She is beautiful, highly educated and paid but lonely! Why?

[housegirl]

Likewise, if you have a heart and when you consider the anguish undergone by battered women who are sucked into the vortex of horrible relationships/ marriages, particularly domestic violence, you will not advocate anyone staying in such situations.

Either these men have never lived in bongo. Or they've never witnessed domestic violence, or they're just a bunch of misogynists who think women will be mistreated by men and there's nothing they can do about it but bow their heads and pray

 

[Konda wa bodaboda]

Nshomile kwa mbwembwe za lugha hawajambo😀

 

[housegirl]

Have you ever taken a moment and consider the sacrifices your mom gave to secure your life. The best way to repay is not to stoop on her sacrifices on you but atone her by raising grannies in a respectable family. Sacrifice as she did.

SORRY IN WHAT WAY WAS I SECURED?? Did you read the part were I sad I advised mum to live dad at 14? I WAS MENTALLY DISTURBED. STILL AM. I remember incidents that happened at 6! I didn't understand then, but now it makes me shiver and just hate dad. I told my mum I'll be going to therapy and she'll get the bills.

STOP TORTURING YOUR KIDS WITH YOUR UN HAPPY MARRIAGES

The only thing my mum has secured me from Is men like you. Now I'll surely be single to 50.
.
Respectable family huh!! . I'm so afraid of people who only care what other people think. I don't want you in any of my circles. No educated woman will marry a man like this ooohh. Women get their bones dislocated, severely burnt and forever mentally tortured for the sake of respectable family!!!

 

[housegirl]

Who lied to u that u can't get bored with a spouse of your dreams?
Ur crucifying ladies here as if it's always glorious and happy in matrimony

This guy claims to be 54 on his profile. It's beyond me how a 54yr old can talk like this. Like a 16yr old dreaming of a happily ever after wedding.

 

[housegirl]

If all women were as selfish as you are then the world would have been empty. Life has never been about us but our ability to sustain a next generation. That comes with strings attached: we call them sacrifices to maintain our existence.

Not many people decide to not have children. Life will always go on.

You can sustain the next generation without clinging on an unhappy marriage. Otherwise you'll just be breeding mentally disturbed people and a bunch of misogynists.

There are sacrifices to make Andy when you make them you ensure everyone benefits. Living under physical /mental torture is not sacrifice.

 

[housegirl]

How can you be bored if you are with a spouse of your dreams?

I'm very sure there are a lot of happy married couples.

But also acknowledge that there're a lot of unhappy ones and downright suffering ones.

Periods of loneliness do come event with happy couples. Don't mislead people.

 

[badiebey]

This guy claims to be 54 on his profile. It's beyond me how a 54yr old can talk like this. Like a 16yr old dreaming of a happily ever after wedding.

Kuna a lot of misconception when a woman is single sijui kwa nini,..afu wanaume wenyewe sasaa wanaopenda kulazimisha hzi concept hata ukipewa bure hukubali akuoe aisee ni wa hovyooo mno,I happen to know one guy anajishobokeshaa na vistatement ohh women r not happy alone nk hapo mtu nna amani zangu tele nabaki namshangaa tu mana ukimjibu unaweza mtukana bure,kutojiamini kwao ndo huku kugeneralize that a wanawake hawana furaha wakiwa single,

 

[badiebey]

I'm very sure there are a lot of happy married couples.

But also acknowledge that there're a lot of unhappy ones and downright suffering ones.

Periods of loneliness do come event with happy couples. Don't mislead people.

Even if ur soulmates mloandikiwa na Mungu, kukwaruzana na boredom ni part ya maisha it happens

 

[juan moses]

General They Are Coming.
The Khitans Are Cominggggggg.
I Can See War Coming.
Prepare For Battke.
Stay In Your Position.
Defense Shield.
Archers Forward.
Fireeee!

 

[housegirl]

Let me start by saying, for some of us there is more to "life "than being someone’s lover, gf, wife, and what have you. eg

• Careers and ladders to climb
• Places to explore and the world to see
• Money to make and fabulous lives to live

Say what you want to say but no amount of “D” can replace the exhilaration that I get as a woman in charge of me, my life and my journey.

Perhaps the underlying issue in all of this, is the world now lacking REAL men? The alpha kind, "top dogs", the always in charge type, and those who are never afraid nor shy away from a STRONG woman ??

“Submissive woman” really? I , somehow was under the impression that we are now in the 21st century , or aren’t we ? #smh

mwengeso should see this. He was so miserable when single he can't cannot think beyond marriage.

People who talk of marriage as the ultimate life experience are sad people. They always dreamed of marriage, had sad single lives, probably got difficulties getting married so it's their greatest goal.

THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN MARRIAGE. And an unhappy marriage isn't even marriage it's just a status to the mentally captivated.

 

[Ummesh]

How can it be exactly!

Don't worry man it is a Chinese thing. But all in all, I have agreed with your arguments.

 

[Ummesh]

Tuwe wa kweli raha inatoka wapi leo kwa huyu kesho kwa yule. Hamahama ni dalili ya kukosa amani rohoni mwao.

Inawezekana kuna kaukweli.

 

[upendodaima]

Sijui kwanini nilikuwa mvivu wa debates enzi zile!

 

[housegirl]

Kuna a lot of misconception when a woman is single sijui kwa nini,..afu wanaume wenyewe sasaa wanaopenda kulazimisha hzi concept hata ukipewa bure hukubali akuoe aisee ni wa hovyooo mno,I happen to know one guy anajishobokeshaa na vistatement ohh women r not happy alone nk hapo mtu nna amani zangu tele nabaki namshangaa tu mana ukimjibu unaweza mtukana bure,kutojiamini kwao ndo huku kugeneralize that a wanawake hawana furaha wakiwa single,

Mimi huwa sielewi kama mtu una ndoa yako/mahusiano yako mazuri, maisha yako umeridhika, why uongelee vibaya hawa wanawake?

Mimi nafikiri they're in sad marriages or rejects in life so they're just venting out their frustrations.

Acheni kuingilia maisha ya watu.

 

[Pakawa]

Why do people assume single women at that age are unhappy? As if the married ones are living in paradise. Don't you know that a lot of married couples actually get lonely too?

Stop speaking about their emotions. Do not pressure them into unhealthy relationships just to impress you!
I'm very sure if they were as desperate as society claims, they would have settled with just anybody.

Well said Mkuu! We have witnessed married couples going thru hell! Why the world has concluded it's only women who are in need (marriage) than men !?

 

[RRONDO]

Mimi huwa sielewi kama mtu una ndoa yako/mahusiano yako mazuri, maisha yako umeridhika, why uongelee vibaya hawa wanawake?

Mimi nafikiri they're in sad marriages or rejects in life so they're just venting out their frustrations.

Acheni kuingilia maisha ya watu.

Mtaa huu ndio umeona mtu anafanana na mimi?!

 

[Malipo kwamungu]

Pia wanawake wakimachame wanapenda kuwa wajane!!!

 

[Heaven Sent]

Being alone doesn't always mean that someone is lonely. Some people are single and still very happy. Let's not forget the fact that " marriage is a calling ", not something for everyone. We can't all get married and not everyone who wants marriage will eventually get married. And we can't ignore the fact that, there is more to life than marriage. We all can't find happiness from a single source "marriage". God has and is still giving us lots of blessings and beautiful things to be happy and grateful for. Being unmarried isn't the end of life neither the beginning of a miserable life.

We have been crucifying the so called successful career women for so long. Let's forget about their attitudes and personalities... how many men in here are ready to stand next to successful women? I can't say you guys are intimidated with successful women, but most of you prefer to date the less successful ones, why??... I don't know myself. Not everyone of you has dated these women, but you can here our dear men saying " I can't date/ marry a more successful woman than I am", so what's their fault here?

Being arrogant, selective, argumentative, fault finder, too demanding etc, has nothing to do with someone's career level. There are some people with no career at all or possibly with less career success, but I bet.. They are huge pains in the as××. "Ugliness from inside doesn't discriminate career success". Sometimes the way we perceive these women is far from their reality. Instead of judging their actions basing on their success, let's remember that there are not perfect just like us. So if a successful woman portrays some bad behavior/attitude, it's not because of her success, that's really her attitude from inside"

If a woman can't keep a man, let's agree its because of her personal bad characters /attitude/choices , and not because of her career.. (even though there are some men who can't be kept even if they date Angels). Again if a person is single, and wish to have a healthy relationship then marriage, but still she can't change her bad ways/ attitude to retain a relationship, then that's her own headache. But if you have set your standards that can't be compromised, then my girl please don't lower yourself, your man will find you right there, (unless you have set the "unnecessary not my type" standards, please reconsider your standards). There are lots Of successful women out there with " wife materials" traits.Not all of them are as bad as we paint them.

 

[GOWISHI]

Let me start by saying, for some of us there is more to "life "than being someone’s lover, gf, wife, and what have you. eg

• Careers and ladders to climb
• Places to explore and the world to see
• Money to make and fabulous lives to live

Say what you want to say but no amount of “D” can replace the exhilaration that I get as a woman in charge of me, my life and my journey.

Perhaps the underlying issue in all of this, is the world now lacking REAL men? The alpha kind, "top dogs", the always in charge type, and those who are never afraid nor shy away from a STRONG woman ??

“Submissive woman” really? I , somehow was under the impression that we are now in the 21st century , or aren’t we ? #smh

Maneno ya mkosaji hayo hakuna mwanamke asiyependa kuwa na mume wake na watoto, ila kwasababu wanawake wengi wakipata elimu wanapungukiwa na hekima mwisho wasiku wanakosa ndoa na wanabakia vyombo vya starehe vya wanaume

 

[housegirl]

Pia wanawake wakimachame wanapenda kuwa wajane!!!

Hahaha nimejikuta nacheka tu