Siri nzito za akina mama.........

[Rutashubanyuma]

Siri nzito za akina mama............

1) Wenye vichanga na hawawezi kuvihudumia au wana mipango mingine ya masafa marefu kama kuolewa.....................huvitupa vichanga..........................

2) Ukahaba hata kwa wale walioolewa............................

3) Ushirikina..........................

4) Mapenzi na vijana wadogo.....................au................sugar mummy...........

5) Biashara ya madawa ya kulevya na kuwa wateja wazuri...............

6) utapeli.........wa kila aina.................

7) Usagaji unapamba moto........................hata kwa wenye ndoa zao......na wengine wana majina makubwa kwenye jamii.........................

Swali la msingi ni kwa nini akina mama wanajihusisha na mambo haya?

Jibu ......................ni kutojiamini kunakosababishwa na karaha nyingi za kidunia na hawana mikakati mingine ya kuzikabili...................low self-esteem and insecurity are mothers of all troubles for our beautiful women.......................


Have your say...................................

 

[Rutashubanyuma]

Kwa ufafanuzi zaidi waweza kujisomea habari hii niliyoitoa kwenye gazeti la Saturday nation of Kenya..................

Women and their secrets

She is the epitome of a good wife or mother but behind the façade is a wolf in sheep's clothing. With this woman, what you see is not what you get
By IRENE NJOROGE Posted Friday, December 24 2010 at 11:35

A few weeks ago, we carried a feature on men who lead double lives. Many of our male readers complained that we were only hitting at them and yet there are women who also lead double lives.

To balance the equation, this week, we shall look at women, who also live with skeletons in their closets. Many women harbour live with secrets that nobody, not even their partners or spouses know about.

On the surface, they appear to lead normal lives going about their day-to-day routines – working, raising children and being good wives. A large number are devout church goers.

However, what lurks beneath this seemingly perfect façade is probably in the realm of soap operas! With women, it is even more difficult to detect their secret lives, since, unlike me, they have perfected the art of pretence.

But why would a woman want to live her life with a dark cloud over her head because sooner or later, the truth will out. Most psychologists pin this down to human nature.

They maintain that everyone on the planet has a good side and a bad side: it is just the extent that makes the difference. But while nobody is perfect, some women are just plain sinister. Their dark side is often secretive and perplexing.

Some partners react in utter shock when they discover that the woman they have loved and had children with has another life or is keeping a secret that is confounding. A few men we spoke to said the following situations were the most shocking things they discovered about the women in their lives:

Women who abandoned their babies

We read of these stories in the newspapers everyday. Hospitals abound with cases of abandoned newborns; where the mother gives birth and then sneaks away. Once they leave the baby in the hospital, they move on.

They get married and have other children, and nobody ever knows about the baby. A more common occurrence is where the women do not abandon their babies, but they do not inform their husbands that they have a child somewhere.

Upon the woman's marriage, this child is often left with his or her grandmother or the woman's relatives. And she or he will be passed off to the husband and his side of the family as a sister or brother to the woman.

Married women who double up as prostitutes

A recent news item on TV caused shockwaves as married women at the coast came out and confessed that they secretly work as commercial sex workers. They cited various reasons for doing so; some said they were bored, while others said they did it for the money.

The married prostitute is not your usual brazen street girl variety. She is subtle and extremely secretive. It has been established that most lodgings, which conduct brisk business during the day often harbour married women going about their business.

They do it in the mornings' or early afternoons because they have to be home early to prepare dinner for their husbands and families. Others have discreet affairs with their seniors at work in order to earn increments and speed up promotions.

It is not uncommon to hear of women who have multiple relationships with bosses, suppliers and other influential parties for financial gain.

There are cases of married women who travel to certain countries abroad purportedly to buy clothes and other goods for sale. While there, they engage in sex, for serious money with the local men in those countries, who pay premium rates for these trysts.

Women and witchcraft
This is one thing that is becoming increasingly common especially among middle class women. Look at the profile of women who visit witchdoctors and it will not be your regular slum dweller or rural woman but that neighbour with the posh house.

The innocent-looking married women are frequent clients of the numerous witchdoctors who abound in every town. They visit them to obtain love potions to administer on their partners.

These potions, they believe, are supposed to subdue the man and keep him under their control. For this reason, the witchdoctor trade is thriving that is why you will now see those numerous signs in the posh suburbs that proclaim the services of these witchdoctors.

1 | 2 | 3 Next Page »

 

[Rutashubanyuma]

Kwa ufafanuzi zaidi waweza kujisomea habari hii niliyoitoa kwenye gazeti la Saturday nation of Kenya..................

Women and their secrets

She is the epitome of a good wife or mother but behind the façade is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. With this woman, what you see is not what you get
By IRENE NJOROGE Posted Friday, December 24 2010 at 11:35

A few weeks ago, we carried a feature on men who lead double lives. Many of our male readers complained that we were only hitting at them and yet there are women who also lead double lives.

To balance the equation, this week, we shall look at women, who also live with skeletons in their closets. Many women harbour live with secrets that nobody, not even their partners or spouses know about.

On the surface, they appear to lead normal lives going about their day-to-day routines – working, raising children and being good wives. A large number are devout church goers.

However, what lurks beneath this seemingly perfect façade is probably in the realm of soap operas! With women, it is even more difficult to detect their secret lives, since, unlike me, they have perfected the art of pretence.

But why would a woman want to live her life with a dark cloud over her head because sooner or later, the truth will out. Most psychologists pin this down to human nature.

They maintain that everyone on the planet has a good side and a bad side: it is just the extent that makes the difference. But while nobody is perfect, some women are just plain sinister. Their dark side is often secretive and perplexing.

Some partners react in utter shock when they discover that the woman they have loved and had children with has another life or is keeping a secret that is confounding. A few men we spoke to said the following situations were the most shocking things they discovered about the women in their lives:

Women who abandoned their babies

We read of these stories in the newspapers everyday. Hospitals abound with cases of abandoned newborns; where the mother gives birth and then sneaks away. Once they leave the baby in the hospital, they move on.

They get married and have other children, and nobody ever knows about the baby. A more common occurrence is where the women do not abandon their babies, but they do not inform their husbands that they have a child somewhere.

Upon the woman’s marriage, this child is often left with his or her grandmother or the woman’s relatives. And she or he will be passed off to the husband and his side of the family as a sister or brother to the woman.

Married women who double up as prostitutes

A recent news item on TV caused shockwaves as married women at the coast came out and confessed that they secretly work as commercial sex workers. They cited various reasons for doing so; some said they were bored, while others said they did it for the money.

The married prostitute is not your usual brazen street girl variety. She is subtle and extremely secretive. It has been established that most lodgings, which conduct brisk business during the day often harbour married women going about their business.

They do it in the mornings’ or early afternoons because they have to be home early to prepare dinner for their husbands and families. Others have discreet affairs with their seniors at work in order to earn increments and speed up promotions.

It is not uncommon to hear of women who have multiple relationships with bosses, suppliers and other influential parties for financial gain.

There are cases of married women who travel to certain countries abroad purportedly to buy clothes and other goods for sale. While there, they engage in sex, for serious money with the local men in those countries, who pay premium rates for these trysts.

Women and witchcraft
This is one thing that is becoming increasingly common especially among middle class women. Look at the profile of women who visit witchdoctors and it will not be your regular slum dweller or rural woman but that neighbour with the posh house.

The innocent-looking married women are frequent clients of the numerous witchdoctors who abound in every town. They visit them to obtain love potions to administer on their partners.

These potions, they believe, are supposed to subdue the man and keep him under their control. For this reason, the witchdoctor trade is thriving that is why you will now see those numerous signs in the posh suburbs that proclaim the services of these witchdoctors.

1 | 2 | 3 Next Page »

 

[NILHAM RASHED]

mmmhhh!!!!!!!:A S-alert1:

 

[Jaluo_Nyeupe]

ungesamaraiz ungenishawishi nisome.

 

[Maty]

Pole kwa kuoa mke mwenye sifa hizo na ni yeye peke yake katika hii dunia.

 

[Preta]

ungesamaraiz ungenishawishi nisome.

same here

 

[Ms Judith]

hayo mambo uliyosema naamini ni specific kwa mtu mmojammoja. ila siku nyingine uangaie na upande wa pili wa akina anko kwani nako kuna vioja vingi pengine zaidi ya huku kwetu

 

[Keykey]

Siri nzito za akina mama............


3) Ushirikina..........................

Tatizo kubwa liko hapa!!!!???