My life with grown married men

Tatizo hujajua kuwa tatizo ni wewe mwenyewe hayo unayoyachukia kwa hao unaoita rika lako ni kwa sababu hawajapata mtu wakuwatengeneza....hao waume wa watu wanakuvutia kwa sababu kuna mtu anaumia huko na ww ndio unamuona kapendeza ana hekima na hana wivu....wewe tafuta kijana mwenzako ukae nae umjenge utakavyo
 
Heaven Sent said:
Exactly it's not her fault, but rather her "CHOICE" (acha wale wanaodate waume za watu bila kujua). We are in no position to judge her, but I hope you have learnt something from the choice she made.
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Not her choice either. According to her, she didn't know she was dating a married man. The dude spoiled her mad, and raised the bar higher for whomever comes next. She's the victim.
 
Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
Not her choice either. According to her, she didn't know she was dating a married man. The dude spoiled her mad, and raised the bar higher for whomever comes next. She's the victim.
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P she left her first man after learning that the man was married. since then she has been dating only married men and couldn't keep the single men she tried to date, and that's why she is feeling guilty. (Re - read her 3rd paragraph). Anyway what matters now Is " she is soon going to be a new person"
 
I can't stand women who are just side chicks.....,yuckkkk!
 
deep rooted psychological problem. some can't date at all, some always find themselves in the the hands of play boys no matter how hard they try to resist, some to older men, some to younger men, some to alcohol or substance addicts........ now that you feel something is not right, then your freedom is near, but expect resistance. leaving an old killer behaviour has never been easy. Read again, and again Heaven Sent's advice. you aren't such a bad person. every one here has been fucked by life in one way or another.
 
deep rooted psychological problem. some can't date at all, some always find themselves in the the hands of play boys no matter how hard they try to resist, some to older men, some to younger men, some to alcohol or substance addicts........ now that you feel something is not right, then your freedom is near, but expect resistance. leaving an old killer behaviour has never been easy. Read again, and again Heaven Sent's advice. you aren't such a bad person. every one here has been fucked by life in one way or another.

Thank you Nandera...
 

Again, we're told women can't go backwards in lifestyle. And the lifestyle she's used to, is the one nobody can do it better than them grown up bros whom most(if not all) are married...those sons of ******* ('xcuse my patois). She didn't choose that lifestyle, it chose her.
 
At the end of the day, "You are not what has happened to you, you are what you choose to become". That's why despite all the shits she went through, she has decided to be a new person.
 
Again, we're told women can't go backwards in lifestyle. And the lifestyle she's used to, is the one nobody can do it better than them grown up bros whom most(if not all) are married...those sons of ******* ('xcuse my patois). She didn't choose that lifestyle, it chose her.

Am going to be a changed person, I truly regret whatever it is that happened in the past with my love life,. Those who are being judgemental sometimes it wasn't even about money I was just desperate kwa sababu ya mambo mbAli mbali yalikua yananitokea, I needed comfort and someone who would just be there for me..
 
Heaven Sent said:
"You are not what has happened to you, you are what you choose to become". That's why despite all the shits she went through, she has decided to be a new person.
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She already decided? Thought she wanted help on how to change that route. But anyway, I can only wish her the best.

Btw, kuna dada alikuwa ana issue kama hii. Sijui Kaboom alimsaidia vipi.
 
Mimi sitakuhukumu,japo si kitu kizuri kuendelea nacho,mim nilishawahi date na mume wa mtu bila kujua hata ukimuona huezi amini kama kaoa,lakini nilipogundua nikajisemea moyoni no matter what lazima niachane nae hta kama ni vigumu kwa sababu alinipenda hamna mtu aliyenipenda kama yeye.Niliamua ni bora niumie na kulia kwa siku chache kuliko kuendelea na mume wa mtu ilihi najua ,nikushauri tu hata kama atakupenda vipi lakini mwisho wa siku atarudi kwa mkewe tu kwa hyo fanya maaumuzi magumu.
Maamuzi ni yako kila la kheri dia
 
Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
She already decided? Thought she wanted help on how to change that route. But anyway, I can only wish her the best.

Btw, kuna dada alikuwa ana issue kama hii. Sijui Kaboom alimsaidia vipi.
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She has already made a decision that she wants to change. So she is just here to see how friends can help her change her route. The very first big step Is "to decide"

Chinekeeeee, daddy Kaboom sijui alimsaidiaje huyo mdada wa watu, sijui kama hakukamatia fursa
 
Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
She already decided? Thought she wanted help on how to change that route. But anyway, I can only wish her the best.

Btw, kuna dada alikuwa ana issue kama hii. Sijui Kaboom alimsaidia vipi.
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Huyu ameruhusu udhaifu wake umuelemee..Anajiendekeza tu...Siku akifumaniwa zen apate kipigo cha haja sijui kama atasubiri kupewa ushauri ili abadilike
 
Omba upate aliyefiwa na mke.
Anyway hata vijana hawawezi kupenda
Vitabia vyako.tafuta ngane
 
You took time to write and i took time to Read this ngoma droo aisee.

You just got to be serious with your future!!
 
Nipo tayari kutoa kilo 5 kwa mtu yoyote atakae fanikiwa kumbadili tabia huyu dada.
 
Mbona majibu yako wazi!!.unapenda mteremko,unapenda ukute vilidhachumwa tayari wewe ule bila kusota.
 
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