waBongo tutaendelea kufa na Ukimwi (kuwa 'negative' haimaanishi utakuwa hivyo milele) mpaka siku tutakapo learn to take responsibilities for our 'stupid' actions...kila baya linalotutokea katika maisha yetu
basi tunajiona sisi kama sisi hatuko responsible kwa hilo baya lililotukuta, bali ni some super power evil spirits..blame it on shetani au kurogwa, ili mradi tu sio 'fault' yako, it has to be somebody/something else! mmmssccchheeeeew!
Kama huwezi take responsibility kufunga zipu yako, mpaka mungu akufungie...endelea kusubiri tu aifunge, but god has his own ways of keeping your zip up, not necessarily the way you wish it to be...and you may not like it (anaweza akakupiga na impotence)!
Acha kulegeza legeza moyo wako...sio kila kinachovutia lazima ule...otherwise jiandae ku'take responsibilities' utakapoangamiza familia ndoa/familia yako!