Kwa tabia hizi nani akuoe?

[Wickama]

Mwanamke gani kila siku tu unataka muwe kenye raha na siku shida zinitembelea tu basi ishakuwa dhahama.Eti my baby Mr Yes naomba unitumie shilingi elfu hamsini niende kwa masai nikasuke....sasa hata kama mimi ndio Mr Yes jamani hapo nikihoji tu nywele gani hizo za elfu 50 kosa...."yani we mwanaume kila siku huna hela,un adhani nisingekuwa nahudumiwa ungenikuta hivi?shauri yako usipotunza wenzako watakutunzia",damn,jamani ndio maneno ya kumwambia mwenzi wako hayo?halafu kesho unaomba atimize ile ahadi yake ya ndoa....mhh nimeshtuka mtego huo haunikamati ng'ooo.

Mr Yes, kama huu ulioandika ni ukweli, basi ndani ya ndoa huyu mwenzio atakusumbua sana across WAVES za MAJARIBU na MITIHANI ya maisha. Lugha ya "..... shauri yako wenzako watakutunzia" from a fiancee TO ME naiona ni QUITE OFFENSIVE.

 

[mchumia tumbo]

Mkuu hizi tabia tatu ni shida Sana kwa Dada zetu.Najua lazima watabisha ila huwa ni kikwazo kwa wanaume wengi.

 

[Mr Yes]

HII MENTALITY NA IFE.

kuolewa kufurahisha jamii kumepitwa na wakati.

we mwenyewe mbona unahangaika kutafuta mke. ukila ukiamka unawaza sifa za mke wako. UNATAMANI SANA UWE NA MKE. hauna tofauti huyo mwanamke unayemsema eti "shurti kuolewa". mwanaume shurti kuoa eeehh.

jamii yetu ndo iko hivyo, mtu anapata status akioa/olewa. but that is changing ooohhh. better come along au utaachwa.

The only respect you will get right now inategemea hela yako na si ndoa yako. ndoa hata vitoto vya miaka 14 vinavyo huko Pakistan so what!!

KWA TAARIFA YAKO si kila mtu ana mawazo ya ndoa. Infact the only time I will feel the need to sign legal papers is when i will be assured of getting benefits, kama health insurance au visa.

other than that wewe uliyehangaika na harusi huna tofauti na mimi na "illegal husband wangu". tofauti ni nyie mmesign makaratasi tu.

ACHENI KUSTIGMATISE WATU.

sasa hapo ndio penyewe,wadada wengi mnayo hiyo tabia ya kutaka kuolewa ili muifurahishe jamii,unakuta mdada mzuri lakini mpaka anafikia umri wa kuolewa hajaolewa na age inazidi songa mbele,akiangalia mtaani hapo vidole haviishi kwake,sasa hapo ndio utaona huyu mwanamke reaction yake.Ataolewa na yeyote yule atakayekuja kwa jina la kuoa hata awe kibabu.

Sisi wanaume huwa hatupatwi na msongo wa mawazo eti usipooa kwani sisi ndio tunaamua lini tuoe na nani umuoe,hatuna presha sie.

Hizo grand plans unazosema dada yangu;kama unaona umempenda mtu na hana hizo plans kwanini usikubali kuolewa naye na kisha ukawa ndio mwanzo wa kumpa mawazo ili mfikie milestone zenu na ule msemo "kila alipofanikiwa mwanaume basi nyuma yeke kuna mwanamke imara".au unataka mwanamke peke awe ndio think tank?aaaah wewe si msomi bwana?hapo ndio pa kuonyesha usaidizi wako kwa mwanaume housegirl.

 

[Mr Yes]

Imagination continue to till u know the truth

and most the things we have achieved started with imagination.

Or is it a crime to imagine?

 

[Mr Yes]

Mr Yes, kama huu ulioandika ni ukweli, basi ndani ya ndoa huyu mwenzio atakusumbua sana across WAVES za MAJARIBU na MITIHANI ya maisha. Lugha ya "..... shauri yako wenzako watakutunzia" from a fiancee TO ME naiona ni QUITE OFFENSIVE.

yani ndugu yangu hiyo ishu ni ya kweli wala sio maigizo.yapo mengi tu ambayo ameyasema au kutenda na sijayaandika hapa.kifupikwangu mimi hafai kuwa mke maana ukioa mtu kama huyo atakufanya ufe mapemaa.

 

[Mr Yes]

Mkuu hizi tabia tatu ni shida Sana kwa Dada zetu.Najua lazima watabisha ila huwa ni kikwazo kwa wanaume wengi.

na ndio zinazowafanya wengi washindwe kuolewa na kubaki majumbani kwao wanalia tu.

 

[miss chagga]

tafuta za kwako.. Umekuwa ombaomba

Ndiyo natafuta na zako nataka pia

 

[Power to the People]

Jamani mbona tunachukulia relationships ni kama rocket science?Watu wanakomaa na ma-theories na masharti kibaoo

Meet someone,chemistry iki-click pendaneni yaishe....sio ooh pesa,kubarikiwa ubo.o,sijui nini...zote ni fantasy tu hizo

Wachache sana wa hivi, many likes

 

[kabanga]

Sawa, Ila una kazi ya kuja kupata mke....

 

[Mr Yes]

Sawa, Ila una kazi ya kuja kupata mke....

kwanini mkuu?

 

[Cyan6]

utaishia kama huyu.
alichobaki nacho ni ego tu.

kujiaminisha kwamba huyo mwanamke amekosa a chance of a life time kuolewa na huyo jamaa, kwamba she will have such a miserable life without him in her life. anajiaminisha kuwa the main purpose of life kwa mwanamke ni kuolewa na bila ndoa mwanamke hana maisha.

pathetic really.

ukiwa na hela you get a completely different view of life.

Umesema kweli my dear! Hahaaa eti you will be miserable in her life without him!
Hizo ndizo akili za most of African men!
Alinitokea mmoja yupo serious anataka kuoa, kumbe kachungulia nafanya kazi wapi, naishi wapi, nadrive gari gani, heee mara anataka kumove in kwangu, mara kaibiwa hela ya rent, mara hana hela ya kutumia, mara tyres za gari yake zimechoka, anapata pancha, mara anataka atumie gari yangu kusafiria mikoani! Ni shiiiiider! Msomi wa degree 2 huyo! Nikamtafutia kazi akakataa kufanya, hataki kuajiriwa, lakini hana hata hela ya kula anaomba!
Nikaona hili ni janga! Nikapotezea!
Akanitumia text baada ya miezi 2 wewe si wife material hunipi hela hutanisaidia nikikuoa! wanaume tuko wachache sana! Kaa na hela zako!
Lol nikamwambia na wewe si hubby material just a gold digger marioo, go to hell!
Hahaa nimepata Mwanaume intelligent, hard working, anatumia resources kumake life lol Mungu ni mwema!

 

[jembe afrika]

lara 1 anaulizaga, kibaya kipi hapo, the sex or the money? hoja yako haina mshiko. you intend to stigmatise the woman wakati ye mwenye utamu anapata. its the man with the real loss.

kutafuta naye is a good thing. but as easy as that may sound its not as practical. mtu hand to mouth unaanzaje! lol.

but as I said if the guy got dreams and grand plans why not give him a chance!

pumbafu hujui kiswahili?

 

[Mapi]

bora kuzeekea hom

hongera

 

[Mr Yes]

Umesema kweli my dear! Hahaaa eti you will be miserable in her life without him!
Hizo ndizo akili za most of African men!
Alinitokea mmoja yupo serious anataka kuoa, kumbe kachungulia nafanya kazi w Reply With Quoteapi, naishi wapi, nadrive gari gani, heee mara anataka kumove in kwangu, mara kaibiwa hela ya rent, mara hana hela ya kutumia, mara tyres za gari yake zimechoka, anapata pancha, mara anataka atumie gari yangu kusafiria mikoani! Ni shiiiiider! Msomi wa degree 2 huyo! Nikamtafutia kazi akakataa kufanya, hataki kuajiriwa, lakini hana hata hela ya kula anaomba!
Nikaona hili ni janga! Nikapotezea!
Akanitumia text baada ya miezi 2 wewe si wife material hunipi hela hutanisaidia nikikuoa! wanaume tuko wachache sana! Kaa na hela zako!
Lol nikamwambia na wewe si hubby material just a gold digger marioo, go to hell!
Hahaa nimepata Mwanaume intelligent, hard working, anatumia resources kumake life lol Mungu ni mwema!

And life goes on,mapenzi hayalazimishwi,kama vile ulivoona yeye hajafikia vigezo na masharti yako ndio vile na sisi wanaume tunaangalia je unavigezo vya kuwa mke?kama huna unapigwa chini hata kama wewe ni multi-millionaire

 

[jembe afrika]

Ndiyo natafuta na zako nataka pia

heee,wewe utakua dumuzi au nzige..kifo cha mpenda hela huwa si chakawaida,na muda wowote unauwawa kabla ya siku si zako.

 

[Cyan6]

any girl would love to have marriage,only desperate girls comes with those words ili kujipa moyo.Trust me hata uwe umesoma vipi na una mahela kiasi lazima utawaza lini utaolewa,tofauti na hapo hiyo ego itakuwa ndani yako sasa.Mwanamke shurti kuolewa banaa

unawakumbuka wale jamaa waliojiita Ngoni tribe na wimbo wao ule wa"wanawake wazuri wazuri wameolewa,wamebaki manunga embe yanaangaikaa..."

It is true tunapenda kuolewa! Mi sipingi na nakubaliana na wewe 100% Shida ni aina gani ya muoaji!
Kuwa desperate kuolewa ni kitu kizuri kwa sababu nature ipo hivyo! To get someone to compliment you!
Sasa ninyi waoaji mmetumia chance hiyo vibaya, mnaishi hovyo, hamna malengo, wazinzi, matapeli, hamna hofu y Mungu, wavivu mmesahau kusimama kama wanaume, mnasubiri kuletewa na wanawake, halafu mnalazimisha eti msichague!
Yaani sisi tubebe takataka zenu kwa kisingizio tusionekane hatujaolewa?
Wale waliojaribu wamedumu kwenye hizo ndoa sasa?
Stand as a man, I will stand as a woman!

 

[MKINGI]

Umesema kweli my dear! Hahaaa eti you will be miserable in her life without him!
Hizo ndizo akili za most of African men!
Alinitokea mmoja yupo serious anataka kuoa, kumbe kachungulia nafanya kazi wapi, naishi wapi, nadrive gari gani, heee mara anataka kumove in kwangu, mara kaibiwa hela ya rent, mara hana hela ya kutumia, mara tyres za gari yake zimechoka, anapata pancha, mara anataka atumie gari yangu kusafiria mikoani! Ni shiiiiider! Msomi wa degree 2 huyo! Nikamtafutia kazi akakataa kufanya, hataki kuajiriwa, lakini hana hata hela ya kula anaomba!
Nikaona hili ni janga! Nikapotezea!
Akanitumia text baada ya miezi 2 wewe si wife material hunipi hela hutanisaidia nikikuoa! wanaume tuko wachache sana! Kaa na hela zako!
Lol nikamwambia na wewe si hubby material just a gold digger marioo, go to hell!
Hahaa nimepata Mwanaume intelligent, hard working, anatumia resources kumake life lol Mungu ni mwema!

Hahahahaha nacheka kama mazuri vile..
Hahaahhahahaha n

 

[halati88]

Nilichoona wanaume wa sasa hivi mnachagua sana yaani mpo attention kwenye mambo madogo madogo hakuna mwanamke asie na kasoro,mnatakiwa muangalie sifa zenye umuhimu kasoro ndogo ndogo mnatupa kulee,mbona hata nyie mnazo kasoro,tatizo mnatumia akili nyiingi kumchunguza mwanamke mapenzi hayataki hivyo N.B wenye nia ya kuoa wameshaoa wanaokuja kupiga kelele kila siku hapa kuhusu wanawake sio waoaji.

 

[Cyan6]

And life goes on,mapenzi hayalazimishwi,kama vile ulivoona yeye hajafikia vigezo na masharti yako ndio vile na sisi wanaume tunaangalia je unavigezo vya kuwa mke?kama huna unapigwa chini hata kama wewe ni multi-millionaire

That's true! Fair! kwa sababu sipendi kulea marioo huwa normally napenda mwanaume anayejituma whether mi ni multi millionaire au siyo!
Hivi mi ndiyo naleta ugali we mwenzangu umekaa sebleni unaangalia TV mwaka mzima na kutembea na taulo na kugombana na housegirls, nikirudi home saa 4 ucku unapata wapi ujasiri wa kuniuliza ulikua wapi?
Mwanaume anayeheshimika ni yule anayewajibika kama kichwa kwny Nyumba si mpiga mizinga kwa mkewe

 

[Cyan6]

Hahahahaha nacheka kama mazuri vile..
Hahaahhahahaha n

Yes miserable kama nakutegemea unilishe, unilipie makazi, univalishe, card ya bima ya afya unayo wewe, nauli ya daladala inatoka kwako hapo ukiniacha nitameza nyembe!
Ni dudu tu tena kibamia hahaaaaa get a life nigger!