---maisha ya "njozi za kutisha"--

Mbu

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...are you the victim of your own success?
are you living your dream or are you living a nighmare?

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una usongo wa mawazo unaotokana na majukumu ya kazi, familia, ie---ndugu, jamaa na marafiki?
huna muda wa kufurahia mafanikio yako kielimu, kazi/biashara?... kipato hakikutoshi majukumu ya jamii inayokuzunguka?




...haupo peke yako! ...tena wala haijalishi wewe ni mzaliwa wa kwanza wa kiume au mzaliwa wa kike kwenye familia...


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njia gani muafaka za kuutua mzigo huu wa kuwa tegemeo la familia ili angalau upate kufurahia
mafanikio ya kisomo chako, ndoa, familia na maisha kwa ujumla?
...kwani ni lazima uilee familia na ukoo mzima kwakuwa tu una kazi inayokulipa vizuri?
 

King'asti

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mkwe,kuna watu wana majukumu ya kujitakia (while forgetting the vital roles). hujaona watu wako busy na msiba than kumuuguza mgonjwa? last wknd nilipewa kadi ya mchango saluni na mdada,hata hanijui jina langu! ili mradi tunakutana mara nyingi hapo! sasa si wazimu huo?kha!
Unamaanisha watu wakwepe majukumu au?
 

MwanajamiiOne

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Dah..................hii ya leo umenibamba! Ninaamini kuwa life ni kustruggle but I also believe that tunahitaji kuenjoy that life. Mbu leo mh! umenibamba!!
 

Mbu

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living one day at a time is the solution. the one way to failure is to try to please everyone! tell pple the truth on their faces when u ar nt up to something!well,im dying to sleep now,lol!

...nice quote king'asti,...nimeupenda ukumbusho huu...
 

JS

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Asante Mbu kwa kutukumbusha...ni vema saa zingine tukumbuke pia na sie tunahitaji kufurahia maisha na si kuwajali wengine tu. Asante Mbu
 
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Likwanda

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Mkuu, wengine ndio tugemeo letu pekee hivyo kutowasaidia ni kuwakosea sana, wengine maisha ni tofauti sana na wengine hivyo wao ndio waliodunduliza fedha ili kutulipia ada.
 

The Finest

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Both dreams and nightmares tend to be intense in terms of their visual, auditory and emotional impact. Nightmares however tend to have the most impact. If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams, sijui kama kuna watu wanajua kitu kinaitwa Hypnosis
 

Mbu

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mimi nimeweza siku hizi kuzima simu kwa siku nzima......inaondoa stress zote.....trust me...

...lol...braza hapo hujatatua bado tatizo, ukiwasha simu tu beep beep----New message!---
 

Mbu

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Both dreams and nightmares tend to be intense in terms of their visual, auditory and emotional impact. Nightmares however tend to have the most impact. If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams, sijui kama kuna watu wanajua kitu kinaitwa Hypnosis

...hahaha...the finest bana....nice read that article is...
je ulikisoma na hiki kipande?

---"...If you focus upon your fears you magnify them and give them more power and then you live your nightmares.
If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams. "---



...swali langu linaegemea hapa; tukishavuka stage hiyo ya kujitambua, nini kipimo cha mafanikio yetu kimaisha?
 

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Kuna watu hawali vizuri, hawafanyi chochote hata kidogo cha kuwafurahisha wao au waliowazunguka kinachohitaji kutumia pesa (japo kidogo) wakisema wanawekeza kujengea mtoto/watoto future......

Hili nalo limekaaje?
 

King'asti

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hypnosis huku kwetu si tutauana mazee? manake confidentiality ni zero,ukifumua hii kichwa unaweza kukuta weapons of mass destruction,lol!
Both dreams and nightmares tend to be intense in terms of their visual, auditory and emotional impact. Nightmares however tend to have the most impact. If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams, sijui kama kuna watu wanajua kitu kinaitwa Hypnosis
 

King'asti

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very well said! kipimo cha mafanikio iwe 'furaha' kuna mtu kafanikiwa kupata hela, ila nyumbani kituo cha polisi! huko ofcn anakimbia kimbia tu manake sio wadai na wadaiwa wanamsaka! in the end of the day,kama hufurahii maisha, u cant take a deep breath of the so called fresh air, u ar so doomed! its very important to focus on urself and people who matters the most and enjoy life. umenikumbusha mbu, im dying for a hoiliday,lol

...hahaha...the finest bana....nice read that article is...
je ulikisoma na hiki kipande?

---"...If you focus upon your fears you magnify them and give them more power and then you live your nightmares.
If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams. "---




...swali langu linaegemea hapa; tukishavuka stage hiyo ya kujitambua, nini kipimo cha mafanikio yetu kimaisha?
 
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Mbu

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Kuna watu hawali vizuri, hawafanyi chochote hata kidogo cha kuwafurahisha wao au waliowazunguka kinachohitaji kutumia pesa (japo kidogo) wakisema wanawekeza kujengea mtoto/watoto future......

Hili nalo limekaaje?

...hahahah....Gaijin umesema vizuri sana;....rejea maneno ya 'msemakweli' huyu halafu tuanze kujadiliana...

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...wengi wetu tumebambwa kwenye mfumo huu, wazazi walitusomesha, na sasa tunalazimika kulipa fadhila
kuwasomesha na kuwalea wadogo zetu...

the circle continues....
 

The Finest

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living one day at a time is the solution. the one way to failure is to try to please everyone! tell pple the truth on their faces when u ar nt up to something!well,im dying to sleep now,lol!
The subconscious mind attempts to process these emotions and to resolve any hidden and unconscious conflicts
 

Mbu

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very well said! kipimo cha mafanikio iwe 'furaha' kuna mtu kafanikiwa kupata hela, ila nyumbani kituo cha polisi! huko ofcn anakimbia kimbia tu manake sio wadai na wadaiwa wanamsaka! in the end of the day,kama hufurahii maisha, u cant take a deep breath of the so called fresh air, u ar so doomed! its very important to focus on urself and people who matters the most and enjoy life. umenikumbusha mbu, im dying for a hoiliday,lol

King'asti, kujipendelea muhimu, ..."ukitaka!"....lol!

....umesema kweli tupu....hizi extended family hizi.....pasua kichwa kabisa!
kuna mheshimiwa mmoja majuzi alianzisha unyuzi kukemea vibaya sana michango ya harusi na aliyeianzisha...
---kizazi cha kudaiwa michango--- na usipotoa jamii inakutenga...! ---hata ukisema huna madhali jamii inaku judge kwa 'mafanikio' yako, imekula kwako hiyo!
 

The Finest

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...hahaha...the finest bana....nice read that article is...
je ulikisoma na hiki kipande?

---"...If you focus upon your fears you magnify them and give them more power and then you live your nightmares.
If you focus upon your desires, you allow yourself to be inspired to follow and live your dreams. "---




...swali langu linaegemea hapa; tukishavuka stage hiyo ya kujitambua, nini kipimo cha mafanikio yetu kimaisha?
Hahahaha!!! Mbu nitajaribu kujibu swali lako ingawa sijui kama nitakuwa nimepatia sawa sawa kwa jinsi ambavyo utakuwa unahitaji kujibiwa, unajua Mbu asilimia kubwa ya our thoughts are mixture of our perceptions, fears, worries and dreams yaani hatuishii yale maisha halisi hata tukivuka ile stage ya kujitambua kwenye kipimo cha mafanikio yetu ni asilimia chache sana wanaweza kukupa jibu la hilo swali maana some us distort reality in a positive way
 
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