Naomba ushauri

ram · Aug 4, 2011

Nilikuwa kwenye relationship na mtu for three years now. Mwaka huu mwanzoni nikaanza kuona changes kutoka kwake, na kikubwa hata mapenzi nikaona kabisa yamepungua achilia mbali mambo mengine, ilipofika mwezi wa tano, nikaona nashindwa kabisa, nikamwambia naomba tufikie mwisho manake tunakoelekea binafsi sipendi.

Akanijibu hapana hawezi kuniacha na wala hatakubali kunipoteza na mapenzi yakarudi kama tulivyokuwa awali. Kinachonifanya niombe ushauri kwenu ni hili lilitokea wiki moja iliyopita, kanipigia simu kaniambia anaomba tufikie mwisho haitaji tena kuwa na mimi na anaomba niheshimu maamuzi yake.

Ukweli nimeumia sana kwa sababu mimi nilikuwa wakwanza kumwambia tuachane akakataa, akarudisha mapenzi moto moto then kaniacha ghafla, inaniuma coz kanipotezea muda for three years na wakati tunaanza relationship yetu nilikuwa na boyfriend na alisababisha tukaachana.

Nishaurini nifanye nini

Mr Rocky · Aug 4, 2011

Kaona kuna kitu hapo hawezi kukirekebisha hata baada ya kurudisha penzi upya. Yaani kuna upungufu ameuona na unao toka mwanzo ila hapo kati alirudisha mapenzi aone kama itarekebishika ila kaona hakuna kitu bora ajiondoe mapema

IGWE · Aug 4, 2011

tatizo silioni,jamaa kakuambia hisia zake ambazo nawe kipindi fulani ulikua nazo,......sasa unalalama kitu gani,..amka_kung'uta vumbi na uanze maisha mapya,..au unataka uje umuumize yeye ndio ufurahi?........take it easy

ndetichia · Aug 4, 2011

let it go will be ok after 3 to 2 day...

Yasmin · Aug 4, 2011

ram said:
Nilikuwa kwenye relationship na mtu for three years now. Mwaka huu mwanzoni nikaanza kuona changes kutoka kwake, na kikubwa hata mapenzi nikaona kabisa yamepungua achilia mbali mambo mengine, ilipofika mwezi wa tano, nikaona nashindwa kabisa, nikamwambia naomba tufikie mwisho manake tunakoelekea binafsi sipendi. 
 
Akanijibu hapana hawezi kuniacha na wala hatakubali kunipoteza na mapenzi yakarudi kama tulivyokuwa awali. Kinachonifanya niombe ushauri kwenu ni hili lilitokea wiki moja iliyopita, kanipigia simu kaniambia anaomba tufikie mwisho haitaji tena kuwa na mimi na anaomba niheshimu maamuzi yake. 
 
Ukweli nimeumia sana kwa sababu mimi nilikuwa wakwanza kumwambia tuachane akakataa, akarudisha mapenzi moto moto then kaniacha ghafla, inaniuma coz kanipotezea muda for three years na wakati tunaanza relationship yetu nilikuwa na boyfriend na alisababisha tukaachana. 
 
Nishaurini nifanye nini

just move on with life its not the end of world

IGWE · Aug 4, 2011

yasmin said:
 
 
just move on with life its not the end of world

life goes on,.........

Dr Lizzy · Aug 4, 2011

Labda kaona nae utakuja kumwacha kwaajili ya mtu mwingine.

Pole...songa mbele!!!

Tulizo · Aug 4, 2011

Sidhani kama hiyo ni dalili nzuri kama unataka uwe na long term relationship...kwani in short term ..Unaweza kubembeleza akakubali kuendelea tena..lakini baada ya muda.. Back to square one!

Jibu unalo..unampenda yule anayekupenda na kukuthamini..unless kama nia yako ni kufanya mazoezi ya mapenzi tu!

First Born · Aug 4, 2011

ram said:
Nilikuwa kwenye relationship na mtu for three years now. Mwaka huu mwanzoni nikaanza kuona changes kutoka kwake, na kikubwa hata mapenzi nikaona kabisa yamepungua achilia mbali mambo mengine, ilipofika mwezi wa tano, nikaona nashindwa kabisa, nikamwambia naomba tufikie mwisho manake tunakoelekea binafsi sipendi.

Akanijibu hapana hawezi kuniacha na wala hatakubali kunipoteza na mapenzi yakarudi kama tulivyokuwa awali. Kinachonifanya niombe ushauri kwenu ni hili lilitokea wiki moja iliyopita, kanipigia simu kaniambia anaomba tufikie mwisho haitaji tena kuwa na mimi na anaomba niheshimu maamuzi yake.

Ukweli nimeumia sana kwa sababu mimi nilikuwa wakwanza kumwambia tuachane akakataa, akarudisha mapenzi moto moto then kaniacha ghafla, inaniuma coz kanipotezea muda for three years na wakati tunaanza relationship yetu nilikuwa na boyfriend na alisababisha tukaachana.

Nishaurini nifanye nini

ujanja ni kuwahi, nimempenda sana kwani alichokifanya hapo ni kuhamisha maumivu upande wa pili.....
siku nyingine jitahidi kusoma alama za nyakati

by the way pole sana najua ni jinsi gani inauma ila ndo hivyo yameshatokea huna namna.

ram · Aug 4, 2011

Yasmin said:
 
 
just move on with life its not the end of world

Asante Yasmin

ram · Aug 4, 2011

Lizzy said:
Labda kaona nae utakuja kumwacha kwaajili ya mtu mwingine.

Pole...songa mbele!!!

Asante Lizzy! Mimi nilivyoona kabadilika ndo nikamwambia tuachane, akakataa katakata, ghafla kanigeuzia kibao! Nitafanyia kazi ushauri wako

Speaker · Aug 4, 2011

Lizzy said:
Labda kaona nae utakuja kumwacha kwaajili ya mtu mwingine.

Pole...songa mbele!!!

Sure,mara nyingi watu hua tunaona kumwambia mtu "nakupenda na yule simtaki tena" ni statement
nzuri sana kuonesha kiasi gani unampenda huyo unae mwambia hivo,...

Lakini ndani ya mawazo ya unae mwambia ni kwamba "ipo siku ataniacha hivi hivi na mimi"
Lakini pia,yawezekana alitaka kukuonesha yeye ni "kidume",....kwamba hatoswi ila anatosa,...

Nakumbuka kuna jamaa alikua na "style",akiona binti anakaribia kumtosa au labda kamtosa,
basi atafanya kila awezalo ili ampate tena,amwoneshe kumpenda sana (amvute kwake kiukweli ukweli)
then amwoneshe ni kiasi gani aliumia pale alipo muacha,,...

Ila sister songa mbele,wala usije lipiza kisasi kwa mtu mwingine,kisasi sio kazi yako ni kazi ya Mungu

Ave Ave Maria · Aug 4, 2011

What the hell is this? Unabreak up with ur man because of another boyfriend.....huh! Umeona sasa wanaume jinsi walivyo wanafiki eeh? Yaani hapo keshahisi kwamba na yeye ungekuja kumuacha kama ulivomwacha wa kwanza. Pole sana but just accept the reality and face it no need to cry my dear, let it be the history!

Bishanga · Aug 4, 2011

ram said:
Nilikuwa kwenye relationship na mtu for three years now. Mwaka huu mwanzoni nikaanza kuona changes kutoka kwake, na kikubwa hata mapenzi nikaona kabisa yamepungua achilia mbali mambo mengine, ilipofika mwezi wa tano, nikaona nashindwa kabisa, nikamwambia naomba tufikie mwisho manake tunakoelekea binafsi sipendi.

Akanijibu hapana hawezi kuniacha na wala hatakubali kunipoteza na mapenzi yakarudi kama tulivyokuwa awali. Kinachonifanya niombe ushauri kwenu ni hili lilitokea wiki moja iliyopita, kanipigia simu kaniambia anaomba tufikie mwisho haitaji tena kuwa na mimi na anaomba niheshimu maamuzi yake.

Ukweli nimeumia sana kwa sababu mimi nilikuwa wakwanza kumwambia tuachane akakataa, akarudisha mapenzi moto moto then kaniacha ghafla, inaniuma coz kanipotezea muda for three years na wakati tunaanza relationship yetu nilikuwa na boyfriend na alisababisha tukaachana.

Nishaurini nifanye nini

Hii accusation ya 'kanipotezea muda' huwa inanisumbua.Ninachofahamu mimi muda ni collection ya moments,sasa hizo moments ambazo mlikuwa mnapagawaishana nazo unazihesabu kuwa ulikuwa ni upotevu wa muda? jamani si uli enjoy moments hizo? It takes two to tangle, kama muda wako unaona ulipotea basi ujue na wa kwake ulipotea pia.
Ushauri wangu: Maisha ni mchakato wa kujifunza hadi tuingie kaburini,chukua mema uliyojifunza katika mahusiano hayo and then MOVE ON!

TECHMAN · Aug 4, 2011

ram said:
Nilikuwa kwenye relationship na mtu for three years now. Mwaka huu mwanzoni nikaanza kuona changes kutoka kwake, na kikubwa hata mapenzi nikaona kabisa yamepungua achilia mbali mambo mengine, ilipofika mwezi wa tano, nikaona nashindwa kabisa, nikamwambia naomba tufikie mwisho manake tunakoelekea binafsi sipendi.

Akanijibu hapana hawezi kuniacha na wala hatakubali kunipoteza na mapenzi yakarudi kama tulivyokuwa awali. Kinachonifanya niombe ushauri kwenu ni hili lilitokea wiki moja iliyopita, kanipigia simu kaniambia anaomba tufikie mwisho haitaji tena kuwa na mimi na anaomba niheshimu maamuzi yake.

Ukweli nimeumia sana kwa sababu mimi nilikuwa wakwanza kumwambia tuachane akakataa, akarudisha mapenzi moto moto then kaniacha ghafla, inaniuma coz kanipotezea muda for three years na wakati tunaanza relationship yetu nilikuwa na boyfriend na alisababisha tukaachana.

Nishaurini nifanye nini

Kiukweli, wanaume hawapendi kuachwa, ila wanapenda wao kuacha, Inavyoonyesha alikuwa hayuko na wewe kitambo ulipompa wazo la kuachana akatumia ujanja ili muendelee kisha yeye akuache,
katika relation especial ya muda mrefu kama yenu, nirahisi kujua mapema if thing is there or no, nashangaa kwanini wewe hukutilia maanani hilo kwakuwa uliliona kabla, usikate tamaa, maisha ndo yalivyo, cha muhimu ni kukaa chini na kujipanga upya, when time comes atatokea mwingine atakaye kujali na kukupenda kwa dhati. kama ni mwanafunzi tumia muda wako mwingi kusoma na kama ni mfanyakazi tumia muda mwingi katika kazi na shunguli zako za binafsi, acha kumuwaza, mara nyingi wanawake mnakuwa na huruma sana, inaweza ikatokea this x-boy of yours akukurudia tena akiomba msamaha, nakushauri usije kufanya kosa kumruhusu tena moyoni kwani anaweza akaja kukuumiza zaidi ya hivi.
KAA ukijua kuwa wewe sio wa kwanza kupitia hili. TAKE CARE

TECHMAN · Aug 4, 2011

kipipi said:
what the hell is this? Unabreak up with ur man because of another boyfriend.....huh! Umeona sasa wanaume jinsi walivyo wanafiki eeh? Yaani hapo keshahisi kwamba na yeye ungekuja kumuacha kama ulivomwacha wa kwanza. Pole sana but just accept the reality and face it no need to cry my dear, let it be the history!

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watch your keyboard

Remmy · Aug 4, 2011

Pole sana! sio mwisho wa maisha, songa mbele yupo special for u, u just wait.

BADILI TABIA · Aug 4, 2011

chapa lapa hamna ki2 hapo

The Boss · Aug 4, 2011

kubali yameisha

accept it gracefully

ram · Aug 5, 2011

The Boss said:
kubali yameisha

accept it gracefully

Nawashukuru sana wanajamvi wote kwa ushauri mlionipatia, nitayafanyia kazi yote na zaid sana namuomba Mungu aendelee kunisaidia kwa kunipa moyo wa uvumilivu, moyo wa kusamehe na moyo wa kusahau pia, ni kweli sio mwisho wa maisha!

Big up kwa wote!

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