Je, mwanamke uliyeolewa/uliopo kwenye mahusiano unaweza kuwa na rafiki (best) wa kiume?

[Bbade]

Huu mjadala nimekutana nao sehemu ya kazi.

Kwamba idadi kubwa ya wa wadada tunakuwa na mtu mmoja (mwanamme) ambaye tunaambiana matatizo yetu zaidi kuliko tunavyowahusisha wapenzi wetu.

Na huyu rafiki hajulikani kwa mwenza wako.

Kwanini hutokea hivyo?

Je unafikiri ni vyema kufanya hivyo?

 

[mbalizi1]

..

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Not good at all! It’s a recipe for a major relationship/ marriage disaster!

In an ideal situation, your man/ husband should be your [best] friend.

But definitely not some other guy.

If you can’t confide in your man then something is majorly wrong in that relationship and you need to re-assess it ASAP.

I don’t believe in opposite sex friendships while one is in a serious relationship with someone else.

I’m just old school like that!

 

[RRONDO]

A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on.

 

[Gideone]

Nina best yangu uyo dah nampenda sana ameolewa ila na mimi hunipa muda wake tumetoka mbali tangu chuo na nimekuwa mshauri wake mkuu, Ila mimi naona u best si kitu kizuri mtu akiolewa mana best wana share each and everything

 

[Daby]

A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on.

duuh

 

[Daby]

kwangu naona sio vibaya kuwa na rafiki.

kwasababu haizuiliki kuwa na rafiki?

ila huko kuzama kubembelezana ndiko siko sasa.

 

[Mrigariga]

You are

Not good at all! It’s a recipe for a major relationship/ marriage disaster!

In an ideal situation, your man/ husband should be your [best] friend.

But definitely not some other guy.

If you can’t confide in your man then something is majorly wrong in that relationship and you need to re-assess it ASAP.

I don’t believe in opposite sex friendships while one is in a serious relationship with someone else.

I’m just old school like that!

You are absolutely right. Regarless of your old school status.

 

[Mrigariga]

kwangu naona sio vibaya kuwa na rafiki.

kwasababu haizuiliki kuwa na rafiki?

Rafiki wa kumueleza vitu vya ndani ambavyo huwezi mueleza mpenzi wako?!! Huo urafiki ni lazima utaishia kwenye disaster tu.

 

[sabosabo]

Kuna mke wa mtu ilikua kila akigombana na mumewe anakuja kunililia!

Ikabidi niwe tu niwe mdaka chozi nimfariji,mwisho siku nikala mzigo!

 

[Daby]

Rafiki wa kumueleza vitu vya ndani ambavyo huwezi mueleza mpenzi wako?!! Huo urafiki ni lazima utaishia kwenye disaster tu.

Asilimia ni kubwa saana za kuangukiana.

lakini inawezekana mwanamme au mwanamke kutokuwa na rafiki wa namna hiyo sijafika kwenye kama mlishawahi kuanguka au la!

Kuna mambo huwezi kumwambia mwenza wako. mkigombana utamwomba ushauri wa kufanya ili ugomvi uishe! huwezi lazima awepo asiyehusika kwenye ugomvi akushauri.

tatizo.. huja pale mnapokolea nje ya kushauriana mnaliwazana mwisho mnageuka michepuko.


kwangu kuwa na rafiki sio vibaya ila mipaka ijengwe.

 

[Mama Sabrina]

Sijakusashau ujue

Ahahahahahahahah

 

[Mama Sabrina]

Kuna mke wa mtu ilikua kila akigombana na mumewe anakuja kunililia!

Ikabidi niwe tu niwe mdaka chozi nimfariji,mwisho siku nikala mzigo!

Huwa hivyo

 

[MTINGIJOLI]

Kwa Mimi Sioni Kama kuna Tatizo, Mpenzi Wangu Kuwa Na Rafiki Wa Kiume, Au Mimi Kuwa Na Rafiki Wa Kike Wa Kusaidiana Pale Panapostahili, Kwani Hata Huyu Nilienae Nimempata Kupitia Huyo Rafiki Yake Wa Kiume.

 

[lolipo]

Huu mjadala nimekutana nao Sehemu ya kazi.
Kwamba Idadi kubwa ya Wa wadada tunakuwa na mtu mmoja (mwanamme) ambaye tunaambiana matatizo yetu Zaidi kuliko tunavyo wahusisisha wapenzi wetu.

Na huyu Rafiki hajulikani kwa Mwenza wako.

Kwanini hutokea hivyo?

Je unafikiri ni vyema kufanya hivyo?

MKIJA KUACHWA MNALALAMIKA

 

[Carlos The Jackal]

Moja ya kosa wanalofanya wanawake ni kujaribu kua "One of Guy" ....yaan mwanamke unataka kua namarafiki wakiume,sio wa mwanamme wako sio wawapi yaaan wee namba zako ingi ni mee.


Ivi mwanamke unajisikiaje, Mumeo kua na mawasiliano na wmarafiki wengine wakike wawe wako au lah alafu anawapa muda wake sana??? .

 

[G.Jacob]

Not good at all! It’s a recipe for a major relationship/ marriage disaster!

In an ideal situation, your man/ husband should be your [best] friend.

But definitely not some other guy.

If you can’t confide in your man then something is majorly wrong in that relationship and you need to re-assess it ASAP.

I don’t believe in opposite sex friendships while one is in a serious relationship with someone else.

I’m just old school like that!

Tena unakuta unamuuliza huyu/yule ni nani? Anakujibu simple tu "humjui na sio lazima kumjua kila mtu" hahahaaa aisee nikigeuza kisogo huwa ndo imetoka hiyooo.

 

[Mama Sabrina]

Usjali lakin
Mpe hi sana

Sawa zimefika kabisaaa

 

[Detective J]

Not good at all! It’s a recipe for a major relationship/ marriage disaster!

In an ideal situation, your man/ husband should be your [best] friend.

But definitely not some other guy.

If you can’t confide in your man then something is majorly wrong in that relationship and you need to re-assess it ASAP.

I don’t believe in opposite sex friendships while one is in a serious relationship with someone else.

I’m just old school like that!

They simply looking for trouble.

 

[Detective J]

A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on.

Damn right brother, and thats how it ends. From tears to dick to ride...