I got a phone call this Sunday from one of my colleague (From Nigeria) na akaniomba ushauri as follows: His question was: Is a village born ladies better than city born ladies if one is looking for a wife? Is ones character determined by where she is born or brought up? I know a lot happens in our cities that can influence the character of an individual. Wakulu naomba maoni yenu. My take to him was: Hii issue ya kutaka mke wa shamba au mjini should be approached case by case. I strongly believe that our cities still have good ladies, inter-alia, there are also bad ones as well. At the same time the villages also have the two groups. There are village girls who once they come to town become worse. Men should know that marrying a village girl does not mean she will remain there. You will get work in the city and bring that village lady to the city and from there you will have the town girl you have been trying to avoid. It is for this reason that I think people should be judged by their natural character not by where they were brought up.