This lady, I need your advise

[kanchibay]

There is this lady I have been pursuing and i want to make it serious (marriage). I once asked her whether she has a guy and she said yes. Later she started showing interest. So i decided to pursue her yet again and I did let her know how i am serious about her and everything. She has been responding quite positively and we were planning to meet next coming week. It was only yesterday night that i saw that she had put a profile picture of a certain guy she was referring to her as Beib and wishing her good health because he was sick. So i was quite surprised because she has never raised the issue of boyfriend or so in our recent conversations. So i decided to comment on her status and asked her who the guy was. she read my message and did not respond to it. In addition she quickly deleted that whatsapp status of the guy she had put. I have not talked to her again by phone. So i am thinking whether I should just leave this thing and let the lady go or either way because I really like the lady and I came into equation late, I should continue pursuing her and force/pressure her make a decision on which side she is.

Love is all about commitment and agreement, on top to that at the beginning why didn't you consider and take into considerations a lady's answer!!!!?

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[Mother Confessor]

Kisamvu sili nakula nyama.

vio_vio fanya umelete huku.

D hujaonja wewee...aki vilee hujui tam yake,mwambie v akuonjeshe😎

 

[Daby]

D hujaonja wewee...aki vilee hujui tam yake,mwambie v akuonjeshe

V nionjeshe basi nione utamu wake.

 

[Mother Confessor]

Kuna basi linaitwa simba mtoto.

Hahhaha ushakuwa simba mtoto badala ya simba mzee😂

 

[Daby]

Hahhaha ushakuwa simba mtoto badala ya simba mzee

Haijui simba mtoto...??

 

[Mother Confessor]

Huyo simba mtoto ndo wewe??

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Hahaha huyo simba mzee..sio mtoto

 

[Rylee]

Huyu atakuja tuu...si kuna darasa la kizunguu

Kisamvu sili nakula nyama.

vio_vio fanya umelete huku.

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[Mother Confessor]

Haijui simba mtoto...??

Atajulia wapi huyu mjukuu wa sultana.. vio_vio

 

[Rylee]

Yaani...wamasai na nyama...labda wale mnafu na nyama sio kisamvu

Em jaribu kumuonjesha kisamvu...kama hakusahau nyama noroo.. hahah

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[Rylee]

Nalijua......

Kuna basi linaitwa simba mtoto.

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[BRO LEE]

Pursuing her doesn't mean she shouldn't date other guys.

You're just in the pursuit and not her man yet!

Asking who the guy is was a silly move for someone of your position.

Talk to her and show her how serious you are, the rest will fall into place!

- KANA -

Exactly

 

[Mother Confessor]

Yaani...wamasai na nyama...labda wale mnafu na nyama sio kisamvu

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Mnafuu chaaa...😣

 

[Rylee]

Mpishi ni yeye...aje huku apike

V nionjeshe basi nione utamu wake.

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[Wild sniper]

Dah nashindwa kucomment Lugha hizi okay nitakushauri kishwahili tu sababu hio Lugha sio ya taifa weka uzalendo.
Kifupi tu anataka kukuchezea huyo mpotezee tu halafu kama una mipango nae hivyo jiangalie sana mimi nimewahi kuiba msichana wa mtu sababu boy wake hakuwa anamcare kwa lolote ilinichukua 2 month kumdaka yule dada, akaachana na yule jamaa lakini baada ya miezi kama 8 mshkaji alirudi kuomba msamaha na akamsamehe asee niliumiaga sana. So kama ana mtu wake na wewe una mipango nae muache tu baadae utaumia nakwambia.

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[Rylee]

Hebu njoo arusha utupikie kisamvuu

Mnafuu chaaa...

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[- kANA -]

Kweli nimesahau mwenza

Kwenye haya mambo yetu, cheo ulichofikia ni Brigedia General. Yani hadi unasahau makoloni uliyomiliki? I salute!



- KANA -

 

[Tape measure]

Try to pursue her in Swahili it seems your complicating things make it simple.

Mwambie siwezi ishi bila wewe malkia wa moyo wangu, umekua waridi katika maisha yangu.
Bila wewe uwepo wangu katika hii dunia sio chochote. Hakika atakuelewa pengine lugha ndio kikwazooo

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[Rylee]

Nimecheka

Atajulia wapi huyu mjukuu wa sultana.. vio_vio

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[Equation x]

Atakuwa ajitambui,na atakutesa sana katika maisha yako kama utalazimisha uhusiano;nakushauri achana naye.

 

[Mikopo Chefuchefu]

Kwa lugha hii, tegemea ushauri 'kiduchu'...