Mwanandoa kuwa na Rafiki wa kike ni sawa?

UKWELIWANGU

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Kila binadamu anarafiki. hivyo mwanandoa kuwa na rafiki si kosa awe me au ke. kwani kila mtu anahaki ya kuchanganyikana na watu wengine
 

MAMMAMIA

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Feb 26, 2008
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Kuwa na marafiki wa jinsia yoyote si kosa, tatizo ni kuwa katika utamaduni wetu wengi tunaona kama hilo haliwezekani. Wengi tunaamini kuwa haiwezekani kuwa na urafiki na jinsia nyengine bila matamanio.

Tatizo kubwa zaidi ni pale wewe na mwenzako mnapokubaliana (au kuvumiliana) kuwa na marafiki wa jinsia tafauti, lakini bado wanajamii wataliona hilo ni kosa na wataanza kuwatia fitina.

Lakini ukuwachia jamii inafikirije, jiulize wewe mwenyewe kwanza, "utakubali mwenza wako kuwa na (ma)rafiki wa jinsia tafauti? Isiwe ni "one way right", i.e. mwanamume anaweza kuwa na rafiki wa kike lakini mwanamke asiwe na rafiki wa kiume.
 

nyumba kubwa

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Inategemea na tabia ya muhusika. Kuna wasichana ni tomboys, na ndivyo walivyo; mtu kama huyo company yake ni wanaume tu; hata akiolewa si rahisi kuacha kuwa na company ya wanaume. Same kwa wanaume, kuna wanaume wanapenda kuzungukwa na wasichana toka wakiwa mashuleni au utotoni; na wa aina hiyo pia hawezi kuacha.

Ila mimi binafsi sipendi mwanaume anayependa company ya wanawake; hence have never fallen in love with wanaume wa type hii. Ushauri wangu chagua mpenzi unayeona anakufaa kitabia.
 

mojoki

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Oct 21, 2010
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yah nimejaribu ku li google jina la mtoa mada ...

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generally capable of reaching easily accessible branche....hata hivyo bado kujua kama ni dume au jike...
 

Roulette

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Haina shida kabisa ila urafiki huo uwe urafiki mzuri, full of heshima kwa ndoa yake na ambao wahusika watakua wazi na confortable kujieleza wakiwauliza urafiki wao unahusu nini. message zao, maongezi yao na matendo yao yawe wazi kwa partners wao wa ndoa na ikibidi urafiki huo uendelea hadi kwa wake zao na waume zao.
Kama hata mara moja watashindwa kufanya hivo basi urafiki huo sio mzuri. the same applies to wanawake na rafiki zao wakiume.
 

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