Having privacy vs keeping Secrets

Having privacy vs keeping Secrets

Hello guys.

How would you feel if your husband/boyfriend, wife/girlfriend never posted you on his/her social media?
What would you do? Does social media matter to you?

Me personally, I wouldn’t like it if my significant other actively used social media but never mentioned me, but I would never mention him on mine, because I like my privacy at this point in life.

Is something fishy about this. There is difference between privacy and secrecy tho.
How about you guys? Does this matter to you?

Good morning.
Watoto bana!
 
Just to be sure he's not dating or approaching other girls and acting like he's single.
If you don't trust him then don't date him.

Posting is advertising.I am just saying.

BTW, why don't you post him as well?
 
I think a man should profess his love to the world for his woman when he truly loves her. Same applied to us.
There is no need to seek validation or approval to the world that he loves you nor you should crave for that attention, if at all necessary, church vows are more than enough to inform you and everyone concerned that he truly loves you and the rest will be mouthed louder in his actions.

It was you and him before anyone knew that you are in love, it will be you and him even after everyone else, never let anybody in your circle.

Should you wish that everyone to be opinionated about you relationship make it publicly on social network.
 
I once dated a girl. She was like "why don't you post me on Whatsapp". That is for the fact it is the only social media I do use.

I find it being too childish and she was forcing. I said ok. I detailed the privacy settings for only her friends and her be able to see my status. Then I posted.

She was happy and satisfied. Whether she posts or not, that is okay with me.
That's how to deal with a woman with a mind of a child. You make her happy to avoid trouble.
 
If you don't trust him then don't date him.

Posting is advertising.I am just saying.

BTW, why don't you post him as well?

I never posted him before because I like my privacy. But I will mention him in my Instagram bio soon.
 
There is no need to seek validation or approval to the world that he loves you nor you should crave for that attention, if at all necessary, church vows are more than enough to inform you and everyone concerned that he truly loves you and the rest will be mouthed louder in his actions.

It was you and him before anyone knew that you are in love, it will be you and him even after everyone else, never let anybody in your circle.

Should you wish that everyone to be opinionated about you relationship make it publicly on social network.
BISECKO your advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
 

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