Kwa nini wanaume wanakuwa wakali wife/girl friend/lover wanapo pewa vitu na watu wengine? Na kwanini kitucha kwanza wanafikiri ni kuwa wamepewa na wanaume? Is it because they do the same to other ladies instead of doing it to you? Au pia utakuta kama ni girl friend/lover they (the man) comes kwa mdada expecting to find everything in the house but he does not bother paying or buying anything and he seats waiting for the lady to ask for money or ask him to pay for something. Kwani haoni kuwa kuna vitu vimepungua? au haoni aibu kila kitu kipo with out his help? and yet on top of that uki-ask for money anasema hana ukipata somewhere else anakuwa mkali. Why does it have to be this way, guys caint you just pay/buy without being asked?