According to nature a lady is meant to be taken care of by a man. But sometimes it goes beyond control. You load airtime on her phone but she never returns a call unless there is something she wants from you. My ex-girlfriend used to come hold me tight because her request was right around the corner. If she calls Eh sweetie nime kumiss, this is how the conversation normally began on phone. Then i could tell the next phase. Normally she was not that kind to return or pay back whatever she borrowed. After getting what she wants anapotea ghafla until next time when she needs help. I had to ignore her calls as a result i lost interest in her.