Rais anaenda kinyume na mitizamo ya wananchi

[South]

Kila baya wanalifanya watendaji wa serikali hata wale wa chini wasiopeleka taarifa za utendaji wao kwake analaumiwa yeye. Akiwasaidia wanaoteswa na hawa watendaji analaumiwa yeye kwamba maagizo ya kukamtwa yametoka kwake dikteta. Watanzania mnataka nini? Huu ndio upinzani wenyewe au tabia za akina James D na Kaoge? Zitto nae nilikuwa namkubali lakini siasa za kitoto hizi naanza kumtoa maana.

Kawafanya wawe hivyo wanafanya kumfurahisha kama ambavyo yeye anapenda so usilaumu wanaomkosoa

 

[Daudi Mchambuzi]

Nendeni mkasome 'Reverse physchology', hapo ndio mtajua JPM ni mtu wa aina gani.
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Reactance theory
says that people who feel their sense of control is being taken away from them will grab it back by not doing what they are asked. This can even be actions that are clearly against their best interests, for example as may occur in reaction formation.

Reverse psychology
is more likely to be successful with people who have a high need for control. Rebellious teenagers who naturally do the opposite of what their parents say are classic targets, as are Type A people and those with narcissistic or evenpsychopathic tendencies.

Doing a reversal can also be used as a deliberate provocation to wake the other person up to their unreasonable stance. This requires them to think about what is said, which is quite different to the normal provocation of reactance which works best when they are in an emotional, unthinking state.

Where the other person may suspect reverse psychology is being used (which is typical of savvy teenagers), then reversing the reverse may be useful or perhaps using some form of cloaking to confusethe actual method being used. It can help if it seems that you do not care what decision they actually make.

There is a danger of reverse psychology backfiring, such as when the person realizes that you are trying to manipulate them and deliberately follows your suggestion as subtle revenge. Even if they believe you, they may also judge you as bad in some way for not making good decisions.

Another danger is that there is often more than one alternative to what you are suggesting and the person chooses just something else rather than the 'opposite' that you intend.

Rather than cause reactance, you can give indication that you are not forcing their decision, but still implant the suggestion in a self-reversing denial, for example by saying 'I'm not saying you should X'. The person now has to consider X but as they are not being asked to do it, they may now take it on board.

Kwa kifupi ana tatizo la kisaikolojia.

 

[South]

Watanzaniaa tunatakaa maendeleoo mkuu c habarii za kishambaa kamaa hzoo rais unaangaikaa na wakinaa ney ilii iwejee iv unamkumbukaa romaa na ngomaa zakee kipindii cha jk ulishamsikiaa jk akiongeleaa chcht au alikiuwaa anafanyaa yakee kamaa rais .....kiukwel walioamuaa magu awee rais hawakuwaa sahihi hataa kidogoo nchii anaiongozaa km vilee anaongozaa families yakee ....kiufupii hanaa jipyaa ........2020usinipangiee.........

Muda mwingi anatumia ktk mambo ambayo hayana faida kwa jamii

 

[DiasporaUSA]

Kuna watu kwenye hili jukwaa mpo kimya sana...Kama mnafikiri mna freedom ya kukaa kimya, Be careful, nasema watch it, not to that extent.

 

[marveljt]

Hapo kaona kaingia chaka. Baada ya kuona bbc wameitoa hewani na swala la nape lilivyoripotiwa akaona anaenda pabaya. Ingekuwa ni busara angeacha na wa i'm sorry jk

 

[South]

Kuna watu kwenye hili jukwaa mpo kimya sana...Kama mnafikiri mna freedom ya kukaa kimya, Be careful, nasema watch it, not to that extent.

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[jambo leo]

Wateule wake wamebaki kama picha tu katika nafasi zao wakitoa tamko baadae unakuta katengua

Kamaa anayawezaa kusimamiaa yotee mwenyewee bora awaondoee wa chinii yakee mkuu au ww unaonajee

 

[South]

Kamaa anayawezaa kusimamiaa yotee mwenyewee bora awaondoee wa chinii yakee mkuu au ww unaonajee

Ni katiba ndo inamzuia kufanya hivyo

 

[FRANCIS DA DON]

Kwa kifupi ana tatizo la kisaikolojia.

Hayo umesema wewe, sihusiki

 

[jambo leo]

Ni katiba ndo inamzuia kufanya hivyo

Ilaaa anataman ingwezekanaa angefanyaa maana akilii zakee anazijuaa mwenyewee

 

[South]

Hayo umesema wewe, sihusiki

[emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji23] [emoji115] acha uoga mkuu

 

[South]

Ilaaa anataman ingwezekanaa angefanyaa maana akilii zakee anazijuaa mwenyewee

Tujiandae tu kwa surprise za mh

 

[Hute]

h

Hata majina ya wakuu wa mikoa anakwambia alilala saa nane kukagua vyeti kuhakikisha anateua wenye sifa stahiki lakini Bashite na vyeti vyake alitusua

ahahahahaa, sasa kama alilala saa nane usiku anakagua vyeti vya watu wa mikoa 25 tu, uwezo wake wa kufanya kazi tuuweke kwenye level gani sasa? na bashite alionekana amefaulu...au kuna nini bashite alicompensate na elimu akajazia kwenye ukilaza akapita? si ajabu ndicho kinachomfanya alindwe kwa garama yeyote ile. bora hata mtu akose urais lakini bashite asiguswe.

 

[South]

h

ahahahahaa, sasa kama alilala saa nane usiku anakagua vyeti vya watu wa mikoa 25 tu, uwezo wake wa kufanya kazi tuuweke kwenye level gani sasa? na bashite alionekana amefaulu...au kuna nini bashite alicompensate na elimu akajazia kwenye ukilaza akapita? si ajabu ndicho kinachomfanya alindwe kwa garama yeyote ile. bora hata mtu akose urais lakini bashite asiguswe.

Mzee sijui kwanini kalikumbatia hilo jipu yani ni sawa na mtu akipenda anakua haoni wala hasikii juu ya ampendae