Gugu, life has value higher than love for another Man (You are not Christ) do not kill either yourself or you and your child.
on behalf of God ''you will go to hell''.
-I like the words (I managed thru kuhangaika nikapata mabasi), this shows your head is fine.Now take your child and believe that what happened is the past and you have a new future with minimum financial,social and emotional cost and start over.
-I hope your child is below Seven years(the Law allows you to keep the child),take care of the child to the best of your ability(neve let the child know what is happening and do not blame the father in his/her presence)when he child comes to age he/she will fight for your right and judge between you two(you better be rightous on this one).
-you may need to keep away from men for a while (do not share your situations one on one as basically you are now vulnerable)
-Do not try alcohol/drugs to solve emotional traumas you will never recover.try faith will work for you very fast.try praying and do not be a religious fanatic be in the middle find: out who God is.
-Try pyhsical exercise a lot,do not try to sleep when you are not tired this will take away room to think over the issue many times as your head can not think beyond a certain point for now as your emotions are trapped in the situation.these two will help(Physical excise and prayers)
-As your child is growing make him a friend instead of a child,this will help you from having a troubled child and make you a successiful single mother.
Wanajf wenzangu, I have going thru hell in my marriage that I don't see the future anymore. I love my husband verymuch but I have lived a lif of constant emotional abuse that I feel like I am nothing. What has made me survive to this point is my son and the only one I have. I realized due to some complication I had, I can not gice birth again.
My husband is ever nagging, accusing and he even once bit me and tore my clothes infont of his father and family. He has a habit of comin back in the mornings and I'm not allowed to ask. I have a job well paid bt it is the only imcome we use for school fees, bills and other payments. I managed thru kuhangaika nikapata mabasi which he gladly put his names and excluded me, at first I didn't worry. Now he is mistreating me and since 5 days ago asked why he came back six in the morning he moved out of the house. Wana Jf I am tempted to take ma life I have tried with some medicine with alcohol and hasn't helped. I have no one to talk to what do I do....
ahaahhahahha bora umefafanyua!Hahahaha, tena ngoja nimake hii clear maana si wewe tu hata mlongo wako snowhite anachanganyikiwa na uhusiano wangu na the big boss in the big bass ( The Boss ); huyu ni kaka, lakini he is just too good and 'you know what l mean' to be just kaka; maana tulikuwa tunajikuta tunaoneana wivu. so baada ya kujitafakari na kwa msaada wa kaka mwingine KIKUNGU tukakubaliana tuende mbele zaidi. So kwa kinyamwezi we are very right, maana wanasema kaka yako ni mume wa maisha.
So no matter where l go or where he goes we can always find each other; so ni sawa na open marriage na ndio maana Kikungu alisisitiza niwe mkewe wa wakati wa raha tu, shida zikianza naweza ondoka na kwenda kungine; na yeye akiniona sio sexy any more anaweza tafuta kidada kingine lakini we can always come back to each other.
So this is the arrangement!
ha haaa, tangu lini umejenga interest na mitala mlongo wangu?ahaahhahahha bora umefafanyua!
mi kwanza nilikuwa nakumind kichini chini!
ibada tufanye wote ,misa tunadae wote ,sadaka ukale weweeeee
muumini nimuite mie,kanisa nianzishe mimi,baraka utoe weweeeeee
mimbari nipande mie,neno nilisome mie,upako utoe weeeee
majanga mbona majangaaaaa
eehehehhehhe kwa hiyo hiyo open marriage yenu inaruhusu mitala??
NAULIZA TU lol!
cc The Boss kwa maamuzi
bcc FP kwa ushauri
dcc(hiv huwa ipo) KIKUNGU kwa mwongozo
ecc(zitafika mpka zcc leo) eli kwa uzoefu
fcc Sikonge kwa marekebisho
gcc EMT kwa msaada wa kisheria
read the text on the t-shirts.
Waaleikum Salam.......Nimemwambia snowhite awe wifi yake wa tatu dada FirstLady1 na Kaunga ila bado anaringaringa anataka hawa vijana wanaovaa mitepesho. Mambo ni Wazee vijana bana kama Sikonge hapa. By the way, hivi huyu FP kuna nini kinaendela juu yake maana huwa namuonaona hapa ila sijawahi kuongea naye hata siku moja.
Salaam Aleikum dada FP? Hahahaa nimejifunza kutoka kwa Lil Wayne......
wewewe acha kuburudisha umati, enzi za mwanamke kufa kwaajili ya mwanaume ziliisha zamani. Believe dat u can survive without him and maisha yana maana hata bila yeye then muombe Mungu wako na chukua hatua ya kujitegemea kwenye furaha yako. Mbinguni hamna tuzo ya mvumilivu bora wa mateso ya ndoa so ishi kwa akili wangu. Pole mwaya cz inaumiza ila unaweza kubadilisha hali ukidhamiria
Come on my dear why ending your life just be cause of some one who doesnt take care about you?Donot do such a stupid thing.Think about your son,where are you,please PM ,so we can help you
hebu tafuta kwanza maandiko yangu, bila shaka hutapata shida kujua nimeangukia upande gani maana nipo open mno......Ni mwenyeji wa siku nyingi sana ila nilikuwa RADICAL huko kwenye Siasa ambako sasa nimeamua kupumzika na kusubiri kugombea Ubunge wa jimbo la SIKONGE. Huwa nakuona hapa JF ila sijawahi kukufuatilia kwa ukaribu kujua mwandiko wako umelalia kushoto au kulia......