What's happening JF/ MMU nation? It's been a minute huh? I hope y'all are fine and dandy. So, without further ado, let me get down to it. Can men and women truly be friends? No matter what side you are on you would probably think twice when you are knee-deep in some situations. Picture this, you are in a brand spankin' new relationship and things are getting hot and heavy. One day your better half, boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other, boo or whatever else you call him/her tells you that you both have been invited to her/his friend's housewarming party and without hesitation you agree to go. You both go and get there somewhat fashionably late. You meet, greet, and interact with your boo's friend's that have known him/her for a long time. Then you meet the one that your boo has had a horizontal history with. He/ she assures you that that was the past and it's now strictly platonic. You hear the proverbial "we are now just friends and there is nothing going on between us anymore". Now let's keep it 100 especially with my fellas. Could you really be at ease with your lady-woman maintaining a platonic friendship with a guy whom she's had a horizontal relationship with in the past? Ladies, do you sincerely think that your male friend is just a friend? If you are a half-way decent looking lady and you know you are attractive and have all the lovely lady lumps and whatnot and if you have male friends, try this one simple thing. Tell your man friend that you've decided that you and him should try dating. Just tell him that and see what happens. I for one, do believe that attractive single women do not have male friends. The so called "male friends" are just guys who haven't had a chance yet. What say you good MMU folks?