A husband/Life partner

A husband/Life partner

Pole kama umekasirishwa!


aaamuk said:
Dah kwa sifa hizo ungekuwa ushaolewaa...okey

Makushauri punguza ngonjeraaa inaonekana wewe ni much know sana.

But kama una B nicheki PM tumalize hili swala na uondoe hili tangazo
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Risenshine said:
This could help stretch your thinking!

Let?s Not Jump To Conclusion Too Quickly

?My boss drove a luxury car everyday and it was my duty to greet him and to open the gates for him, as I worked as a watchman in his villa. But he never responded back to my greetings.
One day he saw me opening the garbage bags outside the villa in search for any leftover food. But, as usual he never even looked at me, it was like as if he never saw anything!
The very next day I saw a paper bag at the same place, but it was clean and the food inside was covered well. It was fresh and good food like someone had just brought it from the supermarket. I didn't bother as to where it came from, I just took the paper bag and I was so happy about it.
Every day I found this paper bag at the same place with fresh vegetables and all that we needed for home. This became my daily routine. I was eating and sharing this food with my wife and kids. I was wondering who this fool could be?! To forget his paper bag full of fresh food everyday.
One day there was a big problem in the villa and I was told that my boss has died. There were too many guests coming to the villa that day and I didn't get any food that day, so I thought that one of the guests must have taken it. But the same thing happened the 2nd day, the 3rd day and the 4th day.
It went on like this for a few weeks and I found it difficult to provide food for my family, so I decided to ask the wife of my boss for a raise in my salary or else I would quit my job as a watchman.
After I told her, she was shocked, and asked me, how come you never complained about your salary for the last 2 years? And why is this salary not enough for you now? I gave her so many excuses but she was never convinced!
Finally in the end, I decided to tell her the truth, I told her the entire story of the bag of groceries, and as to how it was my daily provision. She then asked me as to when this stopped? I told her after the death of her husband. And then I realized that I stopped seeing the paper bag immediately after the death of my boss. Why didn't I ever think of this before? That it was my boss who was providing this for me? I guess it was because I never thought that a person who never replied to my greetings could ever be this generous!
His wife started to cry and I told her to please stop crying and that I'm really sorry that I asked for a raise, I didn't know that it was your husband who was providing me with the meals, I?ll remain as a watchman and be happy to provide my service.
His wife told me, I'm crying because I've finally found the 7th person my husband was giving this bag full of food. I knew my husband was giving 7 people everyday, I had already found the 6 people, and all these days I was searching for the 7th person. And today I found out.
From that day onwards, I started to receive the bag full of food again, but this time his son was bringing it to my house and giving it to my hand. But whenever I thanked him, he never replied! Just like his dad!
One day, I told him THANK YOU in a very loud voice! He replied back to me to please not be offended when he doesn't reply, because he has a hearing problem, just like his dad!?
Oh! We have been wrong so many times judging others without knowing the true story behind their actions. Be kind and courteous in dealing with others, for everyone is fighting a hard battle. Be careful, not everything is about you. Before you assume, there is this thing called ASKING.
Don?t just jump to conclusion, because that is truly not an exercise, it may cause you more harm at the end of the day. Many of our problems are caused by how we process what happens around us. Don?t judge a situation you have never been in. Be humble enough to learn. You do not know it all. Lets change the way we feel about ourselves and others.
There are two sides to a story. Don?t believe everything you hear.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Author: Anonymous
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reading your posts is quite interesting but after an intensive scrutiny I realised that are the cocacola made products.
Blah blah nyingi zote hizo za mini?
 
I don't think if you have to pay tax to express yourself! The stage is yours go on!

PTER said:
reading your posts is quite interesting but after an intensive scrutiny I realised that are the cocacola made products.
Blah blah nyingi zote hizo za mini?
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But also keep in mind that there some people who are seriously addicted to Coca Cola! Sorry if that's not your favorite drink!

PTER said:
reading your posts is quite interesting but after an intensive scrutiny I realised that are the cocacola made products.
Blah blah nyingi zote hizo za mini?
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Kama kweli una nia ya dhati ya hili hitaji naamini Mungu atakusaidia,maelezo yako yanajitosheleza na una sifa zote za kuwa mke kwa mume mwema,binafsi ningekidhi vigezo vyako ningetangaza ndoa bt hapo kwenye umri ni kikwazo kwangu coz yawezekana tunalingana,bt all the best dadang
 
Ahsante ubarikiwe. Nakuombea kwa Mungu akupe haja ya moyo wako rafiki!





peruu said:
Kama kweli una nia ya dhati ya hili hitaji naamini Mungu atakusaidia,maelezo yako yanajitosheleza na una sifa zote za kuwa mke kwa mume mwema,binafsi ningekidhi vigezo vyako ningetangaza ndoa bt hapo kwenye umri ni kikwazo kwangu coz yawezekana tunalingana,bt all the best dadang
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Risenshine, nimefuatilia baadhi ya post zako, nikiunganisha na sifa za mwanaume unayemtaka seems you're born again.

Kwanini unashindwa kuliweka wazi hili? Usinielewe vibaya ni mtazamo wangu, zaidi nikutakie mafanikio katika hitaji lako.

Kumbuka ni rahisi kumpata mwanaume lakini kumpata mme kunahitaji subira.
 
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Mrembo nakupa ushauri wa bure.
Nimesoma baadhi ya replies zako na kuona kwamba wewe ni dada ambaye ni instructions 'giver' na sio 'taker'. Unaonekana kujiamini sana na unachofanya kiasi cha kuwa na dhana kwamba unaweza kufanya bora zaidi ya wanaume 'superiority complex.'
Ila ninachokwambia, wanaume hawapendi wanawake wa kushindana nao. Tunapenda wenye kutii hata kama jambo hulitaki, bora kwetu tumelipenda.

Ukiwa na hii dhana kumpata mume itakuwa taabu na kama atatokea, basi he will have to instill some respect into you in any way possible!
Try to be a lady for once.

Huwezi kuwa above men kama unataka kuolewa for heaven sake! Mwanamke should be submissive always.

Tena hii dhana ya kwamba 'after all I am learned' itoe kwa akili yako kabisa.
 
Mimi nimekosa baadhi ya sifa hapo ila naweza kukufariji kwenye hiki kipindi cha mpito dada Risenshine.
 
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"Tena hii dhana ya kwamba 'after all I am learned' itoe kwa akili yako kabisa".

Sasa mimi ndiyo nina superiority complex au wanaume watakaoniogopa ndiyo wenye inferiority complex?
Anyway, thanks for sharing your thoughts!



Kiluuj said:
Mrembo nakupa ushauri wa bure.
Nimesoma baadhi ya replies zako na kuona kwamba wewe ni dada ambaye ni instructions 'giver' na sio 'taker'. Unaonekana kujiamini sana na unachofanya kiasi cha kuwa na dhana kwamba unaweza kufanya bora zaidi ya wanaume 'superiority complex.'
Ila ninachokwambia, wanaume hawapendi wanawake wa kushindana nao. Tunapenda wenye kutii hata kama jambo hulitaki, bora kwetu tumelipenda.

Ukiwa na hii dhana kumpata mume itakuwa taabu na kama atatokea, basi he will have to instill some respect into you in any way possible!
Try to be a lady for once.

Huwezi kuwa above men kama unataka kuolewa for heaven sake! Mwanamke should be submissive always.

Tena hii dhana ya kwamba 'after all I am learned' itoe kwa akili yako kabisa.
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Kwanini unashindwa kuliweka wazi hili?
Ulikuwa unamaanisha nini hapo rafiki? Ila ahsante kwa ushauri na sala zako.. Ninamwomba Mungu nashirikisha akili na subira ikiwemo rafiki! Just wish me the best!


Kyenju said:
Risenshine, nimefuatilia baadhi ya post zako, nikiunganisha na sifa za mwanaume unayemtaka seems you're born again.

Kwanini unashindwa kuliweka wazi hili? Usinielewe vibaya ni mtazamo wangu, zaidi nikutakie mafanikio katika hitaji lako.

Kumbuka ni rahisi kumpata mwanaume lakini kumpata mme kunahitaji subira.
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Aisee kila la kheri ila kumpata mume mwenye umri wa 35-42 ambaye atakidhi vigezo vyako si kazi rahisi
 
Risenshine said:
Hahahaha! Haya ahsante!
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Mrejesho tafadhali, majuma kadhaa yamepita. ....umefanikiwa? Tujuze ili pm zako sijae.....wengine Watafute malisho ya kijani wakiwa na Matumaini kuwa wanaume/wanawake wa hajali zao wapo hapa Jf.
 
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