Why do women cheat...

[bht]

Kicheche maana yake nini? Maana vicheche nivijuavyo mimi ni vile vimdudu....nilikuwaga naviwinda hivi wakati niko dogo....

shem hawa ni 'vuruka njia'

leo na huyo, kesho yule na mtondogoo mwingine.
life goes on

 

[Baba_Enock]

Kukamilisha my post #17

Women are like buses. Miss one and there is another one coming....

Na hilo ndilo tunahita "Fill the GAP"!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Kukamilisha my post #17



Na hilo ndilo tunahita "Fill the GAP"!

What do you mean "fill the gap"?

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

shem hawa ni 'vuruka njia'

leo na huyo, kesho yule na mtondogoo mwingine.
life goes on

Sasa si bora uruke njia ukiwa single kuliko ukiwa kwenye relationship na mtu unayesema unampenda? Au?

 

[bht]

Sasa si bora uruke njia ukiwa single kuliko ukiwa kwenye relationship na mtu unayesema unampenda? Au?

dah sasa mbona hamna bora??? kuruka njia ni kuna hasara na pia kumsaliti menzio ni mbaya!!!!!!!!!

 

[Ngalikihinja]

Although not as much as men are, but women too are occasionally unfaithful to their husbands or partners. Yes, the reasons why men cheat and why women cheat are very different, but the fact remains that women cheat on their partners too.
Most often a woman is unfaithful because she is looking to feed her heart and not so much her body. Women tend to stray for emotional reasons whereas for men cheating is purely physical. So, as long as you can keep your woman happy and emotionally satisfied, it is very unlikely that she will be unfaithful to you. Here are 10 reasons women cheat on their men.
1.Pure and simple revenge: This is one of the leading reasons for women to cheat on their men. The revenge in question is usually because the man had an affair, and it’s payback time. Sometimes, even if women have a suspicion that their men are having an affair, it may push them into seeking comfort in another man’s arms.
2.Not enough intimacy: If your relationship is lacking intimacy, a woman may feel tempted to have an affair so that she can feel close to someone. Simply giving a woman the fantastic home, a fabulous car, and money in the bank is not enough to keep her happy. If the intimacy quotient on your marriage is very low, that could drive a woman to cheat.
3.Not getting adequate sex: Yes, hard as this may sound to believe, women too like to have sex and may seek it outside their marriage if they are not getting enough of it from their partners. Although this holds truer for women in westernized societies than in a society like ours, The sex per se is not what a woman is looking for, but it has more to do with the feeling of being wanted.
4.Sowing her wild oats: Sowing their wild oats is not just the domain of men. Once again, although fewer in number than men, some women enjoy being a bad girl. They usually stray from their relationships after a major change in their life. For instance, if they have had a near-death experience, if they have always been fat and have lost considerable weight and are looking their best or if they are going through some mid-life crisis.
5.To feel desirable: If a woman has a low self image, she is generally looking for something that will make her feel desirable and make her feel validated as a woman. And since sex can be the ultimate self-esteem booster, women may have an affair to feel sexier and loved. This usually happens when she is not getting enough attention from her man.
6.Falling in love: Another main reason why women cheat is because they simply fall in love with someone else. Most Indian marriages are arranged marriages. Thus, if a woman finds her true soul mate after being married, she may enter into an extramarital affair with the man that she truly loves. And even if the first marriage was a love marriage, sometimes people just fall out of love with their partners and in love with someone else. This is not to say that being in love justifies cheating, but well... it happens.
7.Boredom: If the relationship is lacking excitement, a woman may look for excitement in other ways, such as by having an affair. Not just to get away from a boring life, but if the sex is also becoming boring (the same old sexual routine with the same old sexual partner), a woman may get adventurous and jump into bed with someone who excites her.
8.Absentee partner: Women also tend to have affairs if they are away from their husbands or partners for long periods of time. For instance, if the man is a shippie and is away from home for months on end; or if he has to travel extensively for work, then the woman may seek another sexual partner.
9.Abusive partner: If her husband is abusive, either physically or verbally, this may lead the woman to be unfaithful to him. It would be easy to say that a woman need not stay with an abusive partner, but as statistics show, a lot of women stay in abusive relationships for different reasons. In her mind, the woman does not feel that she can leave her abusive partner, but having an affair is another story altogether.
10.Finding romance: It is no secret that woman love being romanced. Buying her flowers for no reason at all, sweeping her to an exotic locale for a romantic weekend, holding her and kissing her when she least expects it, and treating her like a 'special' person; that is what women are looking for. No, men don't have to be romantic every minute of every day, but if you haven't done anything romantic in God knows how long, well...your woman may just end up seeking romance elsewhere!

We FL1, dear CARMEL, hiyo ya sita mwenzi wako ataizuia vipi........???

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

dah sasa mbona hamna bora??? kuruka njia ni kuna hasara na pia kumsaliti menzio ni mbaya!!!!!!!!!

Mimi nazungumzia ktk muktadha wa udanganyifu na kumwangusha mwenzio. Lakini kama umeamua kuruka njia na uko mwenyewe tu na uko upfront na nini unataka, sioni ubaya wowote hapo. Kama mtu hataki kujihusisha na wewe poa tu. Akiamua kujihusisha na wewe anajua nini what's up. Ila sio kumdanganya mtu kuwa unampenda halafu unacheat. Ni bora mtu aniambie ukweli tokea mwanzo kuliko kuja kugundua baadae kuwa alikuwa ananidanganya tu. Honesty is the best policy.

 

[Mapinduzi]

Mwanume akicheat, ni shetani kampitia, mwanamke akicheat ni kicheche. Na wanawake wenyewe wanabuy hiyo myth.

Mtoto wa kike ukijisikia kujirusha ili kujiridhisha kimapenzi, jirushe.

Tena ukijua mwenzio kacheat huna hata haja ya kumuuliza au kupigana ngumi na mgoni wako. Mpigie simu mwanaume mwingine anayekujali na unayempenda (ambaye kila siku unajizuia kujirusha naye as you are in a relationship with someone who takes you for granted).

Jipe raha mwenyewe.

 

[ogm12000]

ni uzinzi wao tu!

Ebwana pape umeongea kweli sometimes ni tamaa zao tu. Kumtimizia mambo yote hayo issue na usawa huu wa maisha ni ngumu sana, lazima tu kuna sehemu utateleza na hapo ndio mambo yanapoanza.

Lazima uzidiwe kete

 

[bht]

Mimi nazungumzia ktk muktadha wa udanganyifu na kumwangusha mwenzio. Lakini kama umeamua kuruka njia na uko mwenyewe tu na uko upfront na nini unataka, sioni ubaya wowote hapo. Kama mtu hataki kujihusisha na wewe poa tu. Akiamua kujihusisha na wewe anajua nini what's up. Ila sio kumdanganya mtu kuwa unampenda halafu unacheat. Ni bora mtu aniambie ukweli tokea mwanzo kuliko kuja kugundua baadae kuwa alikuwa ananidanganya tu. Honesty is the best policy.

hivi mwanamke anakubalije kuambiwa eti tuna-buy time tu hapa hakuna strings attached? (najua wapo lakini huwa najiuliza ni kwa nini wafanye hivo)

labda ndo maana wanaume huwa wanaamua kutudanganya ili tuingie laini na kumbe wao hata hawana mpango na sisi..... (sijui hata kama nipo on truck au ndo nimeenda ofu topiki shemeji aaah)!!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

hivi mwanamke anakubalije kuambiwa eti tuna-buy time tu hapa hakuna strings attached? (najua wapo lakini huwa najiuliza ni kwa nini wafanye hivo)

labda ndo maana wanaume huwa wanaamua kutudanganya ili tuingie laini na kumbe wao hata hawana mpango na sisi..... (sijui hata kama nipo on truck au ndo nimeenda ofu topiki shemeji aaah)!!

Unajua nini shem? Hii dhana nzima ya mahusiano ni utapeli mtupu. Nasema ni utapeli kwa sababu binadamu hatuaminiki na tuko wadanganyifu kiasili. Ila mwisho wa siku ni uamuzi wa mtu binafsi kujiingiza ktk mahusiano ya kimapenzi na mtu mwingine au la...

 

[Baba_Enock]

What do you mean "fill the gap"?

Kujaza myanya

 

[bht]

Unajua nini shem? Hii dhana nzima ya mahusiano ni utapeli mtupu. Nasema ni utapeli kwa sababu binadamu hatuaminiki na tuko wadanganyifu kiasili. Ila mwisho wa siku ni uamuzi wa mtu binafsi kujiingiza ktk mahusiano ya kimapenzi na mtu mwingine au la...

uridhie kudanganywa au lah!!! pagumu hapo!!!

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

They do kwa kuwa wana mwalimu mzuri- Mwanaume!!

 

[bht]

They do kwa kuwa wana mwalimu mzuri- Mwanaume!!

hahaaaaa eti wanasemaga mwalimu wetu kipofu!!!!

 

[ogm12000]

Ndio maana ni bora kuwa single. Ukiwa single wasiwasi wa kubiwa na mwenzako haupo na maisha ni raha mustarehe

Kaka kuwa single maisha yote nayo issue.. Mungu hakuumba hizi jinsia mbili for no reason. Nafirikiri wanatuhitaji na tunawahitaji pia.

Nadhani familia au kuwa na mke kunamfanya mwanaume akue kimawazo. Angalia mtu aliyefika 45 yrs lkn bado single utakuta anakasoro fulani hivi anaweza kuwa mlevi sana, ana maongezi ya ovyo ovyo , n.k

Japokuwa ni kuna stress ni bora kuoa tu....

Akikucheat ni kumsamehe au kumwacha. Hakuna cha kipigo wala nini maana hiyo sio solution huenda ikaongeza kiwango chake cha ufanisi ktk kucheat.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Kaka kuwa single maisha yote nayo issue.. Mungu hakuumba hizi jinsia mbili for no reason. Nafirikiri wanatuhitaji na tunawahitaji pia.

Nadhani familia au kuwa na mke kunamfanya mwanaume akue kimawazo. Angalia mtu aliyefika 45 yrs lkn bado single utakuta anakasoro fulani hivi anaweza kuwa mlevi sana, ana maongezi ya ovyo ovyo , n.k

Japokuwa ni kuna stress ni bora kuoa tu....

Akikucheat ni kumsamehe au kumwacha. Hakuna cha kipigo wala nini maana hiyo sio solution huenda ikaongeza kiwango chake cha ufanisi ktk kucheat.

To each his own.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Hivi kwa nini humu kila siku kuna mada mpya inayohusu cheating?

 

[Kimey]

uridhie kudanganywa au lah!!! pagumu hapo!!!

When times come hutahisi kama unadanganywa....ndo maana Julius kasema it depend on your decision if u want relationship or not na kama unataka kua na raha just trust your man/woman!!

 

[bht]

Hivi kwa nini humu kila siku kuna mada mpya inayohusu cheating?

shemeji ndo yanayojiri haya!!! these things keep pushing me away, karibu nahamia 'misheni'........