Pre-marital sex

[TUPACified]

No sex before marriage is a beautiful thing man, both ethically and religiously. And i would love to practice that when my time comes about 6, 7, or never years in the future. But for a no Jonas' brother like myself, I can't help but have some concerns.

If you're not a Mary (Mariam), then why should I be your Joseph? I mean, if she has already let a couple of other brothers in there, why should I be the one to wait? Is that Fair??

Surprises. Sometimes we may have everything, them four big letters, the loyalty, the chemistry is perfect, but we may be completely 2 different people when it comes to the nasty stuff grown married folks should be doing.
What if she's used to the 'Mandingo tribe', and I am of the 'Asian origin'? What if she don't give brains, and I like getting brains? What if it's the awful fish-berry flavor down there and I can't stand it? What if for such reason I can't perform my favorite game of operation Schoolboy Q talked about in the Studio? How will I be able to do the Cheaters' prayer with Chris Martin and mean it? ?

Beauty is on the inside, inside them clothes. I've seen/heard cases where by, a chic is so fine when them clothes on, but not so when they are off. For example, the 2 devils on her chest may be so provocative when they're covered, but so shy they're hardly holding on when they got nothing to support them, may be I'm too hairy for her liking, maybe she got some weird tats I may not like, maybe the wrinkles and what not on her body give me nightmares. Would I not feel tricked and trapped once committed??

Some Health issues. What if she has Vaginismus, and so I can't penetrate?, or I have that situation where i can't get my little man active when I'm with her, no matter how hard i try, but it ain't the case with other women? What if I won't have a heart to face such issues and seek help??

Basically, what I'm trying to say is, if we are going to be dealing with any of the problems, at least lets have the satisfaction of doing so because we want to, not because we have to. That way we save each other a lot of unnecessary arguments and fights.

 

[FERTILIZER]

Sex before merital is important since it creates a strong love among those concerned

 

[Tized]

I can only imagine.
Anyway, Let dog eat dogs, cats as well. The contrary is null and void.

You are an interesting writter TUPACified.

 

[FERTILIZER]

Sex before merital is important since it creates a strong love among those concerned

 

[TUPACified]

I can only imagine.
Anyway, Let dog eat dogs, cats as well. The contrary is null and void.

You are an interesting writter TUPACified.

Thanx Brother, i'm only trying.

 

[Tized]

Thank you. Its a humble comment. You can only get better.

Thanx Brother, i'm only trying.

 

[TUPACified]

Thank you. Its a humble comment. You can only get better.

Amen to that.

 

[kabanga]

It's possible to stay away till marriage....but now days it's difficult to practice.....

 

[Tamalisa]

Amen to that.

Ha ha ha hili jibu lako linanipa wasiwasi

 

[TUPACified]

Ha ha ha hili jibu lako linanipa wasiwasi

?? kivipi tena?

 

[gasgas]

i'd rather follow what my God told me because i know it is for my own good.
God's commands are to guide us towards the right direction.
Follow what He says, you save yourself a lot of trouble.
If i step out in faith against all odds and choose to walk the line and follow what He told me, isn't God faithful enough to show me the right person/match for me.
humanly ways seem tempting and satisfying but they lead to a dead end.

 

[Capt Nemo]

Unfortunately we have the guarantee of only one thing in life (death notwithstanding) and that is kwamba we cant have a guarantee on anything in life, right? of course we are guaranteed that.

"What if" is the order of the day..now here is the million dollar "what if"...What if you do the pre-marital thing and you are satisfied and you marry..and after one week in marriage..boooom! your wife gets an accident and she got to be stitched her honeything, leaving only a small opening for urination?

 

[TUPACified]

i'd rather follow what my God told me because i know it is for my own good.
God's commands are to guide us towards the right direction.
Follow what He says, you save yourself a lot of trouble.
If i step out in faith against all odds and choose to walk the line and follow what He told me, isn't God faithful enough to show me the right person/match for me.
humanly ways seem tempting and satisfying but they lead to a dead end.

i hear you gasgas, i know i gotta let go of my worries and let God deal with them. Thanx for the wisdom right there

 

[gasgas]

i hear you gasgas, i know i gotta let go of my worries and let God deal with them. Thanx for the wisdom right there

you're welcome.
i have seen marriages founded upon God,
with both the man and woman virgins as they enter the marriae and with Godly principles they are the best marriages i have seen around. i am inspired to follow the right way no matter the challenges because the reward is very big

 

[TUPACified]

Unfortunately we have the guarantee of only one thing in life (death notwithstanding) and that is kwamba we cant have a guarantee on anything in life, right? of course we are guaranteed that.

"What if" is the order of the day..now here is the million dollar "what if"...What if you do the pre-marital thing and you are satisfied and you marry..and after one week in marriage..boooom! your wife gets an accident and she got to be stitched her honeything, leaving only a small opening for urination?

hahaha bruv! honeything what?? Tema hiyo mate chini bana. Why would you even think that man?

Anyway, i think that's where the saying 'don't cross your bridge til you come to it' applies. Don't use that saying against me in those concerns i raised tho

 

[TUPACified]

you're welcome.
i have seen marriages founded upon God,
with both the man and woman virgins as they enter the marriae and with Godly principles they are the best marriages i have seen around. i am inspired to follow the right way no matter the challenges because the reward is very big

Amen. I'll definitely try to build on that Boss, cos i got a special connection with my God too. Thanx again

 

[Capt Nemo]

hahaha bruv! honeything what?? Tema hiyo mate chini bana. Why would you even think that man?

Anyway, i think that's where the saying 'don't cross your bridge til you come to it' applies. Don't use that saying against me in those concerns i raised tho

and you call it fair, limiting me to that extent? because that was the basis of my next argument..anyways thats that

 

[TUPACified]

and you call it fair, limiting me to that extent? because that was the basis of my next argument..anyways thats that

hahaha ikr. Btw, tho i truly have those concerns, they ain't really that much a big deal to me. To my lame defence, i'm still practicing my writing skills, and that's the topic i could flow atm.

But i'm open to some extra knowledge and wisdom off of that bruv.

 

[Capt Nemo]

hahaha ikr. Btw, tho i truly have those concerns, they ain't really that much a big deal to me. To my lame defence, i'm still practicing my writing skills, and that's the topic i could flow atm.

But i'm open to some extra knowledge and wisdom off of that bruv.

Your writing skill practices are going hand-in-glove with unearthing interesting and educative topics.

Well to tell the truth no one can ever arrive at the conclusive end..but what matters is to what extent are you bent on getting the maximum out of life...
I mean in our forefathers era usually the bride met with the groom on the wedding day for the first tym..and they learnt (sometimes the hard way) to live together and all that..in life if u say "I can live with this", then you can live with it...

thats why I believe it is possible to learn to love someone..when you decide to focus on the positive traits of the person and take the negative as only humanity

 

[TUPACified]

Your writing skill practices are going hand-in-glove with unearthing interesting and educative topics.

Well to tell the truth no one can ever arrive at the conclusive end..but what matters is to what extent are you bent on getting the maximum out of life...
I mean in our forefathers era usually the bride met with the groom on the wedding day for the first tym..and they learnt (sometimes the hard way) to live together and all that..in life if u say "I can live with this", then you can live with it...

thats why I believe it is possible to learn to love someone..when you decide to focus on the positive traits of the person and take the negative as only humanity

i see where you coming from man, and there are some societies still practising such. Like you said, i believe too that we can manipulate our minds to deal with whatever situations we wish them to, tho it ain't an easy job.