I wouldn't want to date a man who thinks like a lady, but I would certainly want him to understand why I act the way I do sometimes. and for that he will have to "think" like me... not all the times, but just enough to make me feel understood.
according to the book that's how a lady "catches" a man.
he he he he he , haya bwana.I don't think for a man, in order to understand you or why you act the way you act, will have to "think" like you.
Certainly one can understand someone without having to think like them. For example, my friend The Boss can understand the plight of homosexuals in Africa without having to "think" like them.
So I think it's very doable to be able to understand someone without having to "think" like them.
Ask any guy if sex is important in a relationship and the one who says no is lying. I just haven't met that guy yet. When you meet him, let's get him in to the Smithsonian - he's that special and rare.
― Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
NI kama Steve ana suggest
to think like a woman is think like a loser...hivi...
Then that book must be lying
Think like a man, demo #1 :That's exactly my inference.
a little too bold, ama? lolIt's not 1945 anymore- you can't hang on to those old ways. This, "If he wants to marry me, he'll ask me" thing has got to stop. Because we're not going to ask you when you're ready-we're going to play with you until you give us your requirements and standards, and stand by them. I'm not telling you to get on bended knee.
I'm telling you to set a timeline for the ring and the date, and tell the man you want to be married to what it is. I recognize that this is hard. But let me tell you what's really hard: dating/living with/having a baby with a man who has no intention of marrying you and eight years up the road, he walks out and you're left to find a new man/pay all the bills after years of splitting them with someone else/raising those kids on your own. Oh, it can be done. But recognize just how hard that will be. All I'm suggesting is that you get the little uncomfortable moments out of the way early-let him know now what you want and expect.
Make clear to him what you're worth, and that you come at a cost; tell him how much you're worth like you're about to list yourself on eBay for a million dollars. Break down your value: say, "I respect you, I adore you, I'm affectionate,
I pay attention to you, I'm punctual, I'm kind, I'm loyal, I'll have your children and love them madly-and all of this is
available for a handsome sum. I need your time, loyalty, support, affection, attention, punctuality, kindness, gentleman ways-I need the doors opened, chairs pulled out, your respect, and above all else, your love. I also expect a diamond ring and a walk down the aisle."
Just think of it this way: when it comes to having sex with a woman, we men don't decide a thing. We don't determine when we're going to sleep with you-that decision is yours. The decision of when we get to kiss you is yours. When we let go of each other's hug and embrace? That decision is yours.
hahahahahaha,Wewe Mwali ulikuwa unabinishia sana hii kitu niliposema kuwa katika kutongozana, mwanamke ndiye wa kwanza anayeonyesha signs za njoo nitongoze.
A man would not approach a woman unless the woman shows him the signs of "come and get me" or some sort of interests in him.
Kama mwanamke ameonyesha signs za kuwa approached na mwanaume kutomwa-approach either hajui hizo signs, signs ziko too subtle au hazijui kabisa.
Hayawi hayawi, mwisho yamekuwa. Now Mwali is thinking like a man after disputing this for ages
wewe unaona alichemka ila kuna ambao wanaona alipatia, na ameweka siri za wanaume hadharani!So is that what thinking like a man is? I like Steve Harvey. I think he can be uber-funny. But he is no relationship expert.
On this book we say 'alichemka'. He didn't really think it through.
Hiki kitabu ni kizur sana nilikisoma siku nyingi kidogo kina mafundisho meng sana, kuna kipengele fulan kilinifurahisha sna kmb ni ngumu kumridhisha mwanamke kwani hubadilika badilika sna anahitaj wanaume km wanne kwa wakat mmoja yaan wa tabia tofaut tofaut mfano mpole,mkal n.k
ha haa, hii sinema niliipenda sana....
kila mtu alijifanya mjanja kwa mwenzie......
wewe unaona alichemka ila kuna ambao wanaona alipatia, na ameweka siri za wanaume hadharani!
When I started questioning the first chapter (anapo sema how women want to be loved, I don't agree)
kuna mtu alinambia: This is why you will never get married. you are not the type of woman a man needs. lol
Steven Harvey is a comic charlatan. The self help and advice gold mine is full of similar charlatans ready to prey on low self esteemed victims looking for the nonexistent silver bullet.
Mi nilishindwa kukubaliana nae kwa mengi sababu all his affirmations are over generalisations.Ni kweli. Wapo ambao wanakubaliana naye kwani mengi anayoyaongelea ni masuala ya mitazamo tu.
Na kwenye mitazamo mara nyingi huwa hakuna aliye sahihi na aliyekosea. Hivyo, kwa mtazamo wangu naona alichemka ila kuna wenye mtazamo wa alikuwa 'right on the money'.
Pia, kuna mengine mengi tu ambayo huwa nakubaliana naye. Mfano ni lile la urafiki kati ya mwanamke na mwanamme. Hilo nakubaliana naye kwa asilimia 100.
kuna dada alisema this worked for her, she managed to "hoock" the man of her dreams.Nimewaona watu wana matatizo zaidi baada ya kusoma self help books kuliko walipokuwa hawajasoma
Huanza tena kujilinganisha kwa kila kitu na yasemwayo kwenye kitabu na kuzidi kukosa self esteem
I just like a woman who acts like a woman and thinks like a woman or one who acts like a lady and thinks like a lady.