Sijui nifanyaje naomba ushauri

NamnyakNancy · Feb 10, 2015

Tell your friend kwamba aache kuwa selfish na kujiwaza mwenye. Because all I can see bado hajamaliza starehe wala kazi or age sio kigezo seriously mtu asubiri 14-15 years to be married? And to have kids! ! Its amazing how people can be selfish. ..

By the time yupo ready huyu mwanamke hatokuwa na haja ya kuolewa nae. Ajue atatokea mtu willing and ready to marry her in a short time ndio anzee ooh wanawake wabaya. Na kujiliza upuuzi.
Ameona huyu dada anampenda sana ataula wa chuya sijui atalia nanani..

Kama anampenda and he knows that this girl is going to be a good wife afanye haraka tuu..

Ndio maana tunaambiwa tusi date watu tupo nao same age.
Mi ningekata huduma zote mpaka siku akijiskia kuoa ndio aje. Idiot.

MWANAKA · Feb 10, 2015

brave one said:
Habari wadau.

Nina mpenzi wangu tulianza mahusiano tangu tuko O level, chuo mpaka sasa tupo makazini tuna miaka 9 kwenye uhusiano mpaka sasa na wote tuna umri sawa miaka 28. Tatizo kuna vitu viwili tunatofautiana vina hatarisha mahusiano yetu.

Moja, Ndoa mwenzangu anaona muda muafaka wa kufunga ndoa umefika wakati mimi bado sijisikii kuoa na sio kwamba sitaki kumuoa ila ile hamu ya kuoa bado sina yaani utayari wa moyo kuingia kwenye ndoa bado haupo kwenye mawazo yangu najiona nikimuoa 2018 au 2019.

Pili, Mtoto yeye mwenzangu anaona muda wa kuwa na mtoto umefika lakini mimi bado sijapata hamu ya kuwa na mtoto sijapata hamu ya kuwa baba atleast mpaka miaka 3 au 4 mbele.

Kimsingi nina miaka miwili tu kazini yeye ana mwaka mmoja.Tumejitaidi kuzungumza nikampa mawazo yangu hakubaliani nayo na nimemsikiliza yake napata wakati mgumu sijui nifanyaje.

Haya ni maelezo ya jamaa yangu hapa kazini ananiomba ushauri, wadau nisaidie mawazo maana amenipa muda nitafakari nimjibu baadae.

Karibuni sana.

Nakushauri umwoe tu huyo binti maana si vema kwa umri wenu kuendelea kuishi mkizini bila sababu za msingi
Bahati nzuri wote mna kazi kwahiyo ni wakati mwafaka sasa fanya hivyo kijana
Ujue pia kutokuoa mapema ni dalili za uchoyo kimaisha kwa sababu una haja gani ya kuendelea kiushi kwa walezi wako wakati umri na kipati vinakuruhusu kufanya hivyp/
Au ni kwanini uendelee kuishi maisha ya kideto geto wakati Mwenyezi Mungu ameshakupatia msaidizi wako?
Tafakari chukua hatua

brave one · Feb 10, 2015

MadameX said:
Ikiwa nitasoma mawazo yako sawa, this applies to...why buy a cow when you can a get a milk for free? Huyo dada ni muda umefika, kama unampenda kweli toa nia ya kuoa. Hiyo miaka 3 ni mirefu....lakini kusema hujisikii sio sababu.......

samahani madam kuna kitu sijaelewa ivi kuoa au kuolewa its all about milk? I think its someting big than that

asakuta same · Feb 10, 2015

Kwahiyo jamaa aliyeomba ushauri ndiyo kakupa muda utafakari......?

MadameX · Feb 10, 2015

brave one said:
samahani madam kuna kitu sijaelewa ivi kuoa au kuolewa its all about milk? I think its someting big than that

Hahaha...Hujafahamu....the meaning is bigger than that. Google is your friend, Bye!

brave one · Feb 10, 2015

NamnyakNancy said:
Tell your friend kwamba aache kuwa selfish na kujiwaza mwenye. Because all I can see bado hajamaliza starehe wala kazi or age sio kigezo seriously mtu asubiri 14-15 years to be married? And to have kids! ! Its amazing how people can be selfish. ..

By the time yupo ready huyu mwanamke hatokuwa na haja ya kuolewa nae. Ajue atatokea mtu willing and ready to marry her in a short time ndio anzee ooh wanawake wabaya. Na kujiliza upuuzi.
Ameona huyu dada anampenda sana ataula wa chuya sijui atalia nanani..

Kama anampenda and he knows that this girl is going to be a good wife afanye haraka tuu..

Ndio maana tunaambiwa tusi date watu tupo nao same age.
Mi ningekata huduma zote mpaka siku akijiskia kuoa ndio aje. Idiot.

kukata huduma sidhani ni njia sahihi tena ukizingatia wameshatengeneza strong bond between them, nadhani kinachomsumbua ni kujiona bado mdogo kama wadau wengine walivyosema na kupenda kuwa free

data · Feb 10, 2015

Uko sahihi. Simamia unachokiamini.

Determinantor · Feb 10, 2015

brave one said:
Nadhani watu mmeelewa vibaya neno hamu alichozungumzia ni ile willingness yake kuingia kwenye maisha ya ndoa kutake ile step ndo anaona wakati bado

Hata angetumia neno gani, hata hilo alilotumia bado halina uzito maana hio willingness inaweza isije Daima! So my point stands Valid. Lazima aamue sasa or never

NamnyakNancy · Feb 10, 2015

brave one said:
kukata huduma sidhani ni njia sahihi tena ukizingatia wameshatengeneza strong bond between them, nadhani kinachomsumbua ni kujiona bado mdogo kama wadau wengine walivyosema na kupenda kuwa free

Kama wana strong bond kwanini asihalalishe tuu.
Kukata huduma saa zingine mtu atazinduka. Huyu anaona kwamba d gal yupo tuu atamsubiri. Mwambie akishikwa ashikamane

Baby M · Feb 10, 2015

brave one said:
mwanamke anasema umri wake wa kuwa na mtoto umefika anataka azae akiwa kijana mwenyewe nguvu hataki kuja kuzaa wajukuu kimsingi jamaa anamuona mdada bado muda anao wa kutosha anaisi labda kuna external force ndo maana mdada kachachamaa

mpeni mwaka huyu jamaa.. baada ya mwaka atakuja hapa analia dem wake kaolewa....

mzee88 · Feb 10, 2015

kimsingi miaka tisa ni mingi sana na hiv mna 28 sasa kwa mwanamke ifikapo miaka 23 had 26 idabidi awe kwenye ndoa na huyo dem ni mvumilivu sana lakin unamkata moto oa kaka acha kukwepa majukumu

nosspass · Feb 10, 2015

hahahahaaaaa,,,,, 9yrs anamsugua mtoto wa mwezie...then anataka kuongeza 3-4yrs, hiyo ni dhuluma kabisa,,,,vijana mnapenda uzinzi mno.....huyo dada ana haki ya kudai ndoa bana,,,,mwambie rafiki yako afikirie twice......au amruhusu asonge mbele.....

Horseshoe Arch · Feb 10, 2015

Nauza miguu ya kuku,nipo mbezi kibanda cha mkaa,ukitokea kwa Msuguri unaelekea upande lililpo kanisa la KKKT...utalipita,then pinda kushoto, ukipita makaburi ulizia ' wapi wanauza 'Spea za kuku'

MAULA · Feb 10, 2015

najua ww utakua mwanaume ndo maana mawazo yako yapo hivyo na hiyo yote ni kwa kua we unauhakika hata ikitokea huyo mwanamke kakuacha unamiaka 35 utapata mwingine.

mfikilie binti wa watu hivi ikitokea mkashindwana mbele huko unakosema ww miaka 3 ijayo nani atae muoa

tambua tofauti iliopo kwako ww kama mtoto wa kiume na huyo ni mwanamke. fanya kweri acha kumzingua mtoto wa wato unatak azeekee kwao eeeeee

brave one said:
Habari wadau.

Nina mpenzi wangu tulianza mahusiano tangu tuko O level, chuo mpaka sasa tupo makazini tuna miaka 9 kwenye uhusiano mpaka sasa na wote tuna umri sawa miaka 28. Tatizo kuna vitu viwili tunatofautiana vina hatarisha mahusiano yetu.

Moja, Ndoa mwenzangu anaona muda muafaka wa kufunga ndoa umefika wakati mimi bado sijisikii kuoa na sio kwamba sitaki kumuoa ila ile hamu ya kuoa bado sina yaani utayari wa moyo kuingia kwenye ndoa bado haupo kwenye mawazo yangu najiona nikimuoa 2018 au 2019.

Pili, Mtoto yeye mwenzangu anaona muda wa kuwa na mtoto umefika lakini mimi bado sijapata hamu ya kuwa na mtoto sijapata hamu ya kuwa baba atleast mpaka miaka 3 au 4 mbele.

Kimsingi nina miaka miwili tu kazini yeye ana mwaka mmoja.Tumejitaidi kuzungumza nikampa mawazo yangu hakubaliani nayo na nimemsikiliza yake napata wakati mgumu sijui nifanyaje.

Haya ni maelezo ya jamaa yangu hapa kazini ananiomba ushauri, wadau nisaidie mawazo maana amenipa muda nitafakari nimjibu baadae.

Karibuni sana.

finance2014 · Feb 10, 2015

Kama mmeweza kukaa miaka 9 we huoni kama ni mwaminifu na anakupenda kwa dhati ukiendelea kusubiri miaka 3 mbele utakuta mwana si wako

Valentina · Feb 10, 2015

Miaka tisa kwenye mahusiano,na bado miaka kadhaa mbele ndio aoe. Mmh yataka moyo kwakweli!

Daby · Feb 10, 2015

Tyta said:
changamoto hii...kumpoteza mtu mliyekuwa na mahusiano ya muda mrefu hivyo si vizuri,halikadhalika kuingia kwenye ndoa pasipo maridhiano ya pamoja si jambo jema...nadhani mmojawao ajishushe na kuangalia mazuri ya hitaji la mwenzie,,kupitia hayo yanaweza mjengea mtazamo wa kukubaliana...yaweza kufunga ndoa isiwe sasa,lakini pia si kufika muda wa miaka minne...

Big up mkuu...amna cha kuongezea apo...

Evelyn Salt · Feb 10, 2015

9 years unamtia tu mtu na bado unasema sijui bado mweh jamani muwe na huruma na maisha ya watu...

The Boss · Feb 10, 2015

ubinafsi kupitiliza

unaijua 'biological clock?

mwanamke lazima aamue sasa

akifikisha 30 wangapi watataka kumuoa?

brave one · Feb 10, 2015

The Boss said:
ubinafsi kupitiliza

unaijua 'biological clock?

mwanamke lazima aamue sasa

akifikisha 30 wangapi watataka kumuoa?

mkuu si huwa wanasema age is just .....

Sijui nifanyaje naomba ushauri

Senior Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

Platinum Member

Senior Member

JF-Expert Member

Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

R I P

JF-Expert Member

Platinum Member

JF-Expert Member

JF-Expert Member

Similar Discussions