Nakuaminia mkuu. Dawa yao ni hiyo tu. Mtu jeuri halafu anapenda pesa dawa yake ni hiyo.Tatizo wanapenda Sana pesa,dawa yao Ni kuwatia mimba tu then wakafie mbele,Mimi nishatia mimba watatu
Ndio mahitaji yenyewe hayo.Hata kama akitoa mahitaji ni material tu kuna vitu zaidi,affection je??
Yep,ukimtia mimba unampa heshima ya kuitwa mamaNyie ndio mnafanyaga wanaume wote tuonekane wapuuzi na tusio na maana kabisa hvi kweli kuwatia mimba wanawake hovyo ni jambo la kujivunia ??Tuheshimuni wanawake jamani
Mkuu jiulize pia kwa nini dada zako wazae na wanaume wapuuzi??? Kwanini wasizae na wanaume wanaojielewa?Mimi nawapenda sana wanawake sna tu kwanza ni mama zetu pili ni Dada zetu binafsi nimezaliwa katika familia ambayo wa kiume ni Mimi pekee na kati ya Dada zangu wawili wamezalishwa na wanaume wapuuzi wasiojielewa na sasa jamii inawaita single mother I feel the empathy kwa ajili yao na kila mwanamke outhere sijaona walipokosea kabisa kosa dogo tu walilofanya labda ni kuwaamini wanaume wale wapuuzi wasiojua majukumu yao Kwangu mwanamke anastahili heshima sana wapo wanaotukana na kuwadharau wanawake huo ni ukosefu wa akili na maadili
Mimi katika maisha yangu nimechagua kumlinda,kumthamini, kumheshimu mwanamke na siwezi dharau wanayopitia nawapenda sna Wanawake kwa kila jambo niko pamoja nao na sitawajudge kwa minor mistakes
Ndo maana mimi nikasema mwanamke mwenye haki ya kutoa lawama kwa mwanaume Ni yule tu aliyebakwa, mwanamke yeye ndo mwamuzi wa kupata/ kutopata mimbaHakika,kila mtu hukosea katika eneo Fulani la maisha na kila mtu anastahili nafasi ya pili,cha msingi warudi katika misingi ili wasirudie kosa hilo tena!
Ni lazima wawe katika mahusiano yanayoeleweka,mwanaume awe tayari kuwa baba ndipo mimba itungwe!
Japokuwa kila mtu ana sehemu ya kufanya lakini Mwanamke anapaswa kuwa na maamuzi zaidi juu ya kubeba au kutokubeba mimba,Mimba haitakiwi iwe tokeo la ajali!! Siyo kila tendo la ngono linatakiwa lisababishe mimba! Kwenye mzunguko wa mwezi mzima wa hedhi Siku za kubeba mimba hazizidi saba,zingine zote ni siku tatu hadi tano za hedhi zingine zote BATA! Simple Math,Kubeba Mimba ni Kuchagua unless mtu amebakwa!
Hiyo ndo dawa yao,nimeshawatia mimba watatu saizi kiburi kwishaNakuaminia mkuu. Dawa yao ni hiyo tu. Mtu jeuri halafu anapenda pesa dawa yake ni hiyo.
Unaweza ukawa sahihi kwa upande fulani ila kwangu kuwadhihaki naona haijakaa sawa kabisaNdo maana mimi nikasema mwanamke mwenye haki ya kutoa lawama kwa mwanaume Ni yule tu aliyebakwa, mwanamke yeye ndo mwamuzi wa kupata/ kutopata mimba
Mkuu hizi lawama sisi wanaume ndo inapaswa tuwalaumu wao,Tena wengine wanatutegeshea,Ni makosa yao sio sisi, mwanamke pekee mwenye kulalamika Ni yule aliyebakwa tuUnaweza ukawa sahihi kwa upande fulani ila kwangu kuwadhihaki naona haijakaa sawa kabisa
Mshaanza.
Hebu tuacheni jamani.
Kwani kuna kaburi la aliyeolewa na asiyeolewa?
Why stay in a relationship that is doomed and detrimental to you and your kids?Maneno kama haya ndio yanazidi kutuongezea single mothers badala ya kupiga vita una encourage
Nakazia mkuuNot all Baby mamas got drama,some got diplomas, degrees& jobs, they go to work , independent & raise their kids silently
Naona unajifariji, wanawake bwana kuchezea saikolojia zao rahisi sana
Cowardly men who only seek to test whether they are impotent or not. Once they know they can make a woman pregnant basi they go on a baby making spree. Not once providing for any of their kids.
And the women are too strong to just take the beating lying down. Therefore, there is an increase of single mothers but they won't say there is a rise of successful women too, and they happen to be single.
The kids you abandoned happened to be the source of strength for them. The wind that helped them soar in the sky despite the rough winds.
Stay strong single ladies. You are queens, never let your crowns tip over. Adjust them and never lose focus.