African Women, Tatizo ni Nini?

[venine]

Unaongelea swala la kiasi...safi sana...Tunatakiwa kuwa na kiasi katika kila jambo...

kujiremba ni jambo lisiloepukika kwa mwanamke. Hakuna mwanamke asiyetaka kuonekana mrembo. ila urembo una kiasi, na sio kupitiliza. kama nywele ya bandia, basi nitatafuta inayofanana na nywele zangu kidogo. na kwa kuwa wanume wengi hawaelewi mambo ya wigs na weaves, asipokushika kichwani anaweza asiweze kujua kama ni zako au lah. tatizo wengi wanatumia vitu ambavyo ni so fake, maana products nzuri zina gharama pia. mfano mimi venine, my skin is black, leo nikavae wigi la gold, halafu lrefu hadi makalioni. hicho ni kituko

 

[Benn kaaya]

stupidity is to act like wazungu,bad habit,hata plastic surgery wanafanya et il wawe n mwonekano wa kzungu...huo ni ujnga,utumwa na limited knwledge

 

[mwekundu]

Neo-colonialism hiyo..inafanya kaazi

 

[angelita]

haikumaanisha ulichofikiri

Imemaanisha nini?

 

[venine]

Hapo si suala la mwaname mmoja kupenda mwanamke mweupe, ukasema ni sawa na kupenda mrefu.
Ni.suala la jamii nzima kuona weupe ni bora kiasi cha kupandisha mahari za weupe.

Sasa dada zangu wengine wakitaka mupandisha.kidau cha mahari na heshima kwa kujichubua tukiwalaumu wachunguzi wengine wanaweza kusema "we are blaming the victims".

Hususan kama ni wale ambao hawana elimu wala means to begin with

nakubaliana na wewe kwamba wanaojichubua hawana elimu ya kutosha pia. Lakini wengi tunaowaona, hawatafuti watu wa kuwaoa kwa mahari kubwa, wana mambo yao mengine tu. Ni umbumbumbu wa jamii yetu kuona cheupe ndio kizuri ndio maana tunashuhudia hata kaka zetu wanajichubua siku hizi. Siku hizi hata wasichana weupe wanajichubua. ukiuliza kisa, wanakwambia weupe wangu ulikuwa wa kufubaa, sasa ndio upo ng'ari ng'ari.

kwangu mimi mahari si lazima, achilia mbali amount. Sijawahi kupenda kuolewa kwa mahari, sikutaka mwanaume ahisi kwamba anani-own sababu kanitolea ng'ombe.
I am sukuma, usukumani mahari inatajwa kwa ng'ombe hata kama italipwa pesa. na usukumani, kuolewa kwa ng'ombe wengi ni proud kwa wazazi na ile jamii inayoamini hivyo, ila ni tabu kwa muolewaji. maana hata ukijaribu kumshauri mumeo utaambiwa kaa kimya kwanza kumbuka baba yako kachukua ng'ombe wangu 50, tena wanatembea. Lakini hata wasukuma wanabadilika nowadyas, ukisema ng'ombe nyingi watakuuliza pia mwanao kasoma sana au?

 

[thinky]

Imemaanisha nini?

siku ya hukuma ila jitahidi mwenzako asiangamie

 

[Kiranga]

nakubaliana na wewe kwamba wanaojichubua hawana elimu ya kutosha pia. Lakini wengi tunaowaona, hawatafuti watu wa kuwaoa kwa mahari kubwa, wana mambo yao mengine tu. Ni umbumbumbu wa jamii yetu kuona cheupe ndio kizuri ndio maana tunashuhudia hata kaka zetu wanajichubua siku hizi. Siku hizi hata wasichana weupe wanajichubua. ukiuliza kisa, wanakwambia weupe wangu ulikuwa wa kufubaa, sasa ndio upo ng'ari ng'ari.

kwangu mimi mahari si lazima, achilia mbali amount. Sijawahi kupenda kuolewa kwa mahari, sikutaka mwanaume ahisi kwamba anani-own sababu kanitolea ng'ombe.
I am sukuma, usukumani mahari inatajwa kwa ng'ombe hata kama italipwa pesa. na usukumani, kuolewa kwa ng'ombe wengi ni proud kwa wazazi na ile jamii inayoamini hivyo, ila ni tabu kwa muolewaji. maana hata ukijaribu kumshauri mumeo utaambiwa kaa kimya kwanza kumbuka baba yako kachukua ng'ombe wangu 50, tena wanatembea. Lakini hata wasukuma wanabadilika nowadyas, ukisema ng'ombe nyingi watakuuliza pia mwanao kasoma sana au?

Naona tunalichambua tatizo kwa upana zaidi.

Mimi naona kulaumu kulaumu wanawake kwa kujichubua ni sawa na kulaumu wanawake kwa ukahaba.

Kama makahaba watakosa wateja wanaume hawawezi kufanya ukahaba, kusagana notwithstanding.

Vivyo hivyo, wanaume wakiwa boycott wanawake wanaojichubua, wanawake wataacha kujichubua.

Sasa hivi impressionable minds zikiangalia the so called "power couple" (teh teh teh) zinaona Wema Sepetu kahichubua.

Zinaona aaah, kiingiacho mjini si haramu.

 

[Chocs]

Hahahha.....Ndio Jamani,
Hilo Jina Halisadifu Kabisa Nini?

Wala...samahani mwaya mie nilijua gentle?lol

Tukazane kutokomeza kansa ya matiti kwa kunyonyesha wale wanaofungwa na wasiofungwa nepi

 

[venine]

Naona tunalichambua tatizo kwa upana zaidi.

Mimi naona kulaumu kulaumu wanawake kwa kujichubua ni sawa na kulaumu wanawake kwa ukahaba.

Kama makahaba watakosa wateja wanaume hawawezi kufanya ukahaba, kusagana notwithstanding.

Vivyo hivyo, wanaume wakiwa boycott wanawake wanaojichubua, wanawake wataacha kujichubua.

Sasa hivi impressionable minds zikiangalia the so called "power couple" (teh teh teh) zinaona Wema Sepetu kahichubua.

Zinaona aaah, kiingiacho mjini si haramu.

hilo nalo tatizo kubwa zaidi. role models wa wasichana wadogo siku hizi ni hao kina sepetunga. wengine hata shule hawataki wanakwambia diamondo hakusoma na ametoka kimaisha. Kuna kazi kubwa zaidi kwa kizazi kinachokuja

 

[thinky]

Wala...samahani mwaya mie nilijua gentle?lol

Tukazane kutokomeza kansa ya matiti kwa kunyonyesha wale wanaofungwa na wasiofungwa nepi

haha ...

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Naona tunalichambua tatizo kwa upana zaidi.

Mimi naona kulaumu kulaumu wanawake kwa kujichubua ni sawa na kulaumu wanawake kwa ukahaba.

Kama makahaba watakosa wateja wanaume hawawezi kufanya ukahaba, kusagana notwithstanding.

Vivyo hivyo, wanaume wakiwa boycott wanawake wanaojichubua, wanawake wataacha kujichubua.

Lakini mbona huwa tunasikia kwamba ikija kwenye mambo ya urembo, vipodozi, mavazi, na mengineyo kama hayo wanawake huwa mara nyingi hawayafanyi kwa ajili ya kuvutia wanaume bali huwa wanayafanya kwa ajili ya wanawake wenzao......

Sasa kama kweli iko hivyo, wanaume wakiwagomea wanawake wanaojichubua, hilo litasaidia vipi katika kukomesha hiyo tabia?

 

[thinky]

hilo nalo tatizo kubwa zaidi. role models wa wasichana wadogo siku hizi ni hao kina sepetunga. wengine hata shule hawataki wanakwambia diamondo hakusoma na ametoka kimaisha. Kuna kazi kubwa zaidi kwa kizazi kinachokuja

how about mavazi

 

[Kiranga]

Lakini mbona huwa tunasikia kwamba ikija kwenye mambo ya urembo, vipodozi, mavazi, na mengineyo kama hayo wanawake huwa mara nyingi hawayafanyi kwa ajili ya kuvutia wanaume bali huwa wanayafanya kwa ajili ya wanawake wenzao......

Sasa kama kweli iko hivyo, wanaume wakiwagomea wanawake wanaojichubua, hilo litasaidia vipi katika kukomesha hiyo tabia?

Hiyo habari ndiyo yale yale ya "I want beauty to feel good inside".

"Good inside" my foot.

There is a primordial instinct to use beautification and other means of distinction to attract the opposite sex.

Almost all sexually reproduced species have a form of this.

If we want some politically correct, sanitized, quasi-lesbian "new woman" empowering rhetoric, we could talk a lot about beauty for "feeling good inside" or "by women for women". But it will remain fancy rhetoric for the Ivy towers and Van Gogh art critic types, with no real roots on the ground in the land of Baba Havintishi.

 

[thinky]

Lakini mbona huwa tunasikia kwamba ikija kwenye mambo ya urembo, vipodozi, mavazi, na mengineyo kama hayo wanawake huwa mara nyingi hawayafanyi kwa ajili ya kuvutia wanaume bali huwa wanayafanya kwa ajili ya wanawake wenzao......

Sasa kama kweli iko hivyo, wanaume wakiwagomea wanawake wanaojichubua, hilo litasaidia vipi katika kukomesha hiyo tabia?

wataendelea na ushindani kwenye soko la vipodozi na kuwapa advantage wauzaji


watashindana mchezo ambao hauna matokeo

tabia itapotea wanaume waki avoid relation ambayo nayo ngumu kutokana na upeo

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Hiyo habari ndiyo yale yale ya "I want beauty to feel good inside".

"Good inside" my foot.

There is a primordial instinct to use beautification and other means of distinction to attract the opposite sex.

Almost all sexually reproduced species have a form of this.

If we want some politically correct, sanitized, quasi-lesbian "new woman" empowering rhetoric, we could talk a lot about beauty for "feeling good inside" or "by women for women". But it will remain fancy rhetoric for the Ivy towers and Van Gogh art critic types, with no real roots on the ground in the land of Baba Havintishi.

So what are you saying then? That but for men they (women) wouldn't be bleaching their skins?

If so, then, what is the genesis of the notion that light is beautiful?

 

[Kiranga]

So what are you saying then? That but for men they (women) wouldn't be bleaching their skins?

If so, then, what is the genesis of the notion that light is beautiful?

Rarity is prized, people of our continent are generally black, a commonplace complexion.

Even the white elephant is prized as sacred amongst certain Asian cultures. Due to rarity.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Rarity is prized, people of our continent are generally black, a commonplace complexion.

Even the white elephant is prized as sacred amongst certain Asian cultures. Due to rarity.

So what about African-Americans and other people of African origin in the New World?

They too have that issue of dark skinned vs light skinned.

If rarity is that prized I'd think dark skinned people in the New World where they are minorities for the most part would be considered gems.

But that's far from it!!!

 

[Kiranga]

But what about African-Americans and other people of African origin in the New World?

They too have that issue of dark skinned vs light skinned.

If rarity is that prized I'd think dark skinned people in the New World where they are minorities for the most part would be considered gems.

But that's far from it!!!

Depending on your vantage point, they are.

I am watching America salivating at every last one of Oliver Pope's move (yes my daughter, no she is not available, thank you very much)

They even went a shade or two darker and did away with the Halle Berry hues.

Look at Lupita, it's a Josephine Baker act all over again.

But also you have to factor the historical context of the new world to see other dynamics that would cultivate self loathing and aspiring to integrate to the prevailing power structure at the risk of coming off as an ape.

There is a natural hair trend amongst the young and hip women now, some of that kalikiti stuff is extracted from placentas and amell like it too.

 

[Tyta]

rudisha avatar basi. hii avatar mpya inapoteza identity yako

 

[nyumba kubwa]

Ndio tatizo la kuongea bila research afu kuandika kwa uhakika kabisa....una hakika wanaoongoza kwa kufanya hizo operation ni waafrika? Kwa ela ipi?


Te te te ...mgejua hakuna mwanamke natural (in relative terms) kama wa kiafrika....

Hao kina Dolly Patton kila siku wana nywele tofauti; mnazani ni za kwao??????

stupidity is to act like wazungu,bad habit,hata plastic surgery wanafanya et il wawe n mwonekano wa kzungu...huo ni ujnga,utumwa na limited knwledge