donlucchese
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- Mar 23, 2011
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Salaam wakuu,
Kwema? Ishu yenyewe ni hivi, imagine wewe ni mwanaume ambaye una bestfriend wa kike ambaye mmekua marafiki (close friends) kwa kipindi cha muda mrefu mpaka imefikia hatua kwamba she can confide in you kwa shida yoyote au kitu chochote kinachomsumbua. Mtoto wa kike anakueleza kila jambo lake kwa kua anakuamini kama rafiki mkubwa, hususan katika maswala yake ya mahusiano. Sasa kipindi mnaanza urafiki hadi sasa mmefikia kua marafiki wakubwa, there is something you haven't been telling her: umejikuta katika muda wote huo umefall in love with her lakini unashindwa kumwambia because you know she'l always see you as a friend only. Unatamani sana kumwambia ukweli lakini unahisi kama ukiweka hisia zako wazi kwake, possible scenarios ni either kupoteza urafiki na trust which took years to build or atachukulia kwamba you are just joking (hajawahi kuwaza kwamba unaweza ukampenda kimapenzi).
Currently amekuja kukuomba ushauri kuhusu mahusiano yake kwani kila kukicha ni migogoro na mpenzi wake ambaye si mwaminifu na hata nawe pia unaijua vyema tabia ya huyo jamaa na unaumia sana kuona jamaa anachomfanyia n' you wish you could get that chance you know. Je, will you let your feelings cloud your judgment wakati unampa ushauri kuhusu uyo bwana wake au utamwambia ajaribu kuwork out things na huyo mpenzi wake? and suppose labda ameamua kuchukua uamuzi wa kuachana na huyo mpenzi wake, how can you tell her how much you love her wakati yeye anakuchukulia only as a friend and nothing more? Will you willingly risk the friendship by telling her how you feel 'bou her? Let's discuss mates!
Kwema? Ishu yenyewe ni hivi, imagine wewe ni mwanaume ambaye una bestfriend wa kike ambaye mmekua marafiki (close friends) kwa kipindi cha muda mrefu mpaka imefikia hatua kwamba she can confide in you kwa shida yoyote au kitu chochote kinachomsumbua. Mtoto wa kike anakueleza kila jambo lake kwa kua anakuamini kama rafiki mkubwa, hususan katika maswala yake ya mahusiano. Sasa kipindi mnaanza urafiki hadi sasa mmefikia kua marafiki wakubwa, there is something you haven't been telling her: umejikuta katika muda wote huo umefall in love with her lakini unashindwa kumwambia because you know she'l always see you as a friend only. Unatamani sana kumwambia ukweli lakini unahisi kama ukiweka hisia zako wazi kwake, possible scenarios ni either kupoteza urafiki na trust which took years to build or atachukulia kwamba you are just joking (hajawahi kuwaza kwamba unaweza ukampenda kimapenzi).
Currently amekuja kukuomba ushauri kuhusu mahusiano yake kwani kila kukicha ni migogoro na mpenzi wake ambaye si mwaminifu na hata nawe pia unaijua vyema tabia ya huyo jamaa na unaumia sana kuona jamaa anachomfanyia n' you wish you could get that chance you know. Je, will you let your feelings cloud your judgment wakati unampa ushauri kuhusu uyo bwana wake au utamwambia ajaribu kuwork out things na huyo mpenzi wake? and suppose labda ameamua kuchukua uamuzi wa kuachana na huyo mpenzi wake, how can you tell her how much you love her wakati yeye anakuchukulia only as a friend and nothing more? Will you willingly risk the friendship by telling her how you feel 'bou her? Let's discuss mates!
