Mambo!! From my experience nakushauri ufanye vitu viwili 1. Be successful au work hard in whatever your doing iwe kazini, business etc 2. Be Educated as much as you can yani maliza mpaka PHD na ukiweza Post doctor kabisa. Kwa sababu most woman wanatafuta some sort of security, yani wanakua attracted na mtu ambaye yuko focus na ataweza kutake care of the family(raising kids, pay bills, pay tution fees), kwahiyo wanaangalia sana your life achievements (shule,kazi, biashara etc). Wala usihangaike mitaani just focus on yourself. Yani ukifocus na hivyo vitu viwili uataona your Mrs Right unampata kirahisi bila ya wewe kustress. Goodluck