Wanaume Sasa ni ‘Stay-at-Home Sons’ Girlfriends Wanalipa Bills

[OwadeKuya]

Are roles reversing or are men just adapting? Siku hizi unapata mwanaume ako nyumba, anasema “I’m planning,” while mwanamke ndio anachapa kazi, analipa rent, na bado anapika.

Swali ni — hii ni empowerment ya wanawake ama wanaume wameamua kulegea? Wengine wanasema economy imebadilika, opportunities kwa wanawake zimeongezeka. Lakini ukweli mchungu ni kwamba baadhi ya wanaume wamegeuza “support” kuwa full time lifestyle.

Wakati mabinti wanajituma kujijenga, kuna wanaume wanangoja “breakthrough” miaka tano bila action. Hii si partnership tena, ni dependency.

Lakini pia, let’s be honest wanawake wengine wanapenda kuwa “providers” mpaka wanajipata wamechoka na kubeba kila kitu. So who is enabling who?

Je, tunashuhudia evolution ya roles ama collapse ya responsibility? Debate iko kwako.

 

[Kiranga]

Are roles reversing or are men just adapting? Siku hizi unapata mwanaume ako nyumba, anasema “I’m planning,” while mwanamke ndio anachapa kazi, analipa rent, na bado anapika.
Swali ni — hii ni empowerment ya wanawake ama wanaume wameamua kulegea? Wengine wanasema economy imebadilika, opportunities kwa wanawake zimeongezeka. Lakini ukweli mchungu ni kwamba baadhi ya wanaume wamegeuza “support” kuwa full time lifestyle.
Wakati mabinti wanajituma kujijenga, kuna wanaume wanangoja “breakthrough” miaka tano bila action. Hii si partnership tena, ni dependency.
Lakini pia, let’s be honest wanawake wengine wanapenda kuwa “providers” mpaka wanajipata wamechoka na kubeba kila kitu. So who is enabling who?
Je, tunashuhudia evolution ya roles ama collapse ya responsibility? Debate iko kwako.

Hili ni suala la makubaliano yao wawili vyovyote wakiamua ni sawa ilimradi wamekubaliana.

Pia, inawezekana huo ni muelekeo mzuri kwenda kwenye usawa zaidi na kuondoa gender roles.

Ingawa mfumodume utapinga, saikolojia ya wanaume wengi itapinga hili, na wanawake wengi kuanzia trad wifes mpaka wanaopenda usawa bila majukumu nao watapinga.

Hususan katika jamii za kiafrika ambapo gender roles ziko very well established.

 

[Robert Heriel Mtibeli]

Kwa hivyo vipato vyao vya kubangaiza vizivyozidi laki tano ndio nawe utasema ukae nyumbani ulipiwe Bills?

Wanawake wenye vipato vinavyoanzia milioni moja Tanzania hii hawafiki hata 500k

Wengi ni wabangaizaji (below tsh 350k ni zaidi ya 80% ya wanawake wapo below hicho kipato.

So kwa hapa Tanzania mada yako bado Sana.

 

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Kwa hivyo vipato vyao vya kubangaiza vizivyozidi laki tano ndio nawe utasema ukae nyumbani ulipiwe Bills?

Wanawake wenye vipato vinavyoanzia milioni moja Tanzania hii hawafiki hata 500k

Wengi ni wabangaizaji (below tsh 350k ni zaidi ya 80% ya wanawake wapo below hicho kipato.

So kwa hapa Tanzania mada yako bado Sana.

Sio kweli

 

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Seran

 

[Seran]

Seran

Mimi kipato changu kidogo sana kuhudumia mtu mwenye makendre😫

 

[Werrason]

Collapse of responsibility

 

[min -me]

Mimi kipato chqngu kidogo sana kuhudumia mtu mwenye makendre😫

Robert Heriel Mtibeli aka Mr Bob ana pinga sana , anasema et hamfiki ka salari ka milioni et

 

[Seran]

Robert Heriel Mtibeli aka Mr Bob ana pinga sana , anasema et hamfiki ka salari ka milioni et

Watu na research zao tusiwapinge! Kwakweli mwenyewe sina hiyo pesa! Kwahiyo inawezekana ni ukweli!

 

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Watu na research zao tusiwapinge! Kwakweli mwenyewe sina hiyo pesa! Kwahiyo inawezekana ni ukweli!

Kwa hiyo hamtaki kutuhudumia

 

[Seran]

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Mishahara chini ya laki 3 tuwahudumie vipi sasa?

 

[min -me]

Mishahara chini ya laki 3 tuwahudumie vipi sasa?

100k yangu una baki na 200 nzima

 

[Blockchain]

Piga mashine

 

[mr pipa]

Nao watafika mbinguni wamechoka ila wanaume wa kizaz hiki baadh ni wapumbavu sana unaanzaje kukaa uhudumiwe na mwanamke

 

[Seran]

100k yangu una baki na 200 nzima

Hizo bangi sijavuta bado labda uondoe hiyo zero moja

 

[Seran]

Nao watafika mbinguni wamechoka ila wanaume wa kizaz hiki baadh ni wapumbavu sana unaanzaje kukaa uhudumiwe na mwanamke

Wapo, tena wakavu! Ukienda kazini,unakuta kasugua sifuria liko kama kioo! Nyumba safi kitanda kimetandikwa☺️

 

[Empty container for sale]

No one can pay ur dues

Most women in Tanzania ni dependent .

Nafikiri umezungumzia huko ulaya not Tanzania .

 

[Robert Heriel Mtibeli]

Robert Heriel Mtibeli aka Mr Bob ana pinga sana , anasema et hamfiki ka salari ka milioni et

Wanawake wengi hawafikishia kipato cha 500k alafu ukiwaona sasa wanazungumza utadhani wanaingiza mamilioni ya pesa.

Unakuta yupo pale Kariakoo analipwa 300k akikupa hata 20k utasikia ninamlea.
Yaani umlee mtu kwa 300k Kwa mwezi?😃😃

 

[Robert Heriel Mtibeli]

No one can pay ur dues

Most women in Tanzania ni dependent .

Nafikiri umezungumzia huko ulaya not Tanzania .

Hata Huko ulaya

 

[Funny boe]

Hao wanawake wanaotoa pesa kwa wanaume wao wako wapi tukaishi nao?😎😎