Msimu wa mapenzi mubashara: Valentine's Quotes

Msimu wa mapenzi mubashara: Valentine's Quotes

You may not love me like I love you,You may not care for me like I care for you But if you ever need me, I will always be around for you.
 
You greeted me hi, I didn't reply. You gave me a sweet smile, I responded with a sigh. You showed me your love, you received a shrug. But when you bid goodbye I began to cry.
 
How To Love A Man
1. Start by Loving Yourself
As I said to the men, this is not being selfish. If you are unable to love yourself you are unable to love someone else.
Women often have trouble with this because they spend too much time loving others. They can airbrush themselves out of the picture and use up all their love on their man, their children and others.
Loving yourself is the basis of life and the basis of a balanced personality. How can you take another’s love for you seriously if you don’t belief you are worth loving?
 
2. Just Love Him For Himself
Men have many qualities we love, perhaps they’re strong, or sexy, or inspirational, or funny, or even rich. Understand that this is not why you love him, you love him just because of him, nothing else.
Your love is not conditional, it is not based on any special qualities. You love him.
Men, however, often think that it’s their special blend of qualities that attracts you. Encourage your man to understand that it’s not those qualities but their being themselves that you love. This is so crucial in knowing how to love a man.
 
3. Live In Your Femininity
Whilst you may want to impress the man you love you must not stop being the woman you are. Your love should come from inside yourself, from your very soul. The love must be part of your femininity — however you express it — and be part of how you live.
Remain just who you are, be the woman he met and fell in love with, that’s how to love a man.
He finds excitement in your femininity, particularly when it laced with love. Don’t ever let him down.
 
4. Don’t Be His Mother
Men often retain a bond with their mother and like to be looked after by them. Don’t drift into being his mother or try to supercede her. He needs you as a lover.
Women can end up just taking care of their man and men accept this. This is potentially disastrous. He doesn’t really want this from you.
This is especially true after you have children. Take care you still treat him as your lover, this will be what he is missing.
 

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