Wazazi/walezi tuna-fail wapi?

Dr Lizzy · Sep 15, 2020

Baada ya ajali ya moto uliochoma shule Kagera jana kuua watoto 10 na kujeruhi 7 wa kati ya miaka 6 - 10 🙁🙁 (May their little souls Rest in Heaven 👼👼)

Naomba kuwauliza wanajamii wenzangu, je ni wakati gani kama mzazi/mlezi unaweza sema "It can't be helped. Mtoto NI LAZIMA aende boarding school."?

Ina maana tunakosa kabisa namna ya kuendelea kuishi na watoto wetu majumbani, chini ya uangalizi wetu wakaenda shule asubuhi na kurudi jioni kiasi cha kuwakimbiza boarding school wakiwa bado wadogo sana? Tukishawakimbiza boarding school katika umri huo mdogo, ni lini utapatikana muda wa kukaa nao na kuwajenga kihisia, kitabia na kiakili kama wazazi?

Hatuoni kama tunawapunja sana hawa watoto? Ama hata sisi wenyewe kwa kutoshiriki kikamilifu katika ukuaji wao?

🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

KENZY · Sep 15, 2020

Waambie hao kwa kiingeleza tell them..

The Boss · Sep 15, 2020

Watoto wengi wanazaliwa 'ki bahati mbaya'..
Sasa zoezi la kuwalea linakuwa mshikemshike..
Hata mda Tu wa kuwa nao shida.
Likizo ya Corona Tu wazazi walijuta kukaa na watoto wao...

AgnessM · Sep 15, 2020

Wazaz wa wengi siku hizi malezi 0 hawawezi kabisa,Mungu asaidie

Mtoto halali na hela · Sep 15, 2020

Ubize wa wazazi unasababisha yote haya, ilipaswa atleast mtoto awe na miaka kuanzia 12 japo majanga yanapotokea huwa hayaangalii umri

Misako · Sep 15, 2020

The Boss said:
Watoto wengi wanazaliwa 'ki bahati mbaya'..
Sasa zoezi la kuwalea linakuwa mshikemshike..
Hata mda Tu wa kuwa nao shida.
Likizo ya Corona Tu wazazi walijuta kukaa na watoto wao...

Uko sahihi na ndomaana wanawakimbiza huko boarding schools ili kupunguza majukumu ya kulea.

Misako · Sep 15, 2020

Wazazi wengi wa kisasa wanaona wako bize na majukumu hali inayopelekea wawapeleke boarding schools watoto wadogo, ni sawa atleast kuanzia miaka 14 na kuendelea japokuwa majanga hayakwepeki ila akiwa na umri huu kidogo anaweza kujipambania,...ni Bora mtoto akaenda asubuh na kurudiana jioni nyumban...

Misako · Sep 15, 2020

Hizi shule za watoto Zina majanga Sana, Kuna shule flani mkoa..(. ....)nilipo mtoto wa miaka 7 kakutwa na SUMU anataka kutia kwenye chakula Cha watoto wa darasa la nne na akakamatwa na hiyo SUMU, imagine angefanikiwa kingetokea Nini? Aliulizwa na akataja mtu aliyemtuma..

Brinna_Mercy · Sep 15, 2020

Ni kweli kabisa mtoto mdogo kupelekwa boarding ni kama unyanyasaji tu, hata kama shule iwe nzuri kiasi gani au iwe ina jali kiasi gani lakini haiwezi fikia hata nusu malezi ya wazazi/walezi nyumbani

Thought kipindi nasoma primary nilikua nikiona wenzangu wapo boarding nilikua naona kama wanaenjoy sana na wanaishi vizur mno na nilitamani na mimi nipelekwe boarding kama wao, mawazo ya utoto bana[emoji1][emoji1][emoji1]

Amehlo · Sep 15, 2020

Misako said:
Hizi shule za watoto Zina majanga Sana, Kuna shule flani mkoa..(. ....)nilipo mtoto wa miaka 7 kakutwa na SUMU anataka kutia kwenye chakula Cha watoto wa darasa la nne na akakamatwa na hiyo SUMU, imagine angefanikiwa kingetokea Nini? Aliulizwa na akataja mtu aliyemtuma..

Uwiiii[emoji2304][emoji2304][emoji2304]

Brinna_Mercy · Sep 15, 2020

Misako said:
Hizi shule za watoto Zina majanga Sana, Kuna shule flani mkoa..(. ....)nilipo mtoto wa miaka 7 kakutwa na SUMU anataka kutia kwenye chakula Cha watoto wa darasa la nne na akakamatwa na hiyo SUMU, imagine angefanikiwa kingetokea Nini? Aliulizwa na akataja mtu aliyemtuma..

Daah mbona hatari sana hio..

Dr Lizzy · Sep 15, 2020

The Boss said:
Watoto wengi wanazaliwa 'ki bahati mbaya'..
Sasa zoezi la kuwalea linakuwa mshikemshike..
Hata mda Tu wa kuwa nao shida.
Likizo ya Corona Tu wazazi walijuta kukaa na watoto wao...

Very true 😕😕

Kuna umuhimu wa kuiga kuzaa kwa mipango kutoka kwa wenzetu wa Magharibi. Watu wawe wanaamua kuzaa wanapokuwa tayari kuwa responsible 💯💯 badala ya watu kuzaa ili kuendeleza trend ama kufurahisha jamii na mwishowe kufelisha vizazi vijavyo.

Dr Lizzy · Sep 15, 2020

Mtoto halali na hela said:
Ubize wa wazazi unasababisha yote haya, ilipaswa atleast mtoto awe na miaka kuanzia 12 japo majanga yanapotokea huwa hayaangalii umri

Kwani mzazi akiwa busy anaondoka na nyumba??? Yani kazi za saa 8 - 17 ndo zisababishe watoto waondoke nyumbani up to 3 months at a time???

Mwingine unakuta mtoto kambwaga boarding school na yeye kajiwekea maid nyumbani. Like seriously.....?🤔🤔🤔🤔

Dr Lizzy · Sep 15, 2020

Brinna_Mercy said:
Ni kweli kabisa mtoto mdogo kupelekwa boarding ni kama unyanyasaji tu, hata kama shule iwe nzuri kiasi gani au iwe ina jali kiasi gani lakini haiwezi fikia hata nusu malezi ya wazazi/walezi nyumbani

Thought kipindi nasoma primary nilikua nikiona wenzangu wapo boarding nilikua naona kama wanaenjoy sana na wanaishi vizur mno na nilitamani na mimi nipelekwe boarding kama wao, mawazo ya utoto bana[emoji1][emoji1][emoji1]

🙈🙈🙈🙈
Laiti ungejua ......😆😆😆

Ratiba ya kuamka yenyewe utadhani watoto wako jeshini maskini 😔

Ila kusema ukweli sidhani kama kuna kitu kikubwa tumemiss ambao hatukuwahi kwenda board 😏😏

Kanungila Karim · Sep 15, 2020

Brinna_Mercy said:
Ni kweli kabisa mtoto mdogo kupelekwa boarding ni kama unyanyasaji tu, hata kama shule iwe nzuri kiasi gani au iwe ina jali kiasi gani lakini haiwezi fikia hata nusu malezi ya wazazi/walezi nyumbani

Thought kipindi nasoma primary nilikua nikiona wenzangu wapo boarding nilikua naona kama wanaenjoy sana na wanaishi vizur mno na nilitamani na mimi nipelekwe boarding kama wao, mawazo ya utoto bana[emoji1][emoji1][emoji1]

Utoto raha

Brinna_Mercy · Sep 15, 2020

Lizzy said:
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Laiti ungejua ......[emoji38][emoji38][emoji38]

Ratiba ya kuamka yenyewe utadhani watoto wako jeshini maskini [emoji17]

Ila kusema ukweli sidhani kama kuna kitu kikubwa tumemiss ambao hatukuwahi kwenda board [emoji57][emoji57]

Hakuna hata cha maana ulichomiss

Rabonn · Sep 15, 2020

Huwa naogopa kabisa haya mawazo yakinijia akili.Siwez peleka mtoto bweni na sijapata sababu bado

Dr Lizzy · Sep 15, 2020

Jang-Bogo said:
Huwa naogopa kabisa haya mawazo yakinijia akili.Siwez peleka mtoto bweni na sijapata sababu bado

👊👊👊

Copy · Sep 15, 2020

Point kubwa sana. Kila aliye mzazi lazima alofikirie hili jambo. Yawezekana tukaliona ni dogo lakini kwa upande wangu mimi niko mlengo wa mtoa maada.

Real Patriotist · Sep 15, 2020

Tumechemka sana katika kuadopt malezi ya familia zetu za kisasa/kileo. Turudi tu kwenye uasili wetu wanafamilia walikuwa salama sana.

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