Umetoka nyumbani unaamua kuingia kanisani japo kupunguza stress za ugumu wa maisha na matatizo mbalimbali lakini humo kanisani unakutana na michango isiyoisha tena kwa lazima.
Nijuavyo mimi sadaka ni kile ambacho mtu amejaaliwa kukipata
Sasa eti kuna makanisa mpaka wameweka viwango sadaka isiwe chini ya kiasi flani, bado shukrani, bado fungu la 10, bado sadaka ya utumishi, bado sadaka ya madhabahu, bado sadaka ya malimbuko sijui nini. !
Mbaya zaidi kila mahubiri ni kusisitiza utoaji sadaka na michango tu.
Sio siri makanisa yetu mnakatisha tamaa kabisa ukute mtu ni mama wa nyumbani atapataje pesa yote hiyo kama sio mwanzo wa kugombana na mmewe.
Mungu atusaidie.
Mimi nilishaachana na hizo habari kitambo sana tu.
Sadaka nitatoa mwenyewe kwa jambo ninaloona mwenyewe linafaa.
Nilikuwa nasikiliza BBC World Service kama kawaida yangu, wakawa wanaongelea habari mpya nilikuwa sijawahi kuisikia.
Kawaida huwa kuna watu wanapenda kuwa dominated katika mahusiano, wanapenda kuna na ma "dominatrix", usually it is about the use of force and humiliation.
Sasa siku hizi kuna mpaka ma "financial dominatrix", kwa mfano mwanamke ana m control mwanamme anam dominate mpaka kwenye mambo ya fedha, mwanamme anampa pesa zake zote mwanamke (wengine mtasema mganga wake mzuri huyo mwanamke, lakini hamna uganga hapo)
Ulivyosema hiyo habari, nikakumbuka hawa "dominatrix", hao Wachungaji nao wanaweza kuwa katika kundi moja na ma"financial dominatrix".
The Wwashington Post did an article on this.
- The Washington Post
Meet the dominatrixes who control men where it really hurts: Their wallets
In a pastel-colored French patisserie in Beverly Hills, Mistress Harley sips on a Bellini topped with raspberries and scrolls through surveillance monitors on her Android. “Oh, look, there’s Ben!” she says, tapping on the screen with her long magenta nails. “He’s naked.”
Speaking into the microphone on the app Nest, which is usually used for things like home security and pet monitoring, Mistress Harley instructs the man to kneel on the floor and bow down to her. He obeys. “You can see that I’ve made him sell all his stuff and even his bed, so he sleeps on the floor,” Mistress Harley explains. “He lives in Sacramento. I’ve actually been considering buying a house in Sacramento and making him rent it from me.”
Mistress Harley — who, like many in this article, refuses to reveal her legal name citing privacy and safety concerns — isn’t forcing Ben to do anything he doesn’t want to do. He is paying her a weekly salary to monitor him throughout the day. Sometimes she likes to cackle at him in the middle of the night via speakers installed in his bedroom. Other times, she’ll demand that he eat only meals that resemble dog food and send her photos as proof.
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- The Washington Post