Lakini pia kuna issue ya kuwa mkweli. Wapo wanaosema honest is honest and the truth is the truth. Kuwa mkweli inaweza kuwa brutal vilevile or loving kutegemeana na attitude ya mtu anayeambiwa. Wapo wanawake wanaopenda kuujua ukweli in gentle way. Wengine just like men to spit the truth out. Na hii inaconfuse sana wanaume b'se some women get mad at them either way.
Paragraph ya kwanza nakubaliana nawe but if you love your lady hata kama you are brutally honest, then you are not considerate of her feelings thus her wellbeing as well.
Paragraph ya pili am more interested in the red... Hakuna a Lady who does not want her man to be gentle with her especially if its going to hurt her feelings... Ukweli ni kweli ndio but the way una deliver huo ukweli, thats the issue...
Paragraph ya tatu I can handle the truth especially from a man ambae siko romantically involved its easy to take .... Akiniambia Asha D hata uvae namna gani huvutii... sitajali i will work hard for i know am a woman and i have to play part to succeed in looking good. But my lover akiniambia hivyo... You lose confidence mbele yake, mana kila saa u will be thinking what he thinks of you (na usiombe a hot lady apite- ni suicide...)
Paragraph 4 I LOVE IT ... but more applicable katika perspective and focus ya kuangalia maisha.... In relation ships its not that hard mradi umsome you love one...
Paragraph 5 - The most important ni the question...
Do you think these responses will help us to be one step closer to being in touch with our inner beings?
I will answer it in case of relationships...
I believe in a relationship kila moja anatakiwa amsome mpenzi wake... How does s/he respond to certain things?
How can s/he handle and take things/issues? How can i tell if s/he is sad, happy, normal? How strong is s/he in stress realated issues? etc.... By knowing this you will find at the end of the day it depends on the nature of an individual and the relationship itself....
And finally I like your outlook on the matter...