Nyani Ngabu
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Ya nini niwe na mwanamke anayefikiri na kuwaza kama dume? Haihusu kabisa aisee.
Nitajisikia kama vile niko kwenye mahusiano ya kiliberali.
Ha ha ha, afadhali kuna mtu ana opinion hii
Wanamme akili zao zinafanya kazi tofauti na wanawake
Kweli, ni act like a Lady, think like a man. ngoja mod atubadilishie
A little extract:
Think about it: the first guy you slept with quicker than ninety dayswhere is he? Im willing to bet that youre probably
not with him. True, there are some people out there somewhere who had sex early in the relationship and are still together to this very day, but thats rare. More likely than not, a guy who gets benefits early in a relationship, without having to put in work or prove himself, leaves and moves on to a committed relationship with a woman who puts him through some type of probationary period to find out more about him. Im sure that woman laid out the rulesthe requirementsearly on, and let her intended know that he could either rise up to those requirements, or just move on.[...]
Hold on, I know what youre thinking: youre thinking that if he doesnt get sex from you, hell go and get it somewhere
else, and you will have lost out on that one chance to get him to be your manor hell think youre playing games if you
make him wait, and hell move on to the next woman whos willing to take him into her bed.
Wrong.
In fact, one of those mind tricks weve been playing on women since the beginning of time is to convince you all that
waiting doesnt matter, that giving it up early and quick is the way to go. Listen to me: if we could convince you that you should strip naked and get to it within the first five minutes of our first meeting, we would. This is not a secret: men love and want sex, and will try (within reason) to get it by any means necessary.
But guess what? He. Can. Wait. Yes, of course you run the risk of scaring him off, but isnt the guy who sleeps with you
without any obligation to you, or consideration of your wants, needs, and emotional well-being, the one you want to go away? Isnt reserving something that special for a man who earns it more of a benefit to you? You have the power to make him wait to prove to you that he deserves your love and affection. The Power. Just think of it this way: when it comes to having sex with a woman, we men dont decide a thing. We dont determine when were going to sleep with youthat decision is yours. The decision of when we get to kiss you is yours. When we let go of each others hug and embrace? That decision is yours.
We put our hands somewhere on your body other than your shoulder and you decide if we can keep touching that place
or if we gotta let it go. Our job is to convince you to give it to usto allow us to touch it, let us have it. But the decision on whether we actually get to have it is Y.O.U.R.S.
hehehehe, hapa ndipo wengi tuliona hiki kitabu ni cha targeted population."All you have to do is speak up.
Tell him straight up: "I need you here to protect and provide for us, to give us security in our lives, to help raise these children, to set an example for this boy, who needs to see what real men do, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is so she can find one of her own someday. I need you to be the head of this family."
Lay it out like this, and your requirements will trump his mother's every time."
― Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
Yeah, I reported it nikaomba ibadilishwe. thanks to the mods.
Dont try to fix the sink, the car, the toilet, or anything elselet him do it.
Dont take out the garbage, paint, or mow the lawnthats his job.
Dont do any of the heavy liftinghe was born with the muscle it takes to move sofas/television sets/bookshelves and the like.
Dont be afraid to make a meal or twothe kitchen is both your and his friend.
Dont wear a T-shirt to bed every nighta little lingerie never hurt anyone.
Mi nasoma tu, na nilijua kitapata wengi wa kuchangia. but as I said, shahuri hizi sio kwa kila mwanamke, just as sio kila mwanaume anae fit in his description of menhii kitu imenifurahisa sana hasa kwenye kile kitu tunachohitaji na kupewa kwa fikra tofauti..
Ya nini niwe na mwanamke anayefikiri na kuwaza kama dume? Haihusu kabisa aisee.
Nitajisikia kama vile niko kwenye mahusiano ya kiliberali.
Ha ha ha ha ha, jamani
You seem to oversee the second part of the tittle.Kuna tatizo kwani?
Hebu tugeuze dhima kidogo, wewe unaweza kutoka na mwanaume anayefikiri kama mwanamke? Au, unaonaje kutoka na mwanaume anayefikiri kama mwanamke? Inakuja kweli?
You seem to oversee the second part of the tittle.
what he means (I think) is that you should put yourself in the shoes of the opposite sex, but ACT like your own.
So here a woman has to ask herself what a man thinks of XY and Z, in order to adjust her own actions to get what she wants.
I wouldn't want to date a man who thinks like a lady, but I would certainly want him to understand why I act the way I do sometimes. and for that he will have to "think" like me... not all the times, but just enough to make me feel understood.I just like a woman who acts like a woman and thinks like a woman or one who acts like a lady and thinks like a lady.
A woman/lady cannot (I think) think like a man. She can want to and pretend to but she can't because she is not wired (read: doesn't have the requisite amount of testosterone) like a man.
I just like a woman who acts like a woman and thinks like a woman or one who acts like a lady and thinks like a lady.
A woman/lady cannot (I think) think like a man. She can want to and pretend to but she can't because she is not wired (read: doesn't have the requisite amount of testosterone) like a man.