For #1: I have my body to care of as she has hers. So everybody should fight for survival. By the way, huyo sikuzaliwa nae tumekutana tu ukubwani.
For #2: It is a honour for a son to burry his parents not otherwise. So I am sure even my mother understands the same.
For #3: Best chance to try new things in life. Better try than never. As I have already have an experience to have a mom and a wife, why not have an experience to have millions of dollars?
Will go to rescue #3.