I cheated on hubby with lay preacher Fling ... I had affair with lay preacher Published: 02nd October 2012 I'VE been having sex with a lay preacher at my local church. Now my husband wont believe I can stay faithful. Im 33 and my family has always attended our local evangelical church. I was raised here but my parents came from Nigeria, and I met my husband visiting family over there. It took months to get him a visa to come to live with me in the UK. Just I was trying to sort that out I was made redundant. I was worried what we were going to live on and whether the visa would be blocked. This preacher at the church asked me what was wrong so I confided in him. He offered me a job in his company, doing things like the filing. I was so grateful but he started finding excuses to get me to stay late. Then one evening when there was nobody around he took me through to his private loo and made a pass at me. As things got more passionate he lifted up my skirt and we had sex. It was frantic but it felt amazing. I hadnt seen my husband for six months by then and had missed being held and wanted. He then started calling round for sex at my flat in secret because hes well known in the community My husband, who is 45, has joined me now but he found out about my affair through looking through my phone. Ive ended things with my boss but I cant pack my job in as we need the money. My husband is convinced Im still involved with my boss but hes backed right off now my husband is here. How can I convince my husband that Ill commit to him from now on?