nafikiri sio njaa ila nafikiri ni kukosa upeo wa kuelewa tu mpendwa wangu.Kutokana na njaa njaa zetu nashida tulizonazo tumegeuza mapenzi kuwa fadhila' kitu ambacho sio kizuri na sio sahihi hata kidogo!!
Mapenzi ni upendo' na ndo maana Tunaambiwa upendo huvumilia!
Ukioa au kuolewa kwa fadhira' huwezi kuvumilia na ndo chanzo cha migongano mingi katika ndoa'' lakin pia ndo chanzo kikubwa cha ndoa nyingi kuvunjika!!
mkuu umenikumbusha neno hili kwambaAsante na karibu sana.
Nimeona location yako ''Heaven'' aisee vipi za uko? Yale makao tulienda kuandaliwa yameshamalizika?
I like your signature... ''He is God''.. creator of all within and without us. A mysterious Father whose ways are mysteriously uncomprehendable to our comon sense, though we claim to understand Him (He says His thinking is as far as Heaven and earth comparing to ours)... Who can really understand Him? Who can trully grasp His infinite Mercies? Who can truly comprehend His unfailing love to us? and What about us that He likes to have us loved that way?
Surely... Its nothing... we are simply dusts and we have nothing to take boast.
ni kweli kabisa vijana wanaongoza kwa kulipa visasi kisa tu penzi walilonyimwa.sioni kuwa mstaarabu hata kidogo ambae anataka kutenda unyama kisa hajapewa huduma-fadhila!
tena sisi vijana ndio kabisa......
kuna jambo moja la msingi sana ambalo wanaume wanasahau nalo ni huwez kumpata mke wa kweli kwasababu ya kumfadhili. yapo mambo mengine chungu nzima unayotakiwa ku-consider kabla kuamua nani awe mke.Wanaume wengi sasa wala hawapimi, wengi wanatumia uwezo wao kifedha kuteka mioyo ya wanawake huku wakijua kuwa wadada wanarubuniwa kirahisi kwa pesa. Hii imesababisha wanaume wengi sana kuumizwa kwenye mahusiano. Nashindwa kuelewa kwa nini utumie uwezo wako wa Mali na fedha kumshawishi mtu kuishi na wewe maisha yako yote?
Asante na karibu sana.
Nimeona location yako ''Heaven'' aisee vipi za uko? Yale makao tulienda kuandaliwa yameshamalizika?
I like your signature... ''He is God''.. creator of all within and without us. The very LOVING and CARING FATHER, yet very mysterious with mysteriously uncomprehendable ways to our comon thinking, though we claim to understand Him (He says His thinking is as far as Heaven and earth comparing to ours)...
By the way Who can really understand Him? Who can trully grasp His infinite Mercies? Who can truly comprehend His unfailing love to us? and What about us that He likes to have us loved that way? Surely... Its nothing... we are simply dusts and we have nothing to take boast.
Lets all of us take refuge in HIS LOVE as dearly loved Sons and Daughter of the Kingdom. For its neither by Mighty nor by our strength we are here today....
nipe michapo ya huko juu!!!
usijali Mungu naye husema hiviDah... Kongosho umenitachi screen aisee!!!
Nway ngoja tu niendelee kufanya nifanyayo ikitokea sawa na isipotokea ni sawa pua make hata mie nishasaidiwa saana tu na sina kitu ambacho ninaweza kuwalipa wale wote walionifikisha hapa nilipo!!!
Dada mkubwa gfsonwin sina cha kuongeza katika uzi huu ngoja nibaki msomaji tu.....
my broo
niliwah kumuuliza Kaizer my swtlo kwamba kwan alipokuwa ananioa alitegemea nini kutoka kwangu??
je alitegemea niwe malaika ama niwe na uwezo wa aina gani uzidio binadamu wengine?? ndipo akanijibu kweli nimekosea manake niliassume kwamba wewe si kama binadam wengine, kumbe nimepotoka tu. Hata kama ni mke wangu bado unabaki kuwa binadamu kama wengine.
na Mungu mwenyewe alishasema kwamba sote tumepungukiwa na utukufu wake alokuwa mtakatifu aliakuwa ni Kristo tu.Hahahaa.. Hapo alikumaliza kabisa. Huo ndio mtazamo sahihi hakuna malaika duniani.
Nadhani ungekua huu ndio mtazamo wa wengi kuvumiliana kungekuwa kupo kwa kiasi kikubwa sana... siku hizi mahusiano mengi yanadoda kwa kuwa na Mr Right/ Mr Perfect wengi na vile vile Ms Right/Perfect wengi... au kama hawako perfect wanataka kupata watu perfect ambao kiuhalisia hawapogo Duniani. aliwahi kuishi mmoja tu tena kwa miaka 33 pekee.
(hata huyu japo alikuwa perfect kwa watu wasio perfect bado walimuona naye ni tatizo) hope am not confusing
Shemeji Kaizer kwema?
you have said it correctly my sweetheart.
Wana MMU herini ya mwaka mpya!
Nawapenda sana,
Haya naombeni mnijibu swali langu hili kama mapenzi/upendo ni fadhila?.
Sijui kama mtanielewa lakini naombeni mnielewe tu manake nimekuwa nakosa jibu juu ya swali hili.
Kila siku utakuta mtu analalamika mie bwana fulan nilimfanyia hivi bi fulan ama mie bi fulani nilimtendea hivi bwana fulani nikijua atakuwa mume/mke lakini mwisho wa siku kaniacha kaoa/kaolewa na mwingine.
sasa je wewe ulitenda hayo ili ulipwe fadhila?
nafikiri sio sahihi kusema mapenzi ni kitendo cha kufanya ngono.......manake neno 'kufanya mapenzi' hili humaanisha ngono.Wakati mwingine mapenzi na kitendo cha kufanya ngono hutumika kumaanisha kitu kimoja. Kama maana yako ndio hiyo, mapenzi hutumika kulipa fadhila katika mazingira fulani. Hii hasa hutokea kwa baadhi ya akina dada ambao huona hawana njia nyingine ya kulipa fadhila zaidi ya kuwa tayari kufanya ngono na mwanaume kama ishara ya shukurani. Na kwa kweli haiwi na wala hawasemi moja kwa moja bali huonyesha kila dalali ya kuwa tayari kwa hilo na inabidi mwanaume ang'amue hilo ili aweze "kuomba"
Mara nyingi bila hata kulipa fadhila, mwanamke akimpenda mwanaume hutengeneza hayo mazingira ili mwanaume amtongoze. Lakini asipokuwa na uwezo wa kusoma ishara hizo, baada ya muda mwanamke ataamini pengine jamaa hana interest naye na mwishowe husepa.
na Mungu mwenyewe alishasema kwamba sote tumepungukiwa na utukufu wake alokuwa mtakatifu aliakuwa ni Kristo tu.
swlai linakuja kwamba vijana wengi wadogo hawajui maisha bado wanadhan wanayoish ni maisgizo na kwamba ipo siku maisha halisi yatakuja kumbe si kweli. kwasababuw anayoish ndio maisha halisi.
hongera kwa kuwa tofauti na kuona si vyema kutumia shida za mwenzio ili akulipe kwa ngono ki kweli baadhi ya wanaume hutumia shida za wanawake kwa kuwasaidia ili baadae wawalipe kwa ngono nimeishuhudia hii kitu kikweli inaudhi sanaHeri ya mwaka mpya nawe ''Neambatso baana'' Hii kitu imekuwa kama kulipa fadhila. Baadhi ya wanawake pia wameweka akili yao hivyo... Nimewahi kung'ang'aniwa kulipwa fadhila kwa namna hio na wasichaa tofauti... kila mmoja nilikua msaada kwake kwa namna flani hivi. Na mamna waliodhani kunishukuru waliona kusema asante haitoshi ni hadi ngono maana wengi wanafikiri tunaithamini sana (si kweli).... Hii dunia hii!!..... Pia baadhi yetu wanaume tunatumia shida za wanawak kujinufaish kingono au kimahusiano.... Hii ni mbaya Nachojua ni kitu kibaya sana kutumia SHIDA au MATATIZO Ya mwanadamu mwenzako kujinufaisha kwa jina la MSAADA. Ila ikawa kupitia msaada mengine yametokea na hayakuwa msingi wa huo msaada... well and fine.
hongera kwa kuwa tofauti na kuona si vyema kutumia shida za mwenzio ili akulipe kwa ngono ki kweli baadhi ya wanaume hutumia shida za wanawake kwa kuwasaidia ili baadae wawalipe kwa ngono nimeishuhudia hii kitu kikweli inaudhi sana
sana tu, siwaona wakipata kitu kidogo fujo wanazofanya....?ni kweli kabisa vijana wanaongoza kwa kulipa visasi kisa tu penzi walilonyimwa.
kwangu mimi inabidi vijana wadogo tuanze kuwafunza kwamba maisha hayalazimishwi manake ukilazimisha yatakuja kukuumiza baadae.