kila siku. She is not happy with her busband na migogoro kibao. Huwa namshauri tu wakae wayamalize lakini hali ni mbaya. She is ready to do anything at anytime. Na mimi hekima na imani inaniambia ndoa na iheshimiwe na watu wote. Wanaume huwa tunakosea sana kulazimisha mambo.
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Inawezekana japo mimi sijalazimisha ila inaonesha hakutaka kuolewa na mimi
 
Pole mkuu..you are married to wrong person..na uyaonayo ndo matokeo ya ndoa za kupangwa.hana hisia nawe,hakufurahii..yani mpo tu mradi kuwafurahisha wazazi..
Huu ni utumwa..
Mapenzi ni hisia,ni urafiki.
Blame it on your parents..
Ndugu yangu alifanya maamuzi ya kuolewa miaka kadhaa ulopita..mume alikua anapretend..lakini alivoingia ndani rasmi alikiona cha moto..mpaka sasa anasuffer na hana pa kwenda.
Ndoa mie zinisubiri tu,baadae sana!
 
aggyjay said:
Pole mkuu..you are married to wrong person..na uyaonayo ndo matokeo ya ndoa za kupangwa.hana hisia nawe,hakufurahii..yani mpo tu mradi kuwafurahisha wazazi..
Huu ni utumwa..
Mapenzi ni hisia,ni urafiki.
Blame it on your parents..
Ndugu yangu alifanya maamuzi ya kuolewa miaka kadhaa ulopita..mume alikua anapretend..lakini alivoingia ndani rasmi alikiona cha moto..mpaka sasa anasuffer na hana pa kwenda.
Ndoa mie zinisubiri tu,baadae sana!
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Nashkuru sana kwa kunielewa,huna ulichokosea..
 
Akotia said:
Bro thanks,but what you really need to understand is i married a girl from a wealthy family and she is beautifull.but from these 3 years we've lived together am fed up with her and i cant just divorce her right away bcoz of my parents.
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Okay seems like there was no love from the beginning. Feels like you married her because of the wealth her family possesses.

Now that you live together you are fed up and you can't divorce her because of your parents?

Why? Is that marriage between you, your wife and your parents? Don't have your own stand? For how long are you planning to stay like that, i mean living with a woman you don't love no more just because your parents won't let you divorce her?

Endelea nae bro kibishibishi ila kuna siku mtabadilishana majengo ya serikali. Ila kama ukiwa mwanaume jikaze kiume amsha zako achana na mambo ambayo yatakuja kukugharimu big time.
 
Pole mno kwa changamoto!
Ila kuwa humu ndani tayari una marafiki wa kutosha!

Ukiwa haupo sawa ingia humu pita kwenye majukwaa, kuna story za kutosha! Nyingine zinatia moyo, zinachekesha, zinafundisha unaweza kutana na mada ukahisi wewe unaishi paradiso!

Halafu urafiki wa humu huwa unakuja automatically tuu unajikuta una marafiki wa kutosha!

Pole mno!
 
Akotia said:
Im 27 married man but unhappy and looking for someone who would like the attention of a laid back mature man to have an adult friendship respecting each other and our personal lives as well understanding

im not looking to change current situation or yours. Im just looking for a friendship that is appreciated and welcomes the chance to fill voids we are missing personally
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Myaka 27 machua? Aisee
 
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