penzi la shemeji

[Bishanga]

zaa nae kabisa,si unajua kizuri kula na nduguyo.

 

[654]

mimi ni kijana ambaye nimeoa mwaka jana;bahati mbaya mke wangu ni mkorofi ajabu tena hana nidhamu; tunaishi na shemeji yangu mdogo wake na mke wangu; kiukweli ni mkarimu na mwenye nidhamu; juzi aliniomba tukutane Kebbys hotel baada ya muda wa kazi ili tuzungumze tabia ya dada yake; yeye pia ni mwajiriwa; kiukweli baada ya mazungumzo marefu niliamua kupunguza stress kwa kufanya nae mapenzi;na ilikuwa nzuri maana huzuni na mawazo yote yameisha; nashiwishika kuendelea na mahusiano na shemeji yangu

Jerrytz its sad you went so low, no rationalization Sir.
Keep off both ladies, come clean of your conscience.
Problems with your lawfully wedded wife notwithstanding,
Church was the place for reconciliation, not in a Hotel or any such place.
While it appears you have irreconcible differences, your sister inlaw is no long term solution to the mess. The word for you is to STOP!
Start afresh
WanaJamvi, we pray for this brother in a sad marital mess please!

 

[Chiwa]

mhn! pole sidhani kama ulitumia busara! hapo umechemsha si dhani kama ndio dawa yake nashukuru MUNGU nilichotaka kukuandikia kimerudi njiani

 

[Kamanda Moshi]

nayajua yote hayo kuwa sina nidhamu;ni vyema unishari badala ya kulaumu ndugu

sasa hapa ushauriwe nini? tukushauri katika hili 'nashiwishika kuendelea na mahusiano na shemeji yangu' au tukushauri nini ndugu?maana ushafanya maamuzi ati...

 

[Mamndenyi]

mi nasema tu ya moyoni mwangu,
hawa wali wa leo wamebadilika sana, sijajua ni malezi ya huko watokako au ninini, hivi tatizo hasa ni nini nyie akina mwali / mpora?

 

[Kaunga]

i dont knw how to put it right;however sikuwa kuwa na matamanio na shemeji yangu licha ya kuwa ni msichana mzuri;kilichotokea kwangu ni huruma ya shemeji kupooza maumivu ya ndoa tu;sina mpango wa kuendelea kuzini naye as i need to settle down

So unataka ushauri gani?

 

[Kaunga]

Hongera sana kwa kupata mke mdogo. Nakushauri umuhamishe hapo home na ufunge ndoa nae ya siri. Siku akianza ukorofi na yeye, mtafute mama mkwe mkajadili taboa za wake zako wote wawili afu mchukue chumba. Mama mkwe akianza ukorofinae umtafute baba mkwe eeh.

Word; you are so bright sometimes! LOL

 

[jerrytz]

Jerrytz its sad you went so low, no rationalization Sir.
Keep off both ladies, come clean of your conscience.
Problems with your lawfully wedded wife notwithstanding,
Church was the place for reconciliation, not in a Hotel or any such place.
While it appears you have irreconcible differences, your sister inlaw is no long term solution to the mess. The word for you is to STOP!
Start afresh
WanaJamvi, we pray for this brother in a sad marital mess please!

Thank u very much; u hv come to my rescue, u have shown me my weakness and yet you directed to the place where i will a lasting solution! Thank u for ur prayers, for the first time i feel relieved; i will take heed to your word, what a wonderful morning, oooh God have mercy on me!

 

[Katavi]

Acha kabisa huo mchezo, tafuta tu suluhu na mkeo au achana naye.

 

[fabinyo]

ukisikia uso wa mbuzi ndio huu!!jamani wanaume tuwe na aibu,tena unaishi nae nyumba moja?aaarrrrggghhhhh

 

[fabinyo]

Jerrytz its sad you went so low, no rationalization Sir.
Keep off both ladies, come clean of your conscience.
Problems with your lawfully wedded wife notwithstanding,
Church was the place for reconciliation, not in a Hotel or any such place.
While it appears you have irreconcible differences, your sister inlaw is no long term solution to the mess. The word for you is to STOP!
Start afresh
WanaJamvi, we pray for this brother in a sad marital mess please!

dah,mdau!uko nchi hii hii ya JK!your english is so knock outing na inaleta sana maumivu ya kichwa!!haahaa

 

[snowhite]

Guys this is very serious; ln fact last week nilishaanza mchakato wa ku divorce;nilipokwenda church baada ya majadiliano marefu nikaambiwa kanisa halina uwezo wa kutenganisha ndoa;hivyo ombi langu la divorce lipo kwa mkuu wa wilaya;issue ya talaka ndio iliyotuleta hapo kebbys ili tujadili

we kweli seven up!
YANI ISSUE YA TALAKA NA MKEO MNAONGEA NA SHEMEJI YAKO KEBBY'S?
NDOA ULIFUNGA NA SHEMEJI AU DADAKE?
UNA GROUNDS ZIPI TENA ZA KUDAI TALAKA ILHALI USHAHALALISHA UHARAMU?
UJEURI WA MKEO UNAKUSIMAMISHAJE DUSHE KWA MDOGO WAKE?
hebu tuache tuingie mwaka kwa amani bana!
hivi mapungufu ya mtu mwingine yanakupaje sababu na wewe kutosimami misismamo yako ya kimaisha kama sio na wewe ulikuwa DHAIFU TUU!

 

[Kaunga]

Thank u very much; u hv come to my rescue, u have shown me my weakness and yet you directed to the place where i will a lasting solution! Thank u for ur prayers, for the first time i feel relieved; i will take heed to your word, what a wonderful morning, oooh God have mercy on me!

So you didn't know you are DHAIFU au you are not a REAL MAN? (post hii ndio imekufanya ugundue hilo??) A real man knows what he is doing n do what he wants to do; no wonder mkeo analeta ukorofi. She is searching for a REAL MAN in you!

 

[snowhite]

Hongera sana kwa kupata mke mdogo. Nakushauri umuhamishe hapo home na ufunge ndoa nae ya siri. Siku akianza ukorofi na yeye, mtafute mama mkwe mkajadili taboa za wake zako wote wawili afu mchukue chumba. Mama mkwe akianza ukorofinae umtafute baba mkwe eeh.

mi ndo mana nilikumiss mwaya!
af akishamaliza achukue na kakake kabisa!
kumbaf!

 

[Aine]

mimi ni kijana ambaye nimeoa mwaka jana;bahati mbaya mke wangu ni mkorofi ajabu tena hana nidhamu; tunaishi na shemeji yangu mdogo wake na mke wangu; kiukweli ni mkarimu na mwenye nidhamu; juzi aliniomba tukutane Kebbys hotel baada ya muda wa kazi ili tuzungumze tabia ya dada yake; yeye pia ni mwajiriwa; kiukweli baada ya mazungumzo marefu niliamua kupunguza stress kwa kufanya nae mapenzi;na ilikuwa nzuri maana huzuni na mawazo yote yameisha; nashiwishika kuendelea na mahusiano na shemeji yangu

Pole kwa tabia ya mkeo, ila hilo ulilolifanya si suluhisho la tatizo ulilonalo, badala yake umejitafutia matatizo zaidi. Kwa kawaida unapofanya jambo baya kwa mtu, unapaswa kujiuliza '' hivi ingekuwa ni mimi nimetendewa hivyo ningejisikiaje''? na wewe jiulize swali hilo hilo.

Ndoa ina mambo mengi sana, jiulize je ulimuomba Mungu ili akupe mke kabla hujaoa? na je uliopomuoa huyo mkeo unadhani Mungu alikupa au ulikurupuka tu? kama ni Mungu alikupa una haki ya kumuambia tena Mungu, mbona mke huyu uliyenipa ananisumbua, naomba ushughulike naye au umfiyange ili nifanane naye. Lakini kama hukumuomba Mungu bado una nafasi, funga na kuomba sana, pata muda mzuri wa kumuomba Mungu na umuambie Mungu akusaidie na pia akusamehe kwa kufanya uzinzi na mdogo wa mkeo, naamini kabisa Mungu atakusaidia.

Acha kutembea na mdogo wa mkeo, utapata laana, na zaidi mkeo akijua unaweza kusababisha mauti , kwani inauma sana kuona mume anatembea na shemeji!!!!!!!!!!! muache haraka iwezekanavyo, hata mkijificha namna gani itajulikana tu

 

[Kaunga]

Halafu ni ndoa ya Mwaka mmoja tu! Muwarudishie watu michango yao! Khah!

we kweli seven up!
YANI ISSUE YA TALAKA NA MKEO MNAONGEA NA SHEMEJI YAKO KEBBY'S?
NDOA ULIFUNGA NA SHEMEJI AU DADAKE?
UNA GROUNDS ZIPI TENA ZA KUDAI TALAKA ILHALI USHAHALALISHA UHARAMU?
UJEURI WA MKEO UNAKUSIMAMISHAJE DUSHE KWA MDOGO WAKE?
hebu tuache tuingie mwaka kwa amani bana!
hivi mapungufu ya mtu mwingine yanakupaje sababu na wewe kutosimami misismamo yako ya kimaisha kama sio na wewe ulikuwa DHAIFU TUU!

 

[Penelope]

Jamani wanaume mna tamaa kama mafisi!!!!halafu visingizio vyenu ndo hivo mwanamke,kwani mkeo akikuudhi lazima ulipize kwa kwenda kufungua zipu kwa mwanamke mwingine??mangapi mnatutenda sisi wanawake hatuendi kupunguza hasira kwenye dushe*za wengine?Punguzeni tamaa za kijinga

 

[assuredly4]

mimi ni kijana ambaye nimeoa mwaka jana;bahati mbaya mke wangu ni mkorofi ajabu tena hana nidhamu; tunaishi na shemeji yangu mdogo wake na mke wangu; kiukweli ni mkarimu na mwenye nidhamu; juzi aliniomba tukutane Kebbys hotel baada ya muda wa kazi ili tuzungumze tabia ya dada yake; yeye pia ni mwajiriwa; kiukweli baada ya mazungumzo marefu niliamua kupunguza stress kwa kufanya nae mapenzi;na ilikuwa nzuri maana huzuni na mawazo yote yameisha; nashiwishika kuendelea na mahusiano na shemeji yangu

Mungu pekee ndiye anayeweza kubadili tabia ya mkeo na yako. kumbuka kufanya hivyo sio suluhisho la stress bali ni furaha ya muda kisha maumivu yatarudia. nendeni kwenye makanisa ya watu waliookoka mkaombewe mtapata afya njema

 

[SERGIO]

Huyo mke hakufai brother. Lakini pia kuzini na mdogo wake haikuwa sahihi. Kwa kuwa ni ndoa ya Kikristo mnachoweza kufanya ni ku-separate kwa muda (mapadri wanaruhusu). Hii itatoa fursa kwa mkeo kujirudi na hatimaye kujenga ndoa imara zaidi hapo baadaye. Iwapo hatajirekebisha mnaweza ku-extend hiyo separation.

 

[snowhite]

Halafu ni ndoa ya Mwaka mmoja tu! Muwarudishie watu michango yao! Khah!

hapo sasa!
eti ndoa yangu ina mwaka mmoja mke wangu jeuri nimekatana na mdogo wake kebbys tumechukua chumba na this thing is very serious nimefile swala la talaka kwa mkuu wa wilaya!
hivi watu wanapooana huwa wnafikiri ndoa ni kuchagua colour of the wedding na kucheza kwaito la kuingilia plus champagne parade enh?