Mapenzi yanapogeuka CHUKI na kupelekea MAUAJI

[candymarry]

Habari wana Jf/MMU, ni kwa muda sasa tumekuwa tukipata habari za kusikitisha sana,nyingi zikihusisha wapenzi/wanandoa kuuana mara baada ya migogoro ya muda mrefu kati yao,yote hii ni kutokana na upande mmoja kuto kukubaliana na swala la wapenzi hao kuachana!, hasa hasa ni upande wa wenzetu wanaume kuto kukubali swala zima la kuachwa! kitu ambacho hutokea pia pale wawili wanapoamua kuwa wapenzi...nimejiuliza kwanini mtu anaamua kufikia kufanya maamuzi ya kinyama ya kukatisha uhai wa mpenzi/mke wake kisa ameachwa!? hebu wana Great Thinkers tujadili kuhusu hili..kwanini mtu usikubali matokeo kama alivyokubali matokeo ya mwanzo kwamba umekuwa wapenzi lakini at the end of the day "No one knows what the future holds"

 

[Blue G]

Ni vizuri kukubaliana na hali halisi sema ndo hivyo ni wachache sana wanaoweza kuafford maumivu ya kuwa malooser na hivyo kujikuta wakifanya maamuzi ya kuondosha uhai wa mtu duniani,mara nyingi sababu huwa ni za kijinga mfano wa sababu zenyewe:
1.kuamni kuwa aliyekuacha atafaidi sana akiishi na mtu mwingine

2.kuamini yule aliyekuacha aliumbwa kwa ajili yako tu hamna mwingine anayepaswa kuwa naye(sasa kama unalijua hilo kwa nini usimfurahishe ili kwa kweli ionekane wazi kuwa mliumbwa ili mkamilishane?kutwa kumpiga kumuudhi afu still unadai hakuna mwingine wa kuishi naye ila wewe)

3.bora tukose wote uliyeachwa na aliyekubadili(kukosa kujiamani na kutokubali kushindwa)

sababu huwa ni nyingi lakini yote kwa yote tunapaswa kufikia wakati tujitambue na kuwa tayari kushindwa hata ikiwa utaumia vipi,hakunaga maumivu yaisiyoisha kuna siku tu maumivu yako yatakwisha tu na utaishi kawaida tena na kumpata mtakayependana tena,na tukumbuka hakuna njia nzuri ya kumfanya aliyekuacha ajutie kukuacha kama kuishi maisha ya furaha zaidi hata bila ya yeye,hiyo ndo adhabu peke inayomfaa na sio kumuua hapo unakuwa umempunguzia adha zilizo katika ulimwengu huu,na sikuzote utasumbuka na nafsi yako kwa kuua kwa nini uteseka kiasi hicho?

 

[Heaven on Earth]

Kuna article fulani kuwa naisoma nilipewa na EMT kokote alipo
na moja ya maelezo kuna hii part

"She was everything to me. She was my soul. You don't always kill a woman or feel jealousy about a woman or shout at a woman because you hate her. No. Because you love her, that's love. My wife was the kind of woman you'd never murder in your life, unless it was for love, because of madness, at that moment, at that moment a person loses everything, he doesn't think, it's a moment of madness. ...

The only thing that I can say is that she was more honest than a Torah Scroll. So why murder someone like that? ... At that moment, you don't remember. You don't remember anything. You don't know what you're doing. Love makes a person stupid. Or maybe, maybe it's not worthwhile loving a woman so much. Maybe you have to love less, less madly, that's the madness of love. ...

It's written this way in the Bible, that woman-maybe they mean a woman stranger, but it's my wife, but I'll tell you: 'A good man before God will flee from her, the sinner will be trapped by her.' Did you understand that verse? Maybe I wasn't good before God. Maybe I was a sinner. I was trapped by her. What is that trap? It's love."

 

[Daud omar]

Ni ngumu kumesa, hasa ukiwa umeinvest as if you will be there 4ever

 

[promiseme]

Wengine inakua hawawezi kusema na roho zao na zaidi akiona huyo ulienae sasa mnaelewana au Mungu amewajalia uwezo wakubadili mboga basi ndio inakua mwao,kaniona sifai mara alikua nae tangu zamani mm ndio nilikua nafanywa babu jinga,
ukute na wapambe nao wanazidi kuchochea akili yake tumemuona shem Mashallah mambo safai na amenenepaje!!
kumbe umeridhika na kula nguru na ugali.........

 

[candymarry]

Ni vizuri kukubaliana na hali halisi sema ndo hivyo ni wachache sana wanaoweza kuafford maumivu ya kuwa malooser na hivyo kujikuta wakifanya maamuzi ya kuondosha uhai wa mtu duniani,mara nyingi sababu huwa ni za kijinga mfano wa sababu zenyewe:
1.kuamni kuwa aliyekuacha atafaidi sana akiishi na mtu mwingine

2.kuamini yule aliyekuacha aliumbwa kwa ajili yako tu hamna mwingine anayepaswa kuwa naye(sasa kama unalijua hilo kwa nini usimfurahishe ili kwa kweli ionekane wazi kuwa mliumbwa ili mkamilishane?kutwa kumpiga kumuudhi afu still unadai hakuna mwingine wa kuishi naye ila wewe)

3.bora tukose wote uliyeachwa na aliyekubadili(kukosa kujiamani na kutokubali kushindwa)

sababu huwa ni nyingi lakini yote kwa yote tunapaswa kufikia wakati tujitambue na kuwa tayari kushindwa hata ikiwa utaumia vipi,hakunaga maumivu yaisiyoisha kuna siku tu maumivu yako yatakwisha tu na utaishi kawaida tena na kumpata mtakayependana tena,na tukumbuka hakuna njia nzuri ya kumfanya aliyekuacha ajutie kukuacha kama kuishi maisha ya furaha zaidi hata bila ya yeye,hiyo ndo adhabu peke inayomfaa na sio kumuua hapo unakuwa umempunguzia adha zilizo katika ulimwengu huu,na sikuzote utasumbuka na nafsi yako kwa kuua kwa nini uteseka kiasi hicho?

Nakubaliana na wewe mkuu, hili jambo kiukweli linanisikitisha sana kwani nimeona kwenye habari jinsi watu wasio na hatia wanavyouawa bila huruma na hta kuacha wahanga wengine wasio na hatia kama wazazi na watoto wa waliouana,,,lakini hii yote ni kutokujiamini na kutokukubaliana na ukweli na kutegemea kuwa maisha ni yale yale kila siku kwamba hakuna kitu kinaitwa kusalitiwa au kuachwa ndio shida

 

[sunna]

Kwa wachaga lasima damu imagike aisee

 

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Kwa wachaga lasima damu imagike aisee

Hahahaa haaaa
Ngoja wenyewe waje

 

[Misa]

Habari wana Jf/MMU, ni kwa muda sasa tumekuwa tukipata habari za kusikitisha sana,nyingi zikihusisha wapenzi/wanandoa kuuana mara baada ya migogoro ya muda mrefu kati yao,yote hii ni kutokana na upande mmoja kuto kukubaliana na swala la wapenzi hao kuachana!, hasa hasa ni upande wa wenzetu wanaume kuto kukubali swala zima la kuachwa! kitu ambacho hutokea pia pale wawili wanapoamua kuwa wapenzi...nimejiuliza kwanini mtu anaamua kufikia kufanya maamuzi ya kinyama ya kukatisha uhai wa mpenzi/mke wake kisa ameachwa!? hebu wana Great Thinkers tujadili kuhusu hili..kwanini mtu usikubali matokeo kama alivyokubali matokeo ya mwanzo kwamba umekuwa wapenzi lakini at the end of the day "No one knows what the future holds"

Hii issue iko so complex kama hujawahi kuwa na uhusiano halafu yakatokea sivyo,nimekutana na watu wengi wanauliza ni kwanini mtu anaamua kuua?watu wanashindwa kuelewa,mimi nilitaka kukodi watu wamuue mshenzi yule,pistol wala sio bei na kukodi watu sio issue kuna watu hawana kazi pesa ndogo tu,cha msingi uwe makini tu na kazi hiyo,jaribu kuangalia kiini cha ufoo na munisi ndio utapata jibu ni nini watu wanafikia hatua hii.msiulize tu kwanini watu wanafanya hivi angalia kila kesi ina kitu kizito ndani yake,watu hawaui tu ovyo,la sivyo mwanamke wako angekuwa akikuudhi kidogo tu,kusingekuwa na wanawake duniani saa hz ama ambao wangebaki wangekua na adabu kama Bibi zetu na mama zetu zamani.nawakilisha kibaridi@hotmail.com(Room to Read)