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- Oct 4, 2007
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"Let me enjoy the products of my sweat," she told the village court.
I know its disgusting, I felt like having shower after reading this article but frankly I have fallen in love with hako ka statement ka mama mtu hapo juu! Anakula jasho lake!!!
Akizaliwa mtoto wa kike, mama... sorry, mke akafariki kabla ya bwana, baba naye huenda akaamua kula jasho lake.
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Emotional incest Characteristics
Covert incest has been described as a "highly sexualized parent-child relationship"; part of a continuum of incestuous behaviors that ranges from the psychological precursors to incest such as dysfunctional family systems and family role issues, to overt child sexual abuse.
Covert incest is characterized by ambiguous behaviors which are inappropriately sexualized. They can include 'accidental' touching, voyeurism, sexualized or sexually objectifying comments, ridiculing the physical changes that accompany puberty, exposing a child to pornographic material, unusually strict dress codes, sexual hugs or touching inappropriate or intrusive hygiene and exposing a child to parental nudity or sexuality.
In families where one or both of the parents are alcoholics, generational boundaries can become blurred, resulting in increased chance that the child may be "elevated to the position of surrogate spouse". Either the alcoholic parent or the spouse may share with the child confidences and emotional interactions of the type normally shared between adult partners, thereby interfering with the child's developmental process.
Umenikumbusha haya mambo yapo na watu wanaona kawaida siku hizi.....kuna mzee namjua yeye akikukuta uko na binti yake huo ugomvi hautaisha....kumbe alikuwa anawamega mabinti zake anampa mama likizo aende kijijini yeye anakaa na binti zake na wale mabinti walikuwa wanampenda sana mzee wao.....]kuna mzee mmoja kule kijijini yeye hutembea na watoto wake wakuwazaa tena anawaanza mwenyewe [/B]...
Akizaliwa mtoto wa kike, mama... sorry, mke akafariki kabla ya bwana, baba naye huenda akaamua kula jasho lake.
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I got just one word ABOMINATION. What ever happened to the sacred duty of a mother to lead and guide their children. Our example is Holy Mary mother of God.I wanna marry my son
Sunday August 17, 2008 00:49 - (SA)
A Zimbabwean woman and her son have done the unthinkable they have
fallen in love with one another.
And now they want to marry since the mom, Betty Mbereko from Mwenezi
in Masvingo, is six months pregnant and expecting her sons child.
Mbereko (40), who was widowed 12 years ago, has been cohabiting with
her first child, Farai Mbereko (23).
She confirms that she is six months pregnant and that she has decided it is
better to marry her son because she does not want to marry her late
husbands young brothers, whom she says are coveting her.
Betty stunned a village court last week when she said the affair with her
son had begun three years earlier.
She said after spending a lot of money sending Farai to school following the
death of her husband, she felt she had a right to his money and no other
woman was entitled to it.
Look, I strove alone to send my son to school and no one helped me. Now
you see that my son is working and you accuse me of doing something
wrong.
Let me enjoy the products of my sweat, she told the village court.
Farai said he was more than prepared to marry his mother and would pay
off the ilobola balance his father had left unpaid to his grandparents.
I know my father died before he finished paying the bride price and I am
prepared to pay it off, he said.
It is better to publicise what is happening because people should know that
I am the one who made my mother pregnant. Otherwise they will accuse
her of promiscuity.
But local headman Nathan Muputirwa says: We cannot allow this to happen
in our village, mashura chaiwo aya, (This is a bad omen indeed). In the
past they would have to be killed but today we cannot do it because we are
afraid of the police.
He warned them to break off their marriage or leave his village.
They chose the latter and have left the village for an unknown destination.
source:sunday mirror (SA)
Just one from me as my take- SHOCKING!
.........jamani kwani hawa kwa mjibu wa sheria wamefanya kosa????Wamekuwa kama mifugo yenyewe haichagui mama,dada,binamu wote ni kukandamizana tu imradi production inaendelea.....
Mtu anajilia jasho lake du! ha ha ha
Huyu mwanamke alifiwa wakati Farai ana miaka 11. Nafikiri amedanganya kwamba they started a sexual relationship just 3 years earlier.
Na kama anachosema huyu mama ni kweli, ni dhahiri kwamba mambo mengine tofauti na sexual intercourse yalianza Farai akiwa mtoto and this could be a form of child sexual abuse.
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