Can men and women be friends?

Can men and women be friends?

I love my male friends, I love them very much and we get along very well and my significant other knows them though sometimes analeta zile za wivu.

My ex is my ex, will never be a friend or close to a friend, opportunity cost.
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
What's happening JF/ MMU nation? It's been a minute huh? I hope y'all are fine and dandy.

So, without further ado, let me get down to it. Can men and women truly be friends? No matter what side you are on you would probably think twice when you are knee-deep in some situations.

Picture this, you are in a brand spankin' new relationship and things are getting hot and heavy. One day your better half, boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other, boo or whatever else you call him/her tells you that you both have been invited to her/his friend's housewarming party and without hesitation you agree to go.

You both go and get there somewhat fashionably late. You meet, greet, and interact with your boo's friend's that have known him/her for a long time. Then you meet the one that your boo has had a horizontal history with. He/ she assures you that that was the past and it's now strictly platonic. You hear the proverbial "we are now just friends and there is nothing going on between us anymore".

Now let's keep it 100 especially with my fellas. Could you really be at ease with your lady-woman maintaining a platonic friendship with a guy whom she's had a horizontal relationship with in the past?

Ladies, do you sincerely think that your male friend is just a friend? If you are a half-way decent looking lady and you know you are attractive and have all the lovely lady lumps and whatnot and if you have male friends, try this one simple thing. Tell your man friend that you've decided that you and him should try dating. Just tell him that and see what happens.

I for one, do believe that attractive single women do not have male friends. The so called "male friends" are just guys who haven't had a chance yet. What say you good MMU folks?
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Duuuhhhh Yesuuuuu na mariaaaaaaa uwiiiiiiii:shut-mouth::tape::tape:
 
The idea of having an opposite sex as the so called "just friends" is an excuse used by now-days guys when it comes to cheating. I personally very much disagree on the notion that a man and woman can be "Just friends". Very few out of many, real mean what they say on the matter. But then.... to you it might look like a friendship you have with an opposite sex to yours is just normal , how sure you are that the so called "a friend" of yours feels the same way? Let's be honest... this is almost impossible..
 
sweetdada said:
I second that AD,

however, hao unaodhani ni marafiki inawezekana pia wao hawakuoni kama wewe ni just a friend.
why am i saying this? speaking from experience.i also have plenty of male friends, and we've been friends for along time..
ila ikatokea three of these so called 'best friends' they had mixed feelings about me, but couldn't say.

one was trying to tell me that he was lonely he needed somebody akabeat round the bushes mpaka akaja kusema 'it is you i want'.duh nikaogopa..the second one it was the same story we go out together etc out of the blue siku tukatoka out akanirudisha home he wanted a kiss and saying that he couldnt vumilia anymore he had to tell me..and story goes on to the third one.

what am trying to say here is, when you think the lady/man is your friend kumbe yeye hafikirii hivyo,anatafuta jinsi ya kukwambia,and it can take a century for him/her to tell you.it needs guts.
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Hahahaaaa umenifurahisha sana hapo,sijui huwa wanafanya majaribio khaaa!!!! Hamna kitu nachukia kama hicho yani wewe unamchukulia mshkaji,yy yuko pande ingine......si bora aseme tu toka mwanzo kuliko hizo habari za kushtukiziana waiiiiiii.
Well, mm kwa bahati nzuri washkaji zangu wote wakiume ni watu ambao walishawahi kunitokea nikawatolea nje imebakia ushkaji mwanzo mwishoooo na tunaheshimiana sana,kama bado wananitolea mate bahati mbaya sana ni kitu ambacho wanajua hakiwezi kutokea!!! Kuna wanaojipa moyo na kusema "Najua kuna siku utanipa tu" miaka kama kumi imeshapita mtu bado anajipa moyo kama sio wazimu huo ni nini?.
 
There is always sexual tension between a man and a woman that are friends.

The closer the friendship the more the tension ie ukiwa lonely and u have this friend

always he is there for u the possibility of falling is higher,
 
No they can't. All my female friends are by accident. They are girls I tried to tap but made a wrong turn somewhere and got stuck in the "friendzone". Lakini bado nina imani nitawapata tu. I don't believe in this friendship between unrelated men/women. Hakuna kitu kama hicho unless the dude is queer. Dudes think the same. A man will not be nice to girl just coz he is such a gentleman, nah nah. Anataka kukamua tu.
 
Commanche said:
No they can't. All my female friends are by accident. They are girls I tried to tap but made a wrong turn somewhere and got stuck in the "friendzone". Lakini bado nina imani nitawapata tu. I don't believe in this friendship between unrelated men/women. Hakuna kitu kama hicho unless the dude is queer. Dudes think the same. A man will not be nice to girl just coz he is such a gentleman, nah nah. Anataka kukamua tu.
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Thanks for keeping it one hundred.
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
Haaa! Kwa nini sasa?
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Hahaha, Mkuu nilikuwa najiweka sawa na viterms..lol!, back 2 topic, personally its hard for me to be at ease cuz I know luv never dies a natural death, it dies simply cuz we don't know hw to replenish it, so if my lady woman wants to maintain a platonic relationship with her ex, honestly I won't be at ease but some wise dude once told me love consists of choices we make frm time to time so even thou I won't be at ease, I will try to show some trust.
 
Ati my friend alete papuchi mi niache kuipiga!! Nyooooooooh!
 
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