Dear Men, kwanini ni vigumu kusema samahani?

[lady Jay]

Hello wapendwa,

Hope you are all doing fine,

Leo nina kitu kidogo nataka kushare na nyinyi. Unaweza kuta mwanaume anamkosea mtu either mpenzi wake, mke wake, mtoto wake au jamaa na marafiki but inakuwa vigumu sana kwake to say 'am sorry' meaningfully.

Samahani ni neno dogo sana but ina umuhimu mkubwa sana. Dear men, u better drop your ego at least once in a lifetime muwe mnaomba samahani, it means alot. Unaweza mkosea mtu mambo mengi but 'when you say am really sorry meaningfully', mtu anaweza kukusamehe na kusahau kwa wale kama mimi ambao hawaweki vitu moyoni.

Na nyie wengine mkiombwa msamaha kwa dhati siyo mtu unavuta mdomo kama kasuku na kununa na kumhesabia mwenzio makosa yake as if you are God. Ukisamehe unakua na amani moyoni.

Have a blessed hustle. Nawapenda.

 

[BIGstallion]

.sawa tutakua tunasema

 

[BigBaba]

Hello wapendwa. Hope you are all doing fine.Leo nina kitu kidogo nataka kushare na nyinyi.

Unaweza kuta mwanaume anamkosea mtu either mpenzi wake, mke wake, mtoto wake au jamaa na marafiki but inakuwa vigumu sana kwake to say 'am sorry' meaningfully.

Samahan ni neno dogo sana but ina umuhimu mkubwa sana.Dear men, u better drop your ego at least once in a lifetime muwe mnaomba samahan, it means alot.Unaweza mkosea mtu mambo mengi but when you say am really sorry meaningfully, mtu anaweza kukusamehe na kusahau kwa wale kama mimi ambao hawaweki vitu moyoni.

Na nyie wengne mkiombwa msamaha kwa dhati siyo mtu unavuta mdomo kama kasuku na kununa na kumhesabia mwenzio makosa yake as if you are God.Ukisamehe unakua na amani moyoni.

Have a blessed hustle.Nawapenda.

Hili tatizo dada angu ni kwa watu wote. mi nina mchumba angu hata anikosee vipi huwa haombi msamahaa. ukimuuliza kwann anakuambia yeye humuomba msamaha mungu tu. Huwa naishia kusikitika tu

 

[saidi hemedi]

Suala la kutoomba samahani lipo Kwa Pande zote wanawake na wanaume inategemea na maumbile ya mtu alivyoumbwa Ila kuomba samahan ni kitendo cha kiungwana Kwa watu waliokoseana

 

[Antonio de Guzman]

Ni kwa sababu tunaona hatujakosea

 

[lady Jay]

Hili tatizo dada angu ni kwa watu wote. mi nina mchumba angu hata anikosee vipi huwa haombi msamahaa. ukimuuliza kwann anakuambia yeye humuomba msamaha mungu tu. Huwa naishia kusikitika tu

Pole.But Leo nimeuliza specifically men, anyway mweleze umuhimu wa hilo neno na liwe kwa dhati.But watu wengi wanaona kazi kujishusha that's why am here to know why is it so hard to say 'sorry'.

 

[Prince Kunta]

Kuomba msamaha sio la jinsia moja tu...yeyote hamseae mwenzie na ukatambua makosa basi vyema kuomba msamaha

 

[edwin george]

Hello wapendwa. Hope you are all doing fine.Leo nina kitu kidogo nataka kushare na nyinyi.

Unaweza kuta mwanaume anamkosea mtu either mpenzi wake, mke wake, mtoto wake au jamaa na marafiki but inakuwa vigumu sana kwake to say 'am sorry' meaningfully.

Samahan ni neno dogo sana but ina umuhimu mkubwa sana.Dear men, u better drop your ego at least once in a lifetime muwe mnaomba samahan, it means alot.Unaweza mkosea mtu mambo mengi but when you say am really sorry meaningfully, mtu anaweza kukusamehe na kusahau kwa wale kama mimi ambao hawaweki vitu moyoni.

Na nyie wengne mkiombwa msamaha kwa dhati siyo mtu unavuta mdomo kama kasuku na kununa na kumhesabia mwenzio makosa yake as if you are God.Ukisamehe unakua na amani moyoni.

Have a blessed hustle.Nawapenda.

Sio kweli iyo ni kwako na mpenzi wako ndio iko hivyo ila kama mimi naweza kukosewa na nikaomba samahani mimi na bado mambo yasiwe mambo

 

[Teleskopu]

Tumekusikia lady Jay Samahani sana kwa kuwa na such an ego. They way we are wired gives us such a hard time to do so. Lakini tukijifunza tunaweza.

 

[Emmadogo]

Hello wapendwa. Hope you are all doing fine.Leo nina kitu kidogo nataka kushare na nyinyi.

Unaweza kuta mwanaume anamkosea mtu either mpenzi wake, mke wake, mtoto wake au jamaa na marafiki but inakuwa vigumu sana kwake to say 'am sorry' meaningfully.

Samahan ni neno dogo sana but ina umuhimu mkubwa sana.Dear men, u better drop your ego at least once in a lifetime muwe mnaomba samahan, it means alot.Unaweza mkosea mtu mambo mengi but when you say am really sorry meaningfully, mtu anaweza kukusamehe na kusahau kwa wale kama mimi ambao hawaweki vitu moyoni.

Na nyie wengne mkiombwa msamaha kwa dhati siyo mtu unavuta mdomo kama kasuku na kununa na kumhesabia mwenzio makosa yake as if you are God.Ukisamehe unakua na amani moyoni.

Have a blessed hustle.Nawapenda.

Ila kuna wanawake nao kusema samahani ni shida balaa......basi tu hujawajua

 

[lady Jay]

Tumekusikia lady Jay Samahani sana kwa kuwa na such an ego. They way we are wired gives us such a hard time to do so. Lakini tukijifunza tunaweza.

Aya mlifanyie kazii

 

[spinderella]

Hili tatizo dada angu ni kwa watu wote. mi nina mchumba angu hata anikosee vipi huwa haombi msamahaa. ukimuuliza kwann anakuambia yeye humuomba msamaha mungu tu. Huwa naishia kusikitika tu

Thank God bado ni mchumba tu, think long and hard before making things permanent with him....hivyo tu.

 

[lady Jay]

Ila kuna wanawake nao kusema samahani ni shida balaa......basi tu hujawajua

Wote samehaneni

 

[Mchanya]

Lady Jay,
Pole kwa kutooombwa samahani, lakini sio wanaume wote wenye tabia ya kutoomba msamaha wanapokosea. Kuomba msamaha ni utamaduni ambao mtu anaujenga polepole kutokana na malezi au mazingira aliyopitia kama nyumbani, mitaani, shuleni, kazini na makundi aliyokulia. Kama alizaliwa na kukulia katika mazingira ambao aliona baba yake au wanaume hawaombi msamaha wake zao, au wanawake kwa ujumla, itakuwa vigumu kwake kuomba msamaha. Au kama baba yake alimuaminisha kwamba, wewe ni mwanaume usijilegeze kwa mwanamke ikiwemo kuomba msamaha, itakuwa ngumu kwake leo kuomba msamaha.

Lakini pia, kwanini kwako wewe kuombwa msamaha ni muhimu sana kwako, ili hali wanawake wengine hawana shida hata wakikosewa bila kuombwa msamaha?. Yawezekana ulishajenga utamaduni kwamba anayekosea ni wajibu wake kuomba msamaha, haijalishi ni mwanaumeau mwanamke. Yawezekana hili wewe umeliona wakati wa malezi na makuzi yako kwamba mfano ulimuona baba alimuomba mama yako (Ni mfano tu), nawe ukaona kwamba ndio mtindo wa maisha. Jifunze kuwa 'open minded' kwamba sio kila kinachofanywa na mwanaume wako sasa basi chaweza kufanywa na wanaume wote wengine. La hasha.

 

[NIMPENDENANI]

Bora asie sema ukajua kama huyu mshenzi wa tabia ukatafuta njia yakum fix,kuliko anaeomba samahani kumbe ya kinafki kesho anakuletea shuzi kubwa kuliko la jana halafu anaomba samahani na kulia juu..

 

[sinyora]

Suala la kutoomba samahani lipo Kwa Pande zote wanawake na wanaume inategemea na maumbile ya mtu alivyoumbwa Ila kuomba samahan ni kitendo cha kiungwana Kwa watu waliokoseana

Lakin wanaume wamezid san mkuu

 

[lady Jay]

Bora asie sema ukajua kama huyu mshenzi wa tabia ukatafuta njia yakum fix,kuliko anaeomba samahani kumbe ya kinafki kesho anakuletea shuzi kubwa kuliko la jana halafu anaomba samahani na kulia juu..

Ndo maana nikasema aombe samahan kwa dhati na asirudie kosa

 

[NALIA NGWENA]

NAKUPENDA PIA

 

[NIMPENDENANI]

Ndo maana nikasema aombe samahan kwa dhati na asirudie kosa

wengine unafki uko ndani ya damu yao,hua nawachukia mie watu namna hiyooo..

 

[BigBaba]

Thank God bado ni mchumba tu, think long and hard before making things permanent with him....hivyo tu.

dah kaka mahusiano yangu yako complicated sana huyu binti yupo wired na mother na ni rafk wa familia kwa ujumla. maamuzi magumu huwa yanashindikana