She is beautiful, highly educated and paid but lonely! Why?

She is beautiful, highly educated and paid but lonely! Why?

Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
Almost all on spot, except for the fact being single isn't necessarily being lonely, or vice versa.


I think most ladies our generation will end up with no committed men, thanx to the social media. The way most of these mamas conduct themselves on those..whoo! Good luck.
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Happiness can loosely be captured as contentment. Any mama with those chactacters ought to be a miser for straining her eyes and doting her heart for Mr. Right who never was and never will ever be. Is her not pursuing a mirage?
 
Rutashubanyuma said:
Don't you have reversed the roles? Who has been hit by inferiority complex here? Is it not the one suffering in silence while the world out there awaits to be conquered?
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You initially pretended that I missed the point on your post.

But here you've proved to me that I was right.

You just want to portray these women as "victims".

Who told you they're suffering In silence? Who told you they're not conquering the world? Who told you they're so desperate that they'll stay in an unhappy relationship just to be with someone.

The ones with inferiority complex are men who demand "submission".
 
harakat said:
The only problems with this kind of people is that they expect much from the relationship while the don't respect their men as a results men use them and abandon. Time never wait for the king they ended up in frustration and in this case they can handle any relation anymore.
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I really salute you for such a mischievous hint.
 
bushland said:
, am not single but am not happy with my relationship
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The man thinks for as long as you're in a relationship, you are out conquering the world. And for as long as you're single, you're you're all curled up in your sheets suffering in silence.
 
housegirl said:
You initially pretended that I missed the point on your which

But here you've proved to me that I was right.

You just want to portray these women as "victims".

Who told you they're suffering In silence? Who told you they're not conquering the world? Who told you they're so desperate that they'll stay in an unhappy relationship just to be with someone.

The ones with inferiority complex are men who require "submission".
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Well if you read between the lines you would have picked my assertion that it is their extramarital lives which betray their seemly decorous living.
 
housegirl said:
The man thinks for as long as you're in a relationship, you are out conquering the world. And for as long as you're single, you're you're all curled up in your sheets suffering in silence.
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Well if facing the challenges of marital life is misery then you have missed the whole point of living and let live!
 
Beautiful girls, cultured have class and few men can really handle them. ..at most they are single.

Uswahilini is the place for many. ..for those divas who like hanging out in big hotels they are seen by few men...making chances to find soul mates even difficult
 
Apart from geographical barriers, behavioural issues plague their ability to forge lasting relationships!


mwenyeKitu said:
Beautiful girls, cultured have class and few men can really handle them. ..at most they are single.

Uswahilini is the place for many. ..for those divas who like hanging out in big hotels they are seen by few men...making chances to find soul mates even difficult
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Rutashubanyuma said:
Not strange to see aging spinsters knocking their fifties but are sworn to loneliness of single parenthood or childlessness citing lack of Mr. Right sweeping them off their feet.

What characteristics do they carry?


1) During their youthful heydays they had unrealistic dreams of their other halves culminating into sneering if not trolling potential advances needed to stoke a lifetime commitment.

2) Once in a relationship they were either too demanding of emotional engagements or too disengaged to chase away future Mr. Right out of being perceived overbearing, out of touch or simply unconcerned.

3) Sometimes they pursue too many relationships out of insecurities preying upon them dissuading those who wished to pursue serious relationships with them.

4) They tend to be faulty finders to the extent no man meets their criteria. As they are busier erecting barriers hoping to ensnare the man of their dreams unknowingly distancing themselves from REAL MEN who are easily bewitched and smitten by simplicity of their future wives.

5) Once they are drawing huge salaries, they hunt and hibernate with married men overlooking the fact that extra marital stories have wings of their own, and tend to reach and close doors they would wish stay open.

6) Perhaps most damaging is the tendency of being argumentative, pugnacious with little attention to being submissive to their flirting mates. Well the truth ought to be trumpeted once again beauty is not attraction. Beauty is morphological distraction but attraction hails from character and effeminate submission overcomes even the most difficult man around the neighbourhood.

What is the solution? Well doing the opposite of the negative traits is the only way out of this vicious circle. Will elaborate in the near future.
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Mkuu hivi nawezaje kujifunza hiki kiswanglish kama chako.
 
The phenomenon of love!

My two cents for what they are worth:

A good attitude can go a long way and most oftentimes can lead to good/ positive outcomes.
 
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