After finish school the most important
choice you will need to make is who to
marry. This choice is so important that if
you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you
get it right then you will enjoy forever.
A bad marriage can affect every other
area of your life. This subject is so
important, so many married people are
hoping to be single again so as to make
the right choice. If you are single, please
don't just be in a hurry to get married,
you have the best opportunity to prepare
for it.
For two people to come together to live
in peace and harmony, they must agree
spiritually, mentally and physically. Just
like an elephant cannot marry an ant so
also a believer cannot marry an
unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant
how would they live, if a goat marries a
fish where would they meet? You must
look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to
marry, nothing can beat this.
The devil's primary target is the family.
He knows that everyone belongs to a
family and if he can
make two wrong people meet then he
has succeeded affecting the community
and nations negatively. Ignore your age
and the pressure for a moment, the
pressure in a wrong marriage is far
worse. God has somebody for you but
you must set your priorities right. What
do you need in a woman? What do you
need in a man? Marriage is not about
what you want, it is about who you need,
that will make you better while you make
him better. It is about destiny. That is
why you must know your purpose before
you get married. Genesis 2:18.
You must pray before you choose. God
knows the best person for you, it is only
wise to seek His will. It is very easy to
know God's will when sex is not involved.
The moment sex is involved and you
want to know His will then He will blank
you out. Why? Because you have broken
His first Law of NO SEX before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past then you
need to repent totally and stay away from
each other for sometime then you can
seek the face of God. Your marriage will
not be hell on earth. Your marriage will
be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry because
you are of age, don't marry because you
are getting old, don't marry because you
are lonely, don't marry
because you need someone to support
you financially, don't marry because you
mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry
because you don't want to lose the
person, don't marry because of family
pressures, don't marry because you like
the idea of marriage and admire every
wedding gown you see, don't marry
because all your friends are getting
married. But get married because you
want to fulfill destiny. Get married
because you want to be a help mate.
As a man, get married because you want
to fulfill your purpose. God will help you
in choosing, please let His will be done.