Hatua tano apitiazo mwanamke baada ya break up Vs mbili apitiazo mwanaume

ruby garnet said:

Pipi wangu, please ni Pm Please I wana talk to you. This is not good.

Mother Confessor

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NIMEONA said:

mh, umeongea kweli tupu hapa......yalinikuta hayo, mwanzoni sikuwa namfikiria wala kujali lakini kadiri muda ulivyoenda naye kumpata mwingine nikageuka kuwa kama mtumwa hivi......nikawa najikuta namfuatilia kwa sana yaani kujua maendeleo yao tu na nikisikia wamepiga hatua basi kawivu fulani kalikuwa kananishika. ilinisumbua miezi kadhaa kwakweli na mpaka leo bado hiyo hali hunitokea lakini hainisumbui sana. ilifikia wakati najenga picha kabisa ya anachomfanyia huko chumbani....ni shida kwakweli!!!

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Tuttyfruity said:

Tumeachana jana leo nipo stage #5

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NIMEONA said:

mh, umeongea kweli tupu hapa......yalinikuta hayo, mwanzoni sikuwa namfikiria wala kujali lakini kadiri muda ulivyoenda naye kumpata mwingine nikageuka kuwa kama mtumwa hivi......nikawa najikuta namfuatilia kwa sana yaani kujua maendeleo yao tu na nikisikia wamepiga hatua basi kawivu fulani kalikuwa kananishika. ilinisumbua miezi kadhaa kwakweli na mpaka leo bado hiyo hali hunitokea lakini hainisumbui sana. ilifikia wakati najenga picha kabisa ya anachomfanyia huko chumbani....ni shida kwakweli!!!

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gileun said:

Wanawake:
1. Kukasirika sana (Anger)
2. Kuukataa ukweli (Denying)
3. Kumpunguza thamani ampendaye kwa kuongelea negative sides
zake (Bargaining)
4. Kuwa na mawazo mengi (depression)
5. Kujipendezesha Zaidi/kujaribu kutafta mwanaume bora zaidi
(Making a better self/trying to meet a better man).

Kwa wanaume ni tofauti:
1. Self-destruction signs are shown (Hupunguza kujijali na hata kujidhuru sometimes) or
2. Much more distressed (Kuwa na mawazo mengi sana kulinganisha na mwanamke) they suffer great pain than women due to unbearable loss!
Je, kuna ukweli wowote hapa?

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