My take on folks who are against marriage

My take on folks who are against marriage

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Marriage is dead & women played a big role in killing it.

Here are 5 reasons why young people aren’t getting married:

1) Too risky
Men no longer see any benefit to marriage.
70% of divorces are initiated by women (80% if college educated.)
Courts favor women in the separation of assets, children & alimony.
Men see the system is against them and won’t take the risk.

2) Demanding women
They want a man who provides safety, income & emotional support.
Women no longer want to be homemakers.
Western governments have brainwashed girls into working a 9-5, so they can tax both genders.

3) Fatherless homes
There are more single-parent homes.
For example , here where i libe 50% of children will witness the end of their parent's marriage.
Children raised with one parent don’t see the benefits of marriage.
Because of this, they would rather stay single than risk divorce.

4) Hookup culture
Not long ago, chastity was valued.
It was normal to wait for marriage to have sex.
Now, people are willing to have sex without the commitment of marriage.
Why go through the effort to get married when you can have sex without it?


5) Atheist generation
Marriage is a gift from God.
Without the Bible and faith, people opt out of marriage to pursue sinful behavior.
Gen Z is the least religious generation yet; it doesn’t make sense that they would embrace Holy Matrimony.

People fear marriage because divorce can be devastating.
But divorce is actually an incentive to get married.
Fear of divorce should make people stay together & fix their problems.
Without a penalty for leaving, people would run at the first bump in the road.

S/o to my love Mzigua90 , my friend financial services and my inlaw Shunie
 
Humans who put their body first are typically selfish and behave as such. Humans who are driven by spirituality, tend to be self-sacrificing and therefore are willing to put their human through more challenging circumstances knowing it is in the best interest of the soul.
 
Humans who put their body first are typically selfish and behave as such. Humans who are driven by spirituality, tend to be self-sacrificing and therefore are willing to put their human through more challenging circumstances knowing it is in the best interest of the soul.
Marriage is between 2 souls. Both humans most put themselves aside and entwine sprits. Once achieved, very little human bullshit should be able to affect this relationship. But, it must be maintained everyday, like a garden or it can die.
 
All things have been predicted in bible. There is no more love right now. Women take marriage as opportunity for them to become rich after divorce.
You are right, these secure women are destroying marriage , why would they want to build their own story and take their own decision and having their own economical power ? They should do what they were destined by the Bible as a piece of rib, stay at home and cook
 
So exactly! To speak on marriage w/out any elucidation on human sexual behavior/evolutionary biology is harmful. Everything stated in the initial tweet is completely normal per primitive brains across many species. Robert Sapolsky speaks eloquently on this also.
 
we being serious, men don't benefit in marriages, apart from children, the act of marriage is just useless, if you can write to me 5 advantages of marriage in modern era, where women are a dollar away, I might reconsider,
 
If we being serious, men don't benefit in marriages, apart from children, the act of marriage is just useless, if you can write to me 5 advantages of marriage in modern era, where women are a dollar away
Sex.
 
Iwe being serious, men don't benefit in marriages, apart from children, the act of marriage is just useless, if you can write to me 5 advantages of marriage in modern era, where women are a dollar away, I might reconsider,
We need to return back to timeless values like commitment, loyalty, fidelity, resilience, & faith in Christ.

Contemporary “values” have been around for the last ~60 years whereas biblical values, the last ~6000.

One works… & it’s clearly not the contemporary.
 
Once you learn women are moved with emotions and nothing else, you will conclude they deserve nothing, since they appreciate nothing, I will be a single dad with my IVF children, If possible
 
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