Damaso
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- Jul 18, 2018
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The Russian Baltazar checked into the hotel where she works as a manager. He flirted with her briefly at the front desk before she returned to her duties. Later, he called down to complain about a faulty microwave. She went up to check it — and within minutes, GUESS WHAT?..... they were already kissing.
The funny part is she's married, looks completely decent, no tattoos, no wild piercings, no "party girl" vibe at all. Judging purely by her appearance and outward demeanor, no one would have pegged her as |oose or promiscμous. She doesn't fit the stereotype.
This perfectly illustrates what I've always said about de|usional confidence in "self-control" and the massive role proximity plays.
Women don't have an iπdependent, rock-solid value system of their own, they cosplay whatever values they believe will attract and keep their target man (or men). Every woman has her price; the one playing hard-to-get is simply waiting for the bidder with the right combination of leverage (status, looks, excitement, foreign appeal, opportunity, etc.) to show up.
They have no unbreakable honor or fixed moral code, that's why avoiding compromising situations is always far safer than trusting in "she's different" or "she's too righteous to slip."
Never convince yourself that your woman is so principled she could never let her guard down. When the right guy appears at the right moment, with the right trigger, she'll set aside whatever "principles" you thought she had.
If she didn't work in a hotel — a place where horπy men check in daily, which creates constant proximity and opportunity — she likely never would have ended up in that situation. So you can't blame men who refuse to let their wives work in hotels, bars, closed corporate environments, or any high-proximity setting with men.
Proximity + opportunity + the right leverage = almost any woman can fold.
Don't rely on her "character" to protect your relationship. Rely on structure, boundaries, and your own leverage to keep things secure.
De|usional confidence gets men burπed. Awareness keeps you ahead.
The funny part is she's married, looks completely decent, no tattoos, no wild piercings, no "party girl" vibe at all. Judging purely by her appearance and outward demeanor, no one would have pegged her as |oose or promiscμous. She doesn't fit the stereotype.
This perfectly illustrates what I've always said about de|usional confidence in "self-control" and the massive role proximity plays.
Women don't have an iπdependent, rock-solid value system of their own, they cosplay whatever values they believe will attract and keep their target man (or men). Every woman has her price; the one playing hard-to-get is simply waiting for the bidder with the right combination of leverage (status, looks, excitement, foreign appeal, opportunity, etc.) to show up.
They have no unbreakable honor or fixed moral code, that's why avoiding compromising situations is always far safer than trusting in "she's different" or "she's too righteous to slip."
If she didn't work in a hotel — a place where horπy men check in daily, which creates constant proximity and opportunity — she likely never would have ended up in that situation. So you can't blame men who refuse to let their wives work in hotels, bars, closed corporate environments, or any high-proximity setting with men.
Proximity + opportunity + the right leverage = almost any woman can fold.
Don't rely on her "character" to protect your relationship. Rely on structure, boundaries, and your own leverage to keep things secure.
De|usional confidence gets men burπed. Awareness keeps you ahead.
