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feeling lonely but not alone

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Chauro, Feb 6, 2011.

  1. Chauro

    Chauro JF-Expert Member

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    have u ever felt empty even within marriage how did you overcome this situation?:sad:
     
  2. VoiceOfReason

    VoiceOfReason JF-Expert Member

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    The answear as to why (the cause) might give you the HOW to overcome it...
     
  3. Husninyo

    Husninyo JF-Expert Member

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    exactly!
     
  4. Tabutupu

    Tabutupu JF-Expert Member

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    wazembe ndoo wanafeel lonely!!
     
  5. Papizo

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    Duu hapa kama kuna ukweli fulani hivi.....
     
  6. Chapa Nalo Jr

    Chapa Nalo Jr JF-Expert Member

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    Labda kale kakipindi kafupi ka mkorogano, wengine tunakimbilia lager na sio nyumba ndogo
     
  7. LD

    LD JF-Expert Member

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    Ndo maana mtu mmoja alisema mambo yote hapa duniani ni ubatili mtupu na kujilisha upepo.Afadhali kuishi kwa kumtegemea Mungu zaidi katika kila jambo na kila situation.

    Macho hayachoki kuona wala sikio halichoki kusikia,
    Heri aliyemfanya bwana kuwa tumaini lake. Kwamba uko single or married hakuna siku nafsi itaridhika, afadhali kumtumani Mungu.
     
  8. BAK

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    Hapana TT, amini usiamini wako wengi sana ndani ya ndoa wana hali kama hii na kamwe haisababishwi na uzembe wao.
     
  9. Desidii

    Desidii JF-Expert Member

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    Hii hali ipo kwa sana tu wala si uongo
     
  10. Chris_Mambo

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    Whwn you feel lonely even if you're in marriage, the answer is that you are married to a wrong person!!! If you can't undo your marriage, just learn how to live with that situation.
     
  11. M

    Mapinduzi JF-Expert Member

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    Marriage ideology needs a rethink. It is like it brings more trouble than it should settle.
     
  12. s.fm

    s.fm JF-Expert Member

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    Hii ni kweli kabisa na inatokea kwa wetu wengi sana bt people pretend tu
    lakini lazima kuwe na reason behind,its very hard to feel lonly kama ukiwa na mpenzi unayempenda kwa dhati na wakati wote
     
  13. Gaga

    Gaga JF-Expert Member

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    Yah kweli kabio ujisikie hivyu kinachofanya kitsa ila lazima kuna
     
  14. Michelle

    Michelle JF-Expert Member

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    Pole my dear Chauro,itapita....try the following:

    • Try to have some fun with your friends especially those who are married
    • Try to do what you love doing most as in hobbies,go shopping,beach,church do some community services
    • Communicate how you feel with your husband,he can be of great help
    • talk about this to your family....with limits especially your mother,sister or those who really cares
    • If you had any problem before you started feeling this way with your husband then talk to him,take your time to heal and pray
     
  15. Lizzy

    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Ukijua nini kinapelekea kujiskia hivyo ndio utaweza kutafuta jinsi ya kuishinda hiyo hali!!Inawezekana ni mwenzio kabadilika..hamuwezi kuongea kama zamani..hamsikilizani..hamuelewani..ukaribu umepungua au umepotea kabisa..in that case unatakiwa ujaribu kurudisha hicho kinachokosekana kwa kuongea nae na kufanyia kazi pamoja!Kama mmoja wenu amebadilika kitabia au kimawazo au mwenendo jaribu kujua kwanini kisha muelezane ukweli..kama mabadiliko yanawezekana mjitahidi kuyafanya au mzoeane upya!
     
  16. Babu Lao

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    Mmmhhh michelle unautaalamu wa psychology????:twitch:
     
  17. Michelle

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    Ndio Babu......nimesoma na kufanya hiyo kazi,later nikasoma mambo mengine.....:thinking:
     
  18. Chauro

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    sijakuelewa uzembe kwenye nini?

     
  19. Chauro

    Chauro JF-Expert Member

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    thanks michell ntajaribu kufanyia haya kazi


     
  20. Chauro

    Chauro JF-Expert Member

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    je unafikiri nyumba ndogo na bia ndio suluhisho?

     
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