Majeruhi wa mapenzi, tushauriane tufanye nini

[Husninyo]

Mambo?
Ni matumaini yangu sote tumeuanza mwaka vizuri. Wagonjwa tunawaombea mpone haraka kabla hatujaimaliza January, inshallah.
Mapenzi matamu lakini machungu, asilimia kubwa tumewahi kuwatenda ama kutendwa na wenzi wetu. Wengine tumekuwa wabishi hata tukitendwa tunapenda tena.

Tunalia tunanyamaza lakini tunarudia yaleyale. Hapa naomba tusaidiane kwa waliokata tamaa ya kupenda, wanaoona mapenzi machungu na kuhisi mapenzi hayapo kwa ajili yao tena. Je tukitendwa ndio iwe mwisho wa kupenda? ni sahihi kukata tamaa mara baada ya kutendwa mara moja au mbili?
kuna namna yoyote ya kuzuia tusitendwe?

Tufanyeje jamani? kadri siku zinavyoenda mapenzi yanazidi kuwa machungu, hadi nakihurumia kizazi kijjacho. Nahisi kizazi kijacho kitaishia kupenda midoli na wanyama na si binadamu wenzao tena.

 

[The Boss]

treat mapenzi kama 'perfume'
usijaribu kuya treat kama chakula....

there is more in life than just 'relationships'

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

there is more in life than just 'relationships'

There is more to life than just 'relationships'.

 

[mzee Chibai]

Relationship siku hizi zimekua simple sana..watu hawapo serious tena.. Drama nyingi sana. Don't expect too much from it..
Amini usiamini watu hawapo serious tena,

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[MankaM]

treat mapenzi kama 'perfume'
usijaribu kuya treat kama chakula....

there is more in life than just 'relationships'

Mkuu ufafanuzi wa hili kama hutojali

 

[The Boss]

There is more to life than just 'relationships'.

thank you...niliandika hivyo nika change kumbe i was right....

 

[The Boss]

Mkuu ufafanuzi wa hili kama hutojali

meaning maisha yana mengi tu mazuri
marafiki,ndugu,kazi watoto..

usiumie tu kwa sababu huyo mmoja unaempenda amekuumiza

 

[MankaM]

Machungu yanatofautiana......
Ila sijawahi kata tamaa kiivyo

 

[Phoenix]

Mapenzi hayana mkufunzi,ila sio vibaya!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

thank you...niliandika hivyo nika change kumbe i was right....

Always go with your first instinct/ choice....

Nilifundishwa hivyo na professor mmoja kwenye mbinu za kujibu maswali ya multiple choice and it worked!

 

[MankaM]

meaning maisha yana mengi tu mazuri
marafiki,ndugu,kazi watoto..

usiumie tu kwa sababu huyo mmoja unaempenda amekuumiza

Hakika tutashinda Husninyo umeipata hii

 

[Miss Neddy]

ukitendwa unafuta vumbi unasonga mbele tatizo wengi wakitendwa lawama wanapeleka zaidi kwa mtendaji hajichunguzi yeye wapi alikosea ili uhusiano unaofata asitendwe tena ni hayo tu

 

[masai dada]

mapenzi sio uhai

jifunze kulet it goo

wala hutakua na stress yakija poa yasipokuja twende

enjoy life remember maisha sio milele

 

[MankaM]

mapenzi sio uhai

jifunze kulet it goo

wala hutakua na stress yakija poa yasipokuja twende

enjoy life remember maisha sio milele

Yakija poa yasipokuja poa.....

 

[Apologise lady]

My mim binafsi naona sie tunatizo la tukiwa na mtu tunahamishia akili, upendo wote, hisia nk. hii ndio inatumaliza.

Binafsi na amin binti ukijikubali na ukaiambia nafsi yako "nimechoka, nasimama mwenyewe nifanya mambo yangu hadi wakati ukifika nitapata mtu sahih" Amin usiamin. kwanza roho yako itasuuzika, then utajikuta unajiamin na hakika watatokea wanaume lukuki itakuwa kazi yako kuchagua nani ni sahihi kwako,

wanawake wengi tukitendwa kidogo tunalia miaka 2, unakonda bila sababu kisa nin? wanaume walivyo wengi ivi kha! kitu cha msingi nikujiamin na kuamin wew ni mwanamke kweli, ambapo hata asipokuwa yeye kuna mwingine atakuona, hahahaaaaa! nicheke mie.

mambo ya kulia kanitenda!, kanitenda! ndio tunawapa misifa hawa viumbe wasio bebeka, Hakuna kulia mtu akikutenda leo, hakikisha kesho anakuona tofauti na alivyokuacha, kwa maana akuone unapendeza na unafuraha iliyopitiliza hy peke yake ni revenge hawez kumtenda mwingine.

lakin pia akikutenda aliepita haimaamishi anayekuja nae anakutenda kama unadhani ni mtu sahih mwonyeshe mapenzi kwel, mfanye awe na aman na uhuru wa kwel, ili asije akajikuta anakuacha kwasababu ulimfanya kuwa muhanga wa mahusiano yako yaliyopita, jambo la msingi ni kuwa na tahadhari na vibazaz ambavyo vikijua bint umetendwa ndio vinakuja mbio kawa wanaume kwel kujifanya kukufariji kumbe ujinga mtupu.

ngoja niishie hapo kwanza.

 

[masai dada]

Yakija poa yasipokuja poa.....

yaaa sasa mtu anakua oriented as if bila mapenzi hawezi kuishi
mimi haya mambo matatu nayazingatia kwakweli na nitazidi kugombana na watu walioko na jtazamo yofauti

1.chakula
2.malazi
2.mavazi
KAMA HAYA NAPATA BASIII

amini usiamini kuwa single au kuyokua na mpenzi unaeza ukawa na amani kuliko ukiwa ane hii mara nyingi ipo
japo ni nature tu lazima ufanye sifa za kiumbe hai walau zote ikiwemo kuzaliana basi yakubidi uwe na jinsia nyingine
but blv me wat wengi wako stressful kwa ajili ya kuyapa mapenzi kipao mbele

 

[masai dada]

My mim binafsi naona sie tunatizo la tukiwa na mtu tunahamishia akili, upendo wote, hisia nk. hii ndio inatumaliza.

Binafsi na amin binti ukijikubali na ukaiambia nafsi yako "nimechoka, nasimama mwenyewe nifanya mambo yangu hadi wakati ukifika nitapata mtu sahih" Amin usiamin. kwanza roho yako itasuuzika, then utajikuta unajiamin na hakika watatokea wanaume lukuki itakuwa kazi yako kuchagua nani ni sahihi kwako,

wanawake wengi tukitendwa kidogo tunalia miaka 2, unakonda bila sababu kisa nin? wanaume walivyo wengi ivi kha! kitu cha msingi nikujiamin na kuamin wew ni mwanamke kweli, ambapo hata asipokuwa yeye kuna mwingine atakuona, hahahaaaaa! nicheke mie.

mambo ya kulia kanitenda!, kanitenda! ndio tunawapa misifa hawa viumbe wasio bebeka, Hakuna kulia mtu akikutenda leo, hakikisha kesho anakuona tofauti na alivyokuacha, kwa maana akuone unapendeza na unafuraha iliyopitiliza hy peke yake ni revenge hawez kumtenda mwingine.

lakin pia akikutenda aliepita haimaamishi anayekuja nae anakutenda kama unadhani ni mtu sahih mwonyeshe mapenzi kwel, mfanye awe na aman na uhuru wa kwel, ili asije akajikuta anakuacha kwasababu ulimfanya kuwa muhanga wa mahusiano yako yaliyopita, jambo la msingi ni kuwa na tahadhari na vibazaz ambavyo vikijua bint umetendwa ndio vinakuja mbio kawa wanaume kwel kujifanya kukufariji kumbe ujinga mtupu.

ngoja niishie hapo kwanza.

mi naliaga kama nilimpa papuchi lakini kama sikumpa
HATA AANDIKE GAZETI NAMUONA ---- tu
kwani shingapi.......

sililiii mtu hata sekunde labda tu NIMEMPA PAPUCHI

 

[KikulachoChako]

Machungu yanatofautiana......
Ila sijawahi kata tamaa kiivyo

Strong woman..

 

[masai dada]

Strong woman..

is the one who knows to let things go

 

[MankaM]

yaaa sasa mtu anakua oriented as if bila mapenzi hawezi kuishi
mimi haya mambo matatu nayazingatia kwakweli na nitazidi kugombana na watu walioko na jtazamo yofauti

1.chakula
2.malazi
2.mavazi
KAMA HAYA NAPATA BASIII

amini usiamini kuwa single au kuyokua na mpenzi unaeza ukawa na amani kuliko ukiwa ane hii mara nyingi ipo
japo ni nature tu lazima ufanye sifa za kiumbe hai walau zote ikiwemo kuzaliana basi yakubidi uwe na jinsia nyingine
but blv me wat wengi wako stressful kwa ajili ya kuyapa mapenzi kipao mbele

Aiseeee